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I'd have to say something inbetween transgender & transsexual. As a perfectionist, I wouldn't want the full operation/everything unless painfully masculine things about me (like my voice) could be changed as well. Also, I don't know if I'd want to risk losing 'that feeling' you get when you're doing the nasty. Can something like that even be properly carried over in a sexchange in the first place? :o
This is a toughie but I would have to say a crossdresser verging on transgender
Big Question!
I feel a little like 1,2 & 3 not 4.
I've found that many times I'd like to wear womens clothing 24/7 and to dress completely all the time. Then there are times I would only dress very male. Hunting, etc.
But again I feel that I am more female than male. Most of the time. I'd not transition because I'm inlove. So so very in love with my wife of 25 years. But maybe someday I'll take the time to go away for a week just by myself. So that I can dress completely in another area of the country. Away from everything. But in two years I won't care who knows. Retirement is coming quick. The wife knows but don't like it that I do it.
I like dressing as a female to the max. Heels. lipstick & everything. Nothing taboo!
Haley:)
2. Crossdresser
Greatly enjoy full makeover experience, but not yet confident enough to venture outside the house.
I am most definately a crossdresser.:thumbsup:
I've never been comfortable with all those labels.
Basically, I'm just me, call me what you like, so long as you call me when dinners ready.
I don't think I'd like to really be a woman, 'cos then I'd have to find a new 'hobby'. If you think about it, if you were really a woman, you'd just be getting dressed, rather than getting DRESSED
I would like proper breasts though, but they'd cause problems with my work as I often have to change in front of others. (I've inadvertantly done that wearing 'Jenny's' knickers before now) .
Having said that, I spend over 50% of my time in female mode, only switching to male mode when circumstances dictate it.
Jenny
CD/transgender gifted,gurl
"like as if.............."LOL.........SIERRA;)
im a cd with a transvestic fetish
You can put me down as mainly having a feminine fetish, not just the clothes but in my understanding of the behavior. :angel:
I also like to go all the way in dressing up at time, especially on the not often occassion when my wife is looking for Mistress Wendy instead of Master Wendall. :dom:
But, I am 99 44/100ths happy to be a man. Never thought of having my "tender bits" reassigned. :)
I like to grow a beard in the winter, plus hose and heels don't go well with being in the field hunting or camping. :bs:
Ah well, what's a boy to do+?
Be good, but if you can't be good,
do the bad thing well!
I would love to be a full woman and kill the man inside but for now just a tg.
Kisses
delighla
Well....a bit of both is my answer...Love living like a girl as I love living like a guy....
Pretty easy so far, crossdresser, just because of time I get to be Tina, but I am working toward the next step what ever that may be I don't know, but I do want to be Tina much more.
Crossdresser got my vote. :)
I am very comfortable as a male. However, as an artist with a high level of observation and knowledge seeking prowess, I've always been open to putting myself in the female perspective. Like a split personality to a slight degree. I have only recently started to openly give some real time and space to my feminine side. Let her explore and grow a little. Her personality and feminine viewpoints have always been with me since I can remember... but she now has a name (Shannon) and wishes to explore the physical realm. Hence forth the introduction of crossdressing.
I am intrigued by the art of feminization and Shannon is enjoying every moment I let her step into the spotlight. Femininity is a lot of hard work and patience. I'm not exactly sure how much time or space I will give her... but it has certainly been a great learning experience thus far. It's been surprisingly refreshing, a nice release of stress and even emotionally stimulating as well.
This forum has definately opened my eyes to a secret world that I knew was out there... but never fully understood or respected until now.:bs:
:<3:Shannon S.:<3:
Based on the choices and definitions, Crossdresser, but with one foot slightly in the TG world. +? :)
Julie,
As others have noted it is a hard choice but transgendered is the closest to the way I feel at this point in my life.
I love to fully dress and love going out (don't get to as much as I would like to) but still have a need to be male, at least untill my son is raised and out of the house.
After that...... Well we will see won't we.
Hugs Krystal.
My experience is like Wendy's, I chose transgendered partially because I still like my male self, partially because it seems to really describe how I feel.
Definately a CD now but it was certainly something more fetishistic when I was young.
Best,
Gunda
I'm 100% fetishistic transvestite. I like that I'm male but I need to wear silk and satin lingerie, sleepwear and blouses. There's nothing better than silk and satin.
I am definately a transvestic fetishist, and also definately a crossdresser.
I enjoy both equally, although the former also involves my wife, the latter does not. I am not attracted to men. Women rock my world:D
You say 'Go Figure', but to me, why should the fact that a PHD Psychologist who wears panties under his suit undermine the serioussness of his work or his authority as a Psychologist? Or for that matter, if a Doctor, a Fireman, a Policeman or a Psychiatrist wore stockings (if a male) or boxer shorts (if female) or a red nose (if neither), why should that undermine my belief in his knowledge or of his or her intention to treat me with the respect and compassion that I deserve??Quote:
Originally Posted by freshfrankie
Rhiannon x x
Yes, this is a toughie, only given 4 categories. I picked #2, but I think #1 and #2 is probably more true.
