I don't think i get turned on but i do get a thrill that i can't explain. nothing else makes me feel this way. so maybe i am turned on in some way.
Tina L.
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I don't think i get turned on but i do get a thrill that i can't explain. nothing else makes me feel this way. so maybe i am turned on in some way.
Tina L.
Not for me,I have better taste in women than that :) now my wife dressed up to the nines,thats a different story
With me when I first get dressed, I do get excited but after a bit those feelings go away and I just feel pretty and good inside. :daydreaming:
I guess I'm just young but I do really try not to make my CDing a sexual thing.
I do! Lingerie has that effect on me.
Uh, yeah. . .
It was moreso when I was younger, but even into my 40s, when I get all girled up, I really "enjoy" looking at myself, especially from the neck down. :o
Oh Yeah! It's still pretty exciting to see myself fully dressed. I can see how over time the excitment might slowly ebb away and be content with the relaxation dressing brings.
Yes, I get very turned on. More than I would like at times.
Yes, I get turned on to see myself dressed. Maybe its because I don't go out and there is no one other than myself looking at me. To look in the mirror and see how I've transform from guy mode to feminine is a turn on. And I love it.
Couldn't have said it better.Quote:
Originally Posted by sherib
"It better" -- there, I said it.
Yes
Sometimes I do...but most of the time when I look in the mirror I'll have a feeling of ..... NIIIIICE and Hmmmmmmm, not bad!!!!!!:whistling: (flirty).
But dressing en femme makes me very happy. If I am really pleased with my efforts when I look in the mirror, or if complimented or hit on when out, I feel sexy, but never sexual. I'm pretty sure there's a difference.
My own photos do not move me. There was a time when my image in the mirror would - at the same time - excite me and repulse me. Now days I just admire the work I have done. Older is so much better.
I get turned on because I like Denise better... lately more and more, some of you girls turn me on also..Sometimes I want to feel like a girl does!!! Then I look at my self in the mirror and call me a sissy and say wow you are such a girl!!
Lately, maybe for the last couple of months, just about the ONLY reason I dress up is just so I can get more pics of myself to look at. It's highly pleasurable for me to have many, many photos of myself dressed up. At this point, I'm starting to suspect that I enjoy looking at the pictures more than the act of dressing up, itself. Maybe it's just a phase, but dressing up seems like such an upheaval...just such a damn hassle. Once I'm done and dressed up, I always enjoy myself, but it's hard to find the motivation most of the time...
Sure, some first-time guys experiencing chic chick clothes might be turned on, but here's the secret: *Chicks are turned on too* by the same clothes! Now you understand why they shop so intensely.
Enjoy it, and savour your freedom to do so. Hundreds of generations of women have done so, and now guys may also partake of that freedom.
I confess: yes, seeing myself all dolled up through a mirror is sexually exciting.
...but it is different.
Sometimes
Sometimes I dissasociate myself from the girl in the mirror. Then the guy in me can think cute chick (as long as I don't have my glasses on).
Other times it's me in the mirror. No turn on there.
I remember when I first noticed the dichotomy. I had painted my toe nails, and then I totally forgot all about it. The next day, I got in the shower, and when I looked down, I saw a pair of feet with painted toe nails, but the feet belonged to someone else. It was only when I couldn't find my (male) feet that I recognized the feet with the painted toes as mine.
I sure do feel like looking and only wish it could be for more than 15 minutesat a time. The gal who says she loves to feel her breasts is a ditto.:):):)
yeah... have i mentioned i have a lovely, understanding, accepting wife??
That's a really keen observation. It's happened to me before but I never fully realized it until reading your post. Thanks for sharing!Quote:
Originally Posted by Sometimes Steffi
I once told my wife that if I had her body, I would play with myself all the time. She said, "yea, I know, you do that with your body."
For me, I think they are mutually exclusive (dressing and playing). Although they sometimes occur at the same times.
I can dress up and have fun and not have a need to play with myself. I just like to be dressed. Sometime I do get aroused, but I believe the arousal would have come whether I was dressed or not.
I do get turned on when I look at the photos....I look good....that why I go out from time to time....If I didn't think I looked good I would go out!
some times yes
Most definitely. The fact that I look feminine in the mirror, and quite ordinary masculine in real life, is like donning a delicious disguise. The less I look like my masculine self, and the more feminine I look, takes me further into an anonymous world, and opens up the possibilities for all sorts of fantasy scenarios.
My wife and I have talked about this; she doesn't quite understand my need to go out en femme - why can't I just dress at home, if I am turned on by items such as bras, hosiery skirts and heels, and if I don't have a gender identity problem, then Home dressing should be fine.
Why do I want anonymous others on the street or in a restaurant to relate to me as an attractive female? I don't have the answer, but part of it is that passing in public, (and being attractive and turned on by your own appearance) are part of the same thing; an acceptance by you or someone else of this femininity you present. I think we crave an acceptance or confirmation that our femininity is real, and that can be either passing in public, or looking in the mirror and saying "Whoa! hot !"
Well, for what it's worth, I use to get excited and turned on by my appearance either in a mirror or in a picture, but that was quite some time ago. Now, when I view myself in a mirror I tend to appraise the lady that I am seeing and take notice of her clothing, makeup, hair and overall style.
The closer I get to living full time as Nicole the more I focus on how I look and how well I will fit in when I am out in public. Truth be told, I tend to get excited and turned on when I am paid a complement or feel that I am being accepted for who I am.
Nicole
I get excited wen dressed aand enjoy looking ay my self in mirrer
Myself,I get a good deal of satisfaction when I se my make-up is on right and I picked a nice skirt and blouse or dress :)Quote:
Originally Posted by StaceyJane
I agree with this observation.Quote:
Originally Posted by Sometimes Steffi
I do, definitely.
Today has been the first time in awhile that I've worn a skirt and heels, and I can't stop looking at my legs. I normally don't find myself too attractive, but hearing my heels on the wood floor, I feel gorgeous and a little bit sexy. :B
No, it's not sexual for me. I do feel good, but not turned on. I do get turned on when someone else takes them off tho... :D
I used to get turned on; it was the new sensation of sheer, silken fabric that did it. Now, I find myself looking at myself with a critical feminine eye, trying to see what little things I can improve (I am somewhat unpassable so I'm not saying that I don't have a lot to improve; it's just baby steps, baby steps). I will agree with an earlier post though, the times someone else has "lifted my skirts" is a turn on.
a couple times got too excited in the beginning.now i just look in the mirror and just admire my look. no over excitement about it. as you do it more maybe you will be able to turn that part of your brain off. i did.
I get extremely turned on after I do my makeup and slowly pull the wig over my head, and then finally gaze in the mirror and admire myself as a girl.
I used to back in the beginning of my crossdressing. Nowadays, it is so natural that I get into that comfort zone very quickly, and simply enjoy the look and feel of being girly.
Absolutely, I love walking in front of the mirror when I'm fully dressed. I especially love the way my legs look in stockings and high heels.
For me growing up i was very hmmm how do i put this ... "restrained" sexually. I didn't have my first date until i was 18. I didn't have sex at all until my first failed marriage. And yes i regret waiting to have sex very much. So when I'm dressed I'm a different person. I'm flirty fun loving (rather ****ty with my wife lol) Nicole. So i get super turned on as soon as i feel the material on my body. And then when i look at myself in the mirror or see pics of me RAWR! LOL so ya i get very turned on when I'm dressed.
No denying it, this is a part of my sexuality!
I will say that when I look at my photos, I would not normally be attracted to a woman that looks like me, BUT when I look into the eyes and see the smile on that face, my heart goes out to her. Fortunately I don't have far to go to give her a big hug. Not only do I love the idea of being her, I am her. So now I can look in the mirror and say " It's ok honey, I love you, just the way you are."
I did get turned on sexually back when I was younger, but then it started to change and my mind changed and I just started to wear because womens clothing feels so much more better to wear..
Even tho I dont dress just to get aroused (it makes me feel complet basically) I do get turned on.. I dress in what I as a man would like to see which is usually cute sexy stuff...
I would love to dress in a Dallas Cowboys Cheerleaders uniform,the actual vest,blouse&Quote:
Originally Posted by AmiFL
shorts,pantyhose&white boots,just to see how it feels
yes and no because some of my clothes get me turned on and spme dont it just all depends on what type of clothing it is that i am wearing
I am glad this thread got such a big response.... I realize now that I am not alone in how seeing myself as a gurl makes me feel........
Heck No!
If I posted my picture in this forum the server would even turn off. :sad:
:)
Today I bought my first bra panties and nylons. Could not wait to get home and put them on. Bra is a c cup. Should have bought the breast forms with big nipples. Love the panties. I feel very sexy
Yes and and hell yes. But it is good because it's are sexulaty you have to be like your self befor you can like some one els.But that doesn't mean it's not ok to be into your self. I like to dress and feel sexy I wish I had me a fire woman. That would think I was sexy when I was in my close. OH GOD ! We would have the hottest sex! ! I love this Q.
NO! with some notes below. I do feel relief and contentment however, this replacing guilt and dislike. I also feel fear (of getting caught in one or two times I dress that are risky)
Overall I feel much more sexy and in the past I did get turned on by it but now it feels so normal to have all the accoutrements of femininity the hair the breasts the skirts and heels, that I feel so horrid after stripping back to drab's
[SIZE="3"]The clothes just give me a sensual, special warm feeling at times, but what really gets to me is when I finish my eye makeup, and see my eyes all girled up in the mirror (with my hair always on of course). I happen to have these extremely girly eyes when made up, and they excite me when I first gaze into them.[/SIZE]