Phyllis, I am so sorry to here this. There are no words that can help. But you do have everyone here to turn to as needed. My condolences.
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Phyllis, I am so sorry to here this. There are no words that can help. But you do have everyone here to turn to as needed. My condolences.
Phylis, Daisy,
38 years is amazing,
I can't even begin to imagine what you must be going through
I'm so sorry about your wife passing away
As someone already said, I really I hope you receive all the love and support you need during this very difficult times
And there's also this wonderful community here always willing to listen and offer support
So sorry, my deepest condolences
Love, Erika
Oh, Phyllis, I am so sorry to hear the sad news. I agree with you about our companions being so critical in our lives. I will pray for you and you can contact me anytime if you need to talk.
Love from Laura
I am so sorry for your loss. I know the many memories will remain with you.
Amanda
Phyliss,
I am new here, so we haven't gotten the opportunity to chat yet, but I am so sorry to hear of your loss. You and your wife will remain in my prayers.
May I add my deepest sympathies, I am truly saddened by your loss.
What struck me most poignantly was others posts sharing their own losses, and how many of these were all longer than many peoples lifetimes. May time ease the pain, and memories lessen the sadness.
Sorry to hear of your loss, may God bless you both.
I am saddened to hear of your wife's passing, Phyliss. May she rest in peace.
Words are so inadequate and yet so important. I wish I could be more eloquent.
My deepest sympathies.
Phyiliss Sory for your loss. My wife is going through rough times medicaly
rite now, I don't know what I would do if I lost her. Good Luck. Rader
THANK YOU to each and every person who commented.
To let everybody know that my wife was ( I hate using the past tense ) a real person who cared about others
The obit:
http://www.legacy.com/Fosters/DeathN...onId=137122784
Phyliss, I am so sorry for your loss. Let me know if there is anything I can do to help out.
Phyliss
I am sorry for your loss. My condolences. You will be in my prayers.
Peace be with you my friend.
I offer my condolence and symphony to you and your family.
Phyliss, I am so sorry to hear about the passing of your wife, I can't begin to understand what your are going through. I can only hope that you can draw strength from your family and friends here and elsewhere and the courage to look forward. May a higher power comfort you in these days of sorrow. :hugs:
Phyliss, I am so saddened to hear of the loss of your wife I wish you peace. I do not know what I would do without my Sue. I cannot imageine the griefe you are dealing with. My condolences to you dear. You are in my prayers. Bethany.
Phyliss,
i am very sorry for you loss :hugs:
Phyliss,
I am sorry for your loss. There is nothing that can prepare one for the separation of a loved one by death. Just remember that she loved all of you. Just remember she would want you to go on and be happy.
Sarah
Very sorry to hear that
May God bless you and your sweet wife's spirit.:hugs:
I'm very sorry
Amen to that.Quote:
Originally Posted by vivianann
Osteph
I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. All I can offer are my condolences and I hope nothing but the best for you!
I'm SO sorry. I know that doesn't help. My wife left in 2007 for a real man, I almost prefer she died, as then I could still love her......Hang in there, the hurt, will soften a little with time......
Quote:
Originally Posted by Marcie4you
Just because I like to wear "girl" clothes doesn't make me any less of a "Real Man"
A Real Man, keeps the vows he made at his wedding
A Real Man, loves his children, no matter what
A Real Man, provides for his family
A Real Man, cares for his wife, ... no matter what
A Real Man, stands tall and is proud of his accomplishments
A Real Man, is ready to help a neighbor in need
A Real Man, is confident in himself
A Real Man, is able to express himself and allow himself to be emotional
A Real Man, understands the world does not revolve around him
A Real Man, is willing to do whatever it takes to protect his family
A Real Man, will look a person straight in the eye and speak the truth
Yeah, I can "fem" it up with the best of 'em and I like to do that, ... but, I always remember who and what I am, no matter the clothing I wear.
Sorry I missed this thred phyliss.
Firstly sorry to hear your very sad news, and yes your right, many of us have those sort of wishes, although I have to be honest and say I feel I'm one of the lucker ones.
Firstly I'm lucky enough to be one of those that can drive my dressing, rather than it drive me, ie I can go with out dressing every minute of my life, and i'm able to spend prolonged periods of not dressing, until I want/am able to dress. (ie I control it, not it controls me)
Secondly I'm lucky enough to have a partner who knows about Tracy and we can talk. I think we both would agree to difficulty between us because of my dressing, but all the same, I wanted her to know about all of me, over just painting her an outer shell and presenting that as me, with out telling her fully about me totally. At least there are times we can talk about it, but having a partner that knows, doesn't mean having a partner that partake, or encourages.
You now have a very different live ahead of you Phyliss, and I wish you well, losing a loved one is always very difficult, which is why we should always grab good times and remember them with affection, to have been together nearly 39 years means no matter what life threw at you, you both meant a lot to each other, and therefore I hope you new life journey is as good as clearly your life together was, to have been together for so long.
keep well phylis, and all the very best at this sad time.
Oh Phyliss...I'm sooo sorry to hear for your loss....I can't imagine. I certainly don't hope that you blame yourself in any indirect way sweetheart...You know...if she truly loved you, which I'm sure she did...she must be at peace with your lifestyle now. You have lots of friends here, and we'll be here for you if you need to talk...ok? Please, feel free to write me if you need someone to talk to..ok? Please hang in there sweetie! Christine
I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. Accept my sincerest sympathy.
Where does the soul go? Some say Heaven, Some say other places. When I look up to the sky on a Glorious clear night and see the myriads of stars, too many to even be counted, and I think of all who have lived on this earth, too may to be counted. I cannot escape the thought, that maybe the soul becomes a star, ever burnig bright. A guide in the night. Could this be true, will we ever know for sure. Likely not. But it gives me great solice to contemplate this thought on a clear evening when I think of friends and family members who are with us not. Just pick a star for your wife to be and she will forever guide you through eternity.
God Bless you BOTH!
Paula
Dear Phyllis, I am so sorry to hear your sad news. I hope you have plenty of good memories to keep you going until you are reunited.:hugs:
Phyliss, I'm very sorry for your loss. After more than 38 years together I just can't imagine your pain! Our thoughts and prayers are with you in this most difficult time.