I don't know where to put myself. I wear panties and hose all the time, put skirts and slips most of the time, I think I wear a bra to feel like and look like the women I would like to be. I don't wear a wig or makeup, yet. My wife does not want to see me in a bra, but knows I wear one when she is not here. She has seen the top of my full slips though my t-shirts, I do wear panties, hose, skirts, slips and heels while she is home and she gives me pointers on how to walk and dress like a lady, and insists that I wear a slip with a skirt. So I don't know where that puts me, as I spend so much of my time in, at least a skirt. I guess I'm a crossdresser, but would be happy to be able to throw away all my male clothes. I just feel better dressed as a women. I don't feel that it is a sexual thing at all. I'm confused as to what I am by name. I guess I am happy just being me in women clothes.
Meag
I answered don't know, have been crossdresser for years a now am curious about being with a man as Bobbi
That's the million dollar question, isn't it? For me personally, it changes all the time. I have times where I wish I was a girl, times I'm glad not to be, and definately (more often than not) times I'm glad I can look pretty much any way I see fit. I guess my answer is crossdresser; that's what's always felt right.
I though I was a crossdresser, as I have worn female clothing for years. As a child I always dreamed of being a girl and praying I would grow breasts like my sisters. I was able to suppress my feeling for years, secretly dressing in my sisters clothing. I have also secretly dressed in wifes clothes and have worn lingerie in my wifes presents. I could not take it any more. While shopping for lingerie with my wife, I purchased my first breast forms. I told he of my desire to dress in female clothing and she has been very understanding.
I have always had feelings that I was born in the wrong body, however I have suppressed them, by crossdressing. I can no longer suppress them. I have decided that I will transition as a women. So I guess I am transgendered moving towards transsexual. I am happier when dressed as a woman. I am presently seeing a therapist and she has been a big help in dealing with my feeling and emotions. I am taking it one day at a time and I hope to start taking hormones (under a doctors supervision) at the end of this year or early 2007.
:cool: i would have to say 3 as thats how my life has been up tell now,for the most part anyways:cool: :doll: but i have to say 4 two cause i do want to live as a women be a women all the time and i know in my heart some day i will live as a women 100% of the time. its not that i dont like the male me i have had a good life lots of fun good friends its just that sheri feels more like me she's happyer she has more fun she feels good about her self the way she looks, feels, walks, talks, act's, dress's the way she looks at every thing is just better,:doll: so its 4 but im living 3 :cry: sheri
put me down for one of each! i can't make my mind up on just one! *L*
Well I started out early in Life as a fetish, Late in 30's became a Crossdresser, and now in my 50's wear panties, and nylons every day and now also wear a bra every day. I'm Transgender. Don't want the operation, but like the daily thing about being feminie everyday. And once your wear a Bra Everyday, You can never be like the other guys and never go back to being just a guy...:happy: :happy:
After some thought, I responded "Transgender".
I enjoy aspects of my maleness, and my femaleness.
If wishes could come true, mine would be able to be either gender as my mood struck. And as the sales hit at the shops.....
Another option maybe,It's all too confusing.....I wander in and out of first and second options
fal
For me it feels more like a transvestism fetish right now, but i imagine that will change over time to cross dresser as i become more confident.
Transgender. But I have had fantasies of being a full female. Which would be interesting. But I find myself attracted to women, not men, so I would have a lot to learn!
I am a dude that likes to wear womens clothes. I do not see myself as a woman. I am straight & am attracted tsexually to females.
Then again, I do not do the wig & makeup thing. I do not want to go by a female name. I do not want to act like a female, do the mannerisms, etc......
This is a very thought provoking thread. I would definetly say that I am transgendered.
I cant explain it but over the last couple of years I have increasingly wanted to live as a woman and dream and fantasise about what it would be like to dress and live as a woman 24 hours.
I am increasingly becoming disillusioned with having to live up to the perceived macho male culture ( which I find increasingly pathetic), and I have to admit that I now prefer the company of women socially much more then men.
On the other hand I am finding myself more sexually attracted to men. I am not sure if these desires are due to my changing sense of who I am and where I want to go but I definetly want to explore this further. I can envisage the day when I finally discard all of my drab clothes and wear the clothes and assume the identity that I feel most comfortable with but do feel that this day is some way off.
Julie x
Great poll! I would have to choose crossdresser simply because the definition of transgender says "feel the need to live as a woman". I'm not sure if there was any intent to imply so, but to me it includes living and experiencing life as a woman in all aspects of life, including sexual.
Thats where I differentiate myself from the two and choose crossdresser being fully aware that reversed roleplay is not something that I might choose. Then again, having not experienced that, I reserve the right to amend or retract my vote at some unknown subsequent date!!:D
I'm just a hetro man who prefers to wear womens clothes,I don't make any attempt to make my self passable as a woman.With a handle bar mustache,a high and tight haircut,and all this body hair,maybe I should look for a job as a side show attraction in a circus.:eek: