Some of my adventures: Hooters girl, wedding dress, Victoria's Secret, Prom dress..

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Originally Posted by marie354

Is this like a frat thing?

I don't think that it belongs here at all.

We are serious about this kind of thing.

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Umm, no it's not a frat thing.

I'm sorry you don't think it belongs here.

I'm serious about this thing too.

I gotta go with Sharon on this one. We all want a little tolerance in this world, we should be able to show it to others. Do I like this stuff? NO. But that's not really the point, is it? If we only read what we liked, how boring would that be?

Lovies,
Steph

hi PINK
you have been a member since 2005 and only 14 posts , and now this .. i find it a bit of a shock , OK you had fun but there must have been a better way than this. and why not show your face you did every were else and please remember to respect the membership and one more thing i just love the hooters outfit

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Originally Posted by EricaCD

Far be it from me to judge other people's personal tastes. Into public humiliation? OK. Your humiliation is to manifest itself through crossdressing? Your business.

On the other hand, this forum is by and large for and about people learning to claim - and demand - their dignity and self-respect as crossdressers notwithstanding horrible social pressures and taboos that would leave us closeted, ostracized or worse. If you had troubled yourself to do some reading here, you probably would have learned that making a public joke of crossdressing would rub most of the people here the wrong way.

Oh...and if item number 31 on your list was "brag to a bunch of crossdressers about public activities that would make it harder for the rest of them to gain honest acceptance", then well done and you and your mistress should both jump in a lake.

Erica

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I think the "horrible social pressure and taboos" are largely misconceptions at this point. I have progressed a LONG way in my 20+ years of crossdressing and now have relatively no qualms about this. That is how I am able to do these things.

My motivations are not to make a public joke. Rather, to 1) prove that I can do this, 2) prove that it's often a bigger deal for me than for the "public" 3) challenge my own perceptions about the acceptibility in the world with this. If you had bothered to read my stories, you would see this. As I've said, I've been registered here 2 years and have read here longer than that.

There is a law of diminishing returns with this too, but that's another discussion.

And you've offended me with #31. Am I being too bold by asking for an apology?

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Originally Posted by marie354

It sure looks like this was just a frat prank to me!

Can anyone close this and barr them!

If it was serious they would have shown their face!

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Okay, why not ban everyone who has never shown their face on here too? :Angry3:

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Originally Posted by marie354

Really we should all shut up.... This is exactly the reaction that HE wants.

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Umm, no, it's not. Really you should stop being so quick to judge. I'm submissive but not masochistic. I don't enjoy being ridiculed and not tolerated on a site that should theoretically be more open to this than others...

Way to ostracize :mad:

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Originally Posted by ashleyinwpb

I again understand but the difference between being a sissy and this is the general aspect without definition of being grouped in the crossdress genre is, we each have a degree of responsibility to help the public become more understanding and its not by freaking out the kids and moms at the mall while wearing Britney Spears wannabe outfit dressing in DD bras. The line between perv and crossdresser tends to get blurry when this happens..maybe ten years from now it'll be fine but not now. Regards, Ash

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Aah...maybe ten years from now is sooner than you think. Maybe the public is ready but we are not? Hmm...why not "test the waters" as I have. Soon we'll be more protected as a group than the elderly, the military, pregnant women, and many others.

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Originally Posted by Cindyloo

Your in the wrong place Dude.

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Why is that? Because I don't show my face or shave my armpits? How that make me less a crossdresser than you or anyone else here?

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Originally Posted by Julogden

One of the things that really annoys me about this thread is that, in my opinion, the OP is not a crossdresser. He's a fetishist who is getting off on being publicly humiliated, the crossdressing is just something that his "mistress" uses to humiliate him.

I really feel that this thread doesn't belong here.

Carol

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Your opinion is wrong. I am a crossdresser, been diagnosed so by 4 different therapists throughout the years. I've never been a transvestic fetishist.

