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I guess what I want to know... Is there a place for him here? I feel like there are more of you that are like him than he thinks. And if you are more like him, do you feel like there is not a place for you either. Such an emphasis is placed on "pass- ability" and like it or not some "girls" judge others on here for not being like them. Or not being feminine enough.
He got the feeling that most of the men here actually want to BE women, while he just likes the clothes and the feelings. But I KNOW he is not alone.
So I guess this is both a place to respond, but also a place for you to hear another members plea. Lets stop creating a place where there is a "right and wrong" way to CD. Lets stop scaring away all of those forum lurkers who don't feel like they belong.
i have been a member here for 2 years but never posted... and lurked even longer... often not sure what i wanted to add to the convo but yeah over time i saw that too many were acting like there were wrong ways to crossdress... that you HAD to shave your legs etc and be great at makeup and wear a wig and have a female name and feel like you ARE a female or adopt that persona... i don't know! ... it just didn't gel with me and where i'm at! though i've tried going out and the full get up...