Yes, it WAS, Costume!:D
Actually, I was Elsa at Disneyland
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Yes, it WAS, Costume!:D
Actually, I was Elsa at Disneyland
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And, Ariel at a T girl club in Long Beach
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3. Wear a sari to an Indian party.
Is a sari comfortable to wear? Mine is. A sari is a uniquely beautiful and feminine garment.
I ordered my sari made to measure from the Internet, sewn in India. The petticoat is a floor length underskirt with a drawstring waist, so that is comfortable. My choli has a side zipper and is easy to put on, made to measure in a lightweight fabric is comfortable. The six meters of the sari itself takes some practice to put on and drape. But being draped, it flows beautifully. Most Indian women wear sandals without hosiery, but it can be worn with heels and hose. I recommend knee highs because even in a strong breeze, the hemline stays put at the floor. The hemline does not ride up when I sit down.
A sari is a garment usually worn in hot climates. The materials that saris are made of is usually light and breathe well. Not always, so be careful when buying. The bare midriff helps a lot with staying cool. A choli can be made with a wide range of styles, covered or exposed, front and back, to help stay cool. Most have short sleeves or no sleeves. I pin the pallu on my left shoulder so it stays in place. I also pin the pleats in place at my waist. I suppose the pallu could serve as a wrap to ward off a minor chill, but a sari is really not a cool weather garment. The whole outfit is flexible, easily adapted to changes in my weight.
I love the colors and patterns. It is so hard to choose. I want my next sari to be more brightly colored and embroidered.
Had a dream about three months ago where I won a Contest to co-anchor the evening local news for a week! I would be properly made up every day and get to wear all my nice suits "on-air", just be a lady all the time 💗
I want to be dominated by a man or woman. Dominated really rough
I have three fantasies that have endured for many years.
The first would be an evening on the town with Tgirl friends in which we went out to dinner and took in a Broadway style play afterwards. I can imagine my outfit right now ! Someday in my heart I know that this fantasy will come true.
The second is a reach as I would love to have Sarah present at a "period style" party where everyone was dressed for a specific historical time period. This could be a Victorian party, a day at Downton Abbey, a replay of Madmen or a 1940's swing dance.
The third would be a night on the town with a gentleman similar to my first fantasy with maybe, oops, blushing thought?
Mine is quite simple. I would love to go lingerie shopping with a GG and come home with a bunch of silky lacey panties, bras, slips, garter belts etc, model them for each other and then ........I will let you guess the rest.
After college {bach of music-1971, I played bass and trumpet in bands full-time for 8 years, 6 nites a week, often on the road---from Tucson and points east, clear to Buffalo, NY. Fell in love with many different kinds of cocktail waitress outfits. One fantasy would be to be in a CD band, often dressed as the waitresses were, as well as may other dynamite outfits of many types.
In the first band (house band in Tucson for 8 0r 9 months, we then did a summer tour of several clubs in cities in the great lakes area. The band's last gig was in Warsaw, Indiana where the waitresses were all dressing exactly like Playboy Bunnies. THIS WAS INTOXICATING.
I have always loved those, and so my second fantasy would be to be in all kinds of situations related to music and shows where all the band are dressed completely as Bunnies. I once saw a movie starring Mary Lou Henner where all the waitresses wore those Bunny costumes. I particularly love the shoes they wear also.
Another fantasy would be modeling one piece bathing suits, like the Miss America pageants used to do, before they started wearing bikinis so much. also wearing the high heels and walking completely feminine and alluring. But it is impossible for me to imagine myself modeling a bikini,especially the very skimpy ones those pageants have been usually utilizing now for many years. But the other fantasy I will mention just now is to be back to the weight I was in high school: a little under 150. In college I know I was at 165. now, after a diagnosis of bipolar in 1988, and having taken Depakote since 1996 I was up to 216, and I am only 5'6" now---at 70 I have shrunk 2 inches in the last 5 years.
Another fantasy would be to have really long pretty hair---I think of Jennifer Aniston in all the ways she used to have it on 'Friends." I am fairly bald on the front part of my scalp, but still mostly dark brown, graying areas are not very noticeable if I keep it short. In fantasy my real, really long semi-blond hair will do almost anything I want to try!
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The other day I found myself in a situation that was never a fantasy but could of or should have been...
