I love my forms. I really hate taking them off.
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I love my forms. I really hate taking them off.
I wish I could have them.
I enjoy when I dress for several days having them attached the entire time.
Yes they do get in the way but that is just part of being a woman.
One of the best feelings for me with the forms is having an idea of what is like and then on a small level feeling a sister ship with women on an experience that most men would not understand.
I filled my bra by many means, socks, pads, whatever. I got forms from a nice site last year, D, didn't pay huge sums for them. Many sites will cost you big money. I like the look and feel. Fits the right dress at the right time.... or top, or tee
I have 2 sets of forms. One is a smaller more conservative b/c cup and the other pair is more of a d/dd cup. And yes most days I wish I had real breasts! ;)
Seems after reading a lot of the replys here that most of us had a breast growth as youg udluts could this be part of the reason why we dress maybe we have a female gene in us that drive us to be this way
Care to expand on the technique?Quote:
Originally Posted by Karren Hutton
Same here. Its fun for me pretending for a few hours but doing it 24/7 would be become a chore. Ive also seen some nasty friction sores on women after an hours exercise. Probably a poorly fitting bra but I cant think of any sport where they are an advantage and not a hinderance.Quote:
Originally Posted by CassandraSmith
I wish they were real quite badly too be honest.
Trust me, unless your going full time having real breasts isn't as great as it you think.
I would say if you were going full time then they would be required but if its part time then forms do the job. Not sure what I would want.
I hate breast forms. I hate anything that is "fake," and not really me. About ten months on HRT, my real boobs are growing quite nicely. And I admit, I absolutely love them, and I very much look forward to their continued growth and development. Even more, now that I have them, that they are growing, that they are real, and that they are mine, I know beyond any shadow of a doubt whatsoever that I can't ever, ever go back. Of course, HRT comes at cost, depending upon one's priorities. For example, my wife would much rather I not have them, or be on HRT, and there is a real risk that my marriage will not survive my transition. Also, between the T-blockers and the E, and how it has basically crushed my libido, my plumbing downstairs (not that I want it anyways, or plan to keep it - but I did at least enjoy it for what it was since I was cursed with it anyways), is now basically "out-of-order." But you know what? Oddly enough, and not because I don't enjoy sex (I very much do), it doesn't really bother me at all. Because HRT is doing for me what it is supposed to be doing, and I love it. I need it. I have to have it, and I have to continue on, or I will literally lose my mind and go insane. So yeah, real boobs are great!! As is the smoother skin, the thinner body hair, the redistribution of fat, and so on and so forth. I love it all! But again, I risk much for this, and I have much I have lost already. So the fantasy of real boobs is awesome!! The reality of having real boobs is even better. But only if there are no other options available to you, and this is what you must do to survive. Otherwise, what's the point? Medical science these days is some pretty cool stuff, though. As is silicone breast form technology. ;-)
I'd like the kind Karren has but I don't wanna do the work that's involved. Close to a C cup of real breast tissue would be sumpthin'!
Most of us do too...but I have mostly been more concerned about hips and butt. I have some natural and a padded bra usually gets me by quite sufficient, but I know I would enjoy forms if and when I ever get them...Quote:
Originally Posted by Julie95
Being a petite man with 34Bs it is easier for me to try and pass for a woman then to pretend to be a guy. Unless you fully understand the consequences of being a guy with breasts stick to forms.
Yes well said...Its quite hard to hide them in alot of instances...forget alot of leisure activities such as beaches, etc while in guy mode... they do not unattach...Quote:
Originally Posted by Candice Mae
I haven't been to a beach since I was a preteen, now its either wear a bikini or enter the wet t-shirt contest.
I did not notice any difficulty at work when I was growing my boobs on HRT, even when they were puffy and perky. I made no attempt at all to conceal them, not even a bra to flatten out the shape or the nipples.
It is not impossible that there were social consequences that no one filled me in on. I can say that by the time we all got laid off, I was casually included with more people at coffee break than was the case before I started HRT. That fact might have nothing to do with the breasts.
I was concerned ahead of time that one person in particular would raz me a bit or at least look uncomfortable and avoid me, but it never happened.
I have not attempted to go to the beach or sit topless in public since I went on HRT. I haven't been avoiding them; it just isn't something we do much. It has been quite a few years since we went swimming at all.