Think about what motivates one to seek a mistress. To be "forced" to do things that deep inside that person already wants to do, right? Well for me that's what it is anyway.

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Originally Posted by Tina Dixon

Erica I don't think you'll get flamed, it is a forum and you had your say and you said it very well, as for this site being bland or maybe a bit tame your so right, and as far as this newbie posting this stuff, well It may not have broke any rules but it sure don't seem to belong here does it, just seems so out of content to what goes on around here that don't sit well with some of us and being a forum were just telling our side.

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1) I'm not a newbie.

2) It's out of content how precisely?

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Originally Posted by Karren Hutton

And I thought slavery was abolished by Abe in 1860's.... guess you didn't get the memo... hehehe

At least wearing womens jeans wasn't on the list!!! Whew.... dodged the big bullet on that one.....

Love Karren

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I actually did wear women's jeans for the Starbucks assignment. Miss Me jeans are awesome.

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Originally Posted by Michelle (Oz)

Your task is a difficult one Sharon. Keeper of the peace and preserver of standards. Clearly the original post falls into a grey area but one that I don't see as part of this group.

I distinquish between the group and the poster by way of motive. I'm here because I have feminine qualities that I like to fully express and I don't need to be forced to dress. It is the reward from the humiliation that the poster seeks (and is promised?) whereas for me the reward is in the dressing itself and participating in the community.

The grey area though is for those who have similar needs but who can't accept themselves in this way and must feel they are "forced" to dress to feel better about themselves. I could well understand that some in this group would feel this way but hopefully they will benefit from the positive experiences in the group to accept themselves.

I try my hardest when en femme to honour crossdressers by appearance, attitude and honesty. It is disappointing that the reaction to a negative image will far exceed that of a positive image setting our cause back.

Michelle (Oz)

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Michelle, it seems to me as though you are more transgendered than crossdresser. I have no genuine desire to be a female. I am feminine and I am a male. I prefer to wear and enjoy wearing women's clothes. I am comfortable in the duality of these roles.

This blurring of the gender lines is what many in this TG/TV/TS/CD community struggle with. The TVs question the CDs for not enjoying the sexual aspect of it. The CDs can be repulsed by the thought that TVs "get off" on this. The TS folks dislike it when CDs and TVs want to retain their male gender or body hair or physical appearance. The TVs and TGs can be repulsed by those who try to live and pass as genetic women 24/7.

I'm a CD, not a TG/TV or TS. Seems I'm in the minority here though this is a CD site...hmm...

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Originally Posted by Ivy Dawn

ok PP just made 2 more post , dont think he stopped to read any of the treads before posting his last 2 threads,
I dont agree with anything this person was doing, but it is his right to enjoy
his life his way, but I think he could have done things alittle more tackful
from what I see looks like he was on a scavenger hunt,
Ivey

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How could I have been more tactful? I don't think I was being disparaging, rude, or disrespectful of anyone.

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Originally Posted by MJ

hi PINK
you have been a member since 2005 and only 14 posts , and now this .. i find it a bit of a shock , OK you had fun but there must have been a better way than this. and why not show your face you did every were else and please remember to respect the membership and one more thing i just love the hooters outfit

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I have made many more than 14 posts, for some reason my post counter is wrong.

Is "shock" a bad thing?

What would have been "a better way"? Why?

I choose not to show my face for a personal reason.

I'm not trying to disrespect anyone, but forgive me if I have.

I love the Hooters outfit too :) Thanks. I would love to be a real Hooters girl for a day or two.

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Originally Posted by pinkpantyhose

I have made many more than 14 posts, for some reason my post counter is wrong.

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Is "shock" a bad thing?

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forgive me but the members here try to portray a sense of dignity and respect for each other and try very hard to be a genuine as possible

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What would have been "a better way"? Why?

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well post in the picture gallery were only members can see them instead of the open public areas were this could discredit us all

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I choose not to show my face for a personal reason.

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but you were out in public like that so you should have nothing to hide

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I'm not trying to disrespect anyone, but forgive me if I have.

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i just want you to think about everyone who comes here to find out information what about the gg who husbands have come out to them the woman are hurting scared don't know what to do and the see your post what are they going to think and do you think they would stick around to find out !!!

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I love the Hooters outfit too :) Thanks. I would love to be a real Hooters girl for a day or two.

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you know i would too but there is a place and time for that and i respect the hooters girls for what they do , it's unfair that men go for dinner and a show thats just wrong ...
so you see please think before you post out of respect for the general public and the wives of cd'r who are hurting and want answers and the 100s of cd'r who try to show respect for what we do
hugs Marissa

I may be the only one here that liked this post i thought it was cool. I don't do that stuff but anyone who has the guts to do that i can respect. You shouldn't be so hard on her. Its something different which is good. Thats just what i think so don't get mad at me.

Could it be that Pinkpantyhose has actually done some things in public that most others only dream about. Lack of tolerance is why most of us are still deep in the closet.

IF Pinkpantyhose posted it in the picture gallery it would be fine not in the general public forum

please think about others .. wives who have just found out there man wears dresses ... what about there needs hurts fears ... something like this could do great harm thats all

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Originally Posted by MJ

IF Pinkpantyhose posted it in the picture gallery it would be fine not in the general public forum

please think about others .. wives who have just found out there man wears dresses ... what about there needs hurts fears ... something like this could do great harm thats all

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You've mentioned wives finding out about their CD'ing husbands 2x now. Isn't it hypocritical to say that I'm being disrespectful to them by posting about my real adventures when their HUSBANDS have been disrespecting them by "just finding out" about something they have been too scared/nervous/ashamed/embarassed/negligent/stupid/disrespectful/arrogant/prideful to tell them umm...let's see...before they were married?

I'm absolutely disgusted by the way you have treated a long standing member of this forum. Just because he hasn't posted much, you treat him like this for what? because he appears to be new? :Angry3: Each to their own, support one and other, live and let live.... but if you can't say something nice, then keep your mouth shut, there was simply no reason at all for spoiling someones thread, who was having a bit of fun. Is their no fun in your lives that you had to ruin someone elses?? My suggestion? Go get a life and leave others to their own.

I am so sorry pinkpantyhose that you have been subjected to this, one can only hope you don't lump us all into the same basket as those, that seem to be intollerant of others, when they want to be accepted by others who don't tollerate them...

This thread is now reopened, as it was locked against my wishes.

I trust everyone will behave in a mature manner and any further posts that I deem to be intolerant of other's lifestyles will themselves be removed.

[SIZE="3"]Bravo Sharon:clap:[/SIZE]

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Originally Posted by Sharon

This thread is now reopened, as it was locked against my wishes.

I trust everyone will behave in a mature manner and any further posts that I deem to be intolerant of other's lifestyles will themselves be removed.

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good call Sharon......just wondering though as this is a photo diary of sorts would it not be better in the photo section, only for that reason though:)

[SIZE="3"]I can see that, Pink you got alot of nerve, wish I had that much.[/SIZE]

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Originally Posted by MJ

IF Pinkpantyhose posted it in the picture gallery it would be fine not in the general public forum

please think about others .. wives who have just found out there man wears dresses ... what about there needs hurts fears ... something like this could do great harm thats all

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Why do you post your avatar for all to see then? what's the difference? All avatars are viewable in this section, all members can see all sections, including the picture gallery... if a wife became a member, what difference would it make where this was posted? And why are you of all people so intollerant of what he is doing? My guess, he's doing something many of you can only dream of doing, he's out there, doing what he wants, living a dream... whilst many of you stay closeted, intollerant and :censor:

I don't understand where any of you get 'doesn't belong here' crap from? Explain to me why it doesn't belong here, explain to me why a sub CD doesn't belong here... please, I'm at a loss...