(I haven't posted the details but my home situation has changed of late, and in a good way. I'll try to tell that story later.)
The situation was that my wife and I had finished afternoon tea together and I decided to do the morning dishes. We'd been working on a house project all day so she was still dressed in her work/painting coveralls. I was done shortly before she was so I'd changed into a light cotton sun dress. I felt a smile and warm glow as my minds eye took in the scene; I'm standing at the sink doing the dishes in my little sun dress while she's sitting at the table in her coveralls finishing her tea and reading the paper. What a nice role reversal/play. :) Good times.
One of my favorite fantasies is losing a bet with my wife over the Super Bowl. Remember when the Seahawks really blew it on the goal line against the Patriots. My wife won the bet and I had agreed if the Hawks lost that I would don my pretty apparel and serve refreshments for my wife's Friday night book club for as many Sundays as my wife had prepared refreshments for my buddies during the football season. She tabulated the preseason games, the regular season games and the playoffs. I tabulated 4 + 16 + 2 + Superbowl = 23 weeks! She said don't forget Monday night football. She had me scheduled to almost the beginning of the next football season.
She supervised my dressing for the first time. She had already let all the women know what was going to happen, so the dwindling attendance was reversed and she was having a packed house. She sat on the bed as I slipped into a white lacy bra and matching panty. That was followed by a vintage white slip with a lot of lace at the bodice and hem. She helped me with buttoning a sheer white blouse and then a black A-line skirt which hit three inches above the knee. She smiled as I rolled a fresh pair of jet black thigh high stockings up my leg and buckled a pair of four inch pumps onto my ankles. She did my makeup and set a shoulder length blond wig on my head.
The women loved me. My outfit was a hit. The straps of my bra and slip showed through the sheer blouse. I had to show off my stockings and slip and panty. I was destined to be a hostess for the next six months. Every Friday I served drinks and snacks. Soon the women accepted me and asked me to join them also in discussing the books they were reading. I even accompanied them to a book signing at our local Barnes and Noble, which was terrific because I was able to wear a pretty dress with matching heels. After that outing I was encouraged to wear pretty dresses, and, ended up wearing all sorts of summery dresses.
When football season was to begin again my wife offered a deal. She would prepare and serve refreshments for the guys and myself in return for continuing the Friday night book club routine. The women were ecstatic when I accepted.
I guess I went a little overboard on this thread, but! :)
I would LOVE to be a bridesmaid.
I would LOVE to be in a fashion show, not as a CDer but as just another model.
Mine is to have my wife to accept me and then feminize me. Dressing me up as her girl friend and then going out as girlfriends. When we get home we dress in sexy outfits and she dominates me in bed. I wake up the next morning as a women with long beautiful hair and nice full breasts.
I always dreamed of forming rock n roll group with other crossdresser.
Yess ssweetss... ..yess. :battingeyelashes:Quote:
Originally Posted by ShirleyN
My fantasy is to be dressed to the nines and go on a date night with my girlfriend!
Right now my biggest wish would be to dress and share a glass of wine or three with my wife and talk.
My fantasy is to be a GG and have my husband or boyfriend (whichever it is) take me on a romantic date wearing a LBD.....:daydreaming:
I guess my avatar is the perfect summary of my CD fantasy....
KimberlyJean's response hit a profound responsive chord. Excellent answer.
My fantasy would be to go shopping with my wife and have pick out some sexy lingerie for me to model at home. This a fantasy because at this time while she doesn't care if I wear panties and hose she will not participate.
wouldn't that be nice!
I just wish I could dress whenever I wanted too and go anywhere without the fear of being judged or losing all my friends. Something we all wish I am sure. At this poinnt in time the only folks I know that would not be judgemental are 2 gay male I know.
My fantasy is to be fully en femme in a long evening gown to attend a black tie even.
Vikky
another fantasy I have had for many years is to have all the clothes and be able to perform the segments in the movie "Gypsy" where Natalie Wood does those performances as burlesque star Gypsy Rose Lee. I especially love the last outfit she strips in which I think is just divine, and pretty and sexy! I think it is so perfect and lovely how each garment is put together making up the entire look and how each part comes off so easily
This may be strange but I would love to spend a week with a group snow skiing, with me as a woman the whole time. Everyone would know the truth but be 100% ok and I would just be one of the girls for the time we were there.
yeah! I kind of like the idea of a moderate sense of being dominated by my female boss (who would be in a knee-length miniskirt or minidress.:daydreaming::heehee:
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yeah! I kind of like the idea of a moderate sense of being dominated by my female boss (who would be in a knee-length miniskirt or minidress. very sexy!:daydreaming::heehee:Quote:
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When I get dressed, the first thing that pops in my mind is getting on my knees to service a man orally.