Hi there jackielou
I can not work you out you seed on your post you wear a bra 24/7 but you are a man 24/7 i think you shad work it out do you what to be a women or a men. By the way i have been dressing as a women for the past 5 years and i do fill like a new person in side my self and i do have 14c and that is australian in size .
To a few of the posters- if you are on HRT, you are a woman. Why would you even think of going to a beach topless? Developed or not.
I have to agree girl. That is almost the entire reason I transitioned back in the 80's 'cept mine were 30B's (or a C if it was under-wired) on a 6ft frame and I only weighed 135 pounds. With breasts like that, it was much easier to present as a woman than as a man.Quote:
Originally Posted by Candice Mae
The idea that one should not allow oneself to be seen topless or nude other than by a spouse is usually a form of "body shame", that the body is inherently "dirty" or "shameful" to be seen, and that being topless or nude is inherently a sexual act (and, further, that one should not allow oneself to be sexual except in private with an SO.)Quote:
Originally Posted by I Am Paula
Some cultures, especially cultures with Germanic influence, treat nudity as just nudity, not inherently sexual. That exposure does not become "indecent exposure" until it is sexualized or done for the purpose of shocking people. West Germany has an extensive "naturalist" culture, including naturalist parks in some of the cities. Sweden and Denmark and Finland have mixed saunas and topless beaches. France has topless beeches. Japan's "Onsen" (hot sprint) bathing culture is traditionally mixed. Even Toronto has a nude beech. If you poke around a bit you can find local Toronto reporters describing their experiences going there; what is often written is that the oddest thing about it is that it is not sexual.
I did not end up with body shame. (Other, that is, then my paunch.) What I ended up with is "don't go nude in circumstances where other people might consider it indecent exposure." So in situations where nudity is considered acceptable, I have no problem being topless or nude, weather and bugs and tasks permitting. This is not "exhibitionism"; it is just being unclothed.
When I have my massages, I do not let my masseuse see my breasts because it is not an appropriate situation for it, no two-way agreement that in the circumstances unclothed doesn't mean anything.
A part of me definitely wishes they were real... i feel a loss when i take them off, like i'm losing a part of me, but at the same time it makes me very sad that they have no sensation, and when i run my hands over my sexy double-Ds i feel nothing :brokenheart:
Thanks. I was wondering.Quote:
Originally Posted by Lori B
i love the feeling of my forms, my so enjoys them a pillows like i would too,does seem a shame to put them away at the end of it all
Anyone have any good pointers to show some natural looking cleavage. I've seen a bunch of photos of slim and skinny cd's with nice cleavage with out using forms.
I have many sizes of breast forms. Different sizes for different tops or dresses. I love to experiment with all sizes. But yes at the end of the day. its good to get them off. Daviolin
Same here. Wish I could feel the sensation of the nipples.Quote:
Originally Posted by Phydelia
I've had boobs since I was 13 which during middle school absolutely sucked something horrible.
Around 2008 or so I started taking Prednisone which I'm sure made them grow even further, not complaining though ;)
So now I sit with a natural 38B and from what the one doctor I saw said is real breast tissue so I'm happy they're not really moobs.
My only beef is that they point outward much more than I'd like but according to the girl who did my bra fitting some boobs are just like that.
Side question:
Is there any negative effects to not wearing a bra if your boobs are a certain size?
Am I going to go saggy as all hell or something?
on the other side of this, my wife wondersis the things we have :brolleyes:ever get in the way
jodie:doh:.
If you get implants all the better no putting them away just, take off the bra, also they don;t get lost.Quote:
Originally Posted by stephyX
No more than a GG's get in the way. Sometimes a nice reminder of our fem side. Also you experience what GG's do.Quote:
Originally Posted by jodie k
I have seen it written that bras tend to make the coopers ligaments lazy, and so promote sag. I do not know myself.
Working with hormones. no results yet. thinking implants. I'm 56. I don't want to wait ten years!
I have natural breasts that fill a B cup pretty well. I wish that they were bigger.
I wear a bra daily and my wife is happy with that. Forms? - I would love to have a pair but that would go way beyond what my wife would accept. So I guess I am stuck with what I have - and I am happy about that.
Implants are nice and better than forms. There always there not taking in and out, easy to take of, just wash when showering, no wear and tear or replacement as with forms. Once in just enjoy!Quote:
Originally Posted by marny
IIRC Someone's wife stopped by to talk about her husband getting implants and while he loved them enfemme, he ended up being self conscious every other time when he was presenting as a man.
Personally I've had knockers since I was 13 and I've taken enough abuse over them that I can take ownership and not care.
not quite a b cup so the simple silcone enhancers fill the bra out nicley, but really wish i had just that much more for keeps...wife is very suportive and would be ok with the increase
I've always loved big ones ... whether they're on a GG or on me. But I wouldn't like to be weighted down permanently with a real pair like that, and I have sympathy (in addition to appreciation) for the GGs who do.
Having nice breasts is another reason I like being a woman. Mine are still in the early stage, but the bigger they grow,the more I like them. Esther
Why do all men refer to them as "Boobs"? Believe me if they had 'em they'd change their tune quick enough! Imagine guys the reality of never being able to go without shirt in the hot summer again without being arrested for indecent exposure?
I recall the days of dreaming about "having them". Funny that we all want really huge ones to begin with. Most sales site have a large selection of the "Enormous" and very few of the petite. When shopping for breast form for the first time, many years ago, I tried to be realistic and went for the smaller size. I was much more pleased with them than if I had gone larger. Fantasizing about something is much different than the reality.
I'm such a "Bubble buster"!
In Ontario, BC, and (I think) one of the Canadian territories, the law is specific that a woman may go topless in the same situations as men can, provided that the intent is not sexualization (e.g., fondling them as visual enticement for patrons to enter a strip club.) The rest of Canada does not have those laws, but some of the courts have indicated that if such a case is ever brought before them, they will take the Ontario case in particular under close advisement (in other words, if the police are foolish enough to take a case that far, the courts are likely to rule against them.)
There is an acknowledged public clothing-optional beach about 40 miles from Winnipeg. The township it is in recently won their fight to not be amalgamated with adjacent communities, so that the township could preserve the "unique character" of the area. Read "so the nude beach could continue without interference from the moral judgements of residents of adjacent communities, whom no-one is forcing to visit the nude beach."
Here in Manitoba, if you are out paddling or boating on one of the 110,000 (!!) lakes, and you have "breasts" and you go topless, then you are probably going to get into trouble. Sunburn trouble, that is. UV reflects off of water, so you are going to burn if you aren't protected. That's a certainty even on cloudy days. That someone is going to bother to summon the patrols to chase you down for having some bare flesh in the middle of no-where is pretty unlikely, provided you aren't going too close to playground beaches.
With regard to size: I have been checking out sizing pretty seriously, planning for implants (which I am not quite committed to yet.) Everything I have checked, everyone I have consulted with, indicates that for women my weight and dress size, average would be 38DD (US notation, 38E world notation). And that once my height and rib size is taken into account, that the most appropriate size (and look) would be 38F (if I wanted to be perceived as a bit on the small size) to 38G (in the A/B/C/D/E/F/G notation, so 38DDD to 38FF in US notation).
When I get implants, I will not necessarily end up as large as that; due to some skin stretch constraints, the practical maximum for me is possibly as low as a full 38C. So if I go as large as I can, I might end up smaller than average for women my size.
Boobs. Well yeah, what can you say about them? I like them , wish I had them. Nothing to big, some pert little A cuppers, just enough to actually need a bra.
I don't have a pair yet but when I'm in Angela mode, I wouldn't take them off. I'd want to feel them on my chest as long as I could.
I don't own a pair as mine almost fill my 38C cup bras. Sometimes I do add an enhancer to my bra. I do wear my bras 24/7.
Very sad sometimes. I feel the same way. If ever I was going to get surgery, that would be it. I think I could live with B cups even en homme.Quote:
Originally Posted by Phydelia
I wear breast forms all the time other than showering (I sleep on my side so no issues damaging the forms). Currently on my second month of hormones and noticing growth so perhaps 10 or so months down the road I will not need them or will have some work done. Do I wish I had real breast right now? Yes but at the same time now they are coming.
Hi Jordan, I SOOO do, but from what GG girls have written on other post, they get in the way a lot, bra's suck (should have heard my wife's dissertation on bra's 4 nights ago!) and at the end of the day, they're just another appendage!
I hate to sound like a broken record, but unless you are transitioning to live full time just stick with forms. Being a guy with breasts is not a good situation, them getting in the way and wearing a bra daily is the least of my problems.
I want to post pics of mine in my new bra is that OK here ? Natural d and love it
Jordan,
I agree with you. At the end of the day I wish they were real and love to wear my bras all day.
Hugs, Shelly