Once dressed, I feel so submissive and desperate to breast feed.
My ideal is for a man or woman to unbutton my blouse, slip down my bra strap, flop me out and latch onto my nipple.
I would lay for hours cradling them into my bosom.
Mine is simple and one that a lot of us would like to have. Fully dolled up and out to dinner and a show with my wife. Followed by love making at home.
Mh fantasy is to be a makeup girl at MAC. I would work as a girl and get to practice makeup all day at work. Then I could apply all I learn to myself!
Lauren
Alice B,
I'll second that fantasy as well, if only life were that simple.
M.
Broadway musical performer, in the line of perhaps Oklahoma....a dancing outfit, big petticoats, pretty shoes, old style stockings...dark red lipstick...and just swirling...
Yes Paula, I agree....I would love that too.
Another of my recent favourites, would be to be dressed as a princess and become involved in a lesbian affair with another princess.
A further one would be to be dressed as a french maid (full black dress with white apron and a white hat.
I just want to go out and have a fun gurls night out bar hopping. I would love to have some en femme friends to just hang out and play music or video games with. Tame fantasy but one that I strongly desire. I just want some friends that share this very important part of me.
another one of mine would be to dress up 1980s style (circa, 1983 or 1984 era). Just love the idea of that big long curly hair, maybe in a black miniskirt with fishnet tights? Mmmm sounds great.
A late 1950s/early 1960s pajama party would probably be my favorite fantasy. Plenty of movies, records, snacks, maybe even a pillow fight, girl talk and of course, everyone's wearing baby doll pajamas!
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My fantasy is to be able to change me and other people perfectly into the form I imagine.
Mine is so simple it may be boring. I would just like to go out and about from time to time as a slim, petite, pretty girl, tastefully dressed in a skirt, sweater or blouse, pumps and tights (I'm actually over 6' tall) and only be noticed and admired for that, just to blend in (though not at all ignored) and be appreciated. Shop for a few things (tights would certainly be among them, perhaps some shoes) sit in a coffee shop maybe reading a novel, with my stockinged legs crossed and have people being quite obvious about not trying to stare rudely, yet compelled to keep glancing furtively. It wouldn't be bad to be followed up by a little more exciting activity after sharing perhaps 1 glass too much of claret with someone.
I just wish i had another friend who crossdressed with me. I would love to just play dressup and do make up and just have fun together. But i dont have anyone to share that with. Most of my close friends know i crossdress but im pretty sure they wouldnt wanna sit around and paint my nails lol
My dream is to just dress as a female and just continue the life I have now.
Pretty happy with my life in general but I do wish it was in female form
I do have a fantasy when I dressed and sometimes when I'm not. It's that I'm a GG.:hugs:
Angie
You could make lots of friends, if we sisters knew where you lived.
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So many fantasies...here are the top 3...
1) Going back in time to the late 50s/early 60s and arriving at the Maidenform warehouse and being able to try everything on...
2) Here comes the bride - being a beautiful bride on her wedding day...
3) Belle of the Ball - fancy dress, being the center of attention...
Have a mock wedding in a place like Vegas where I am the bride of course, enjoy the whole day with a ceremony, reception and of course the wedding night!
I travel to Iceland often and often dream of being an Icelandic Air flight attendant, jetting around the world being female, young pretty and glamorous.
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To present as female full time, with acceptance & no fear or shame.
Kimberly Jean said it succinctly and best!
Interesting fantasies one and all...
How many of you have had a fantasy turn into reality and what was your reaction to it? I'm asking because in most of our fantasies, things are always "right..." the circumstances are ideal, the clothes fit perfectly and the people around us (if any) react the way we want them to. But that is probably seldom the case in real life.
Like many of us here, I have fantasized from time to time about wearing a wedding gown complete with all of the trimmings... appropriate lingerie, nicely styled wig, makeup, heels... the whole shebang. But the reality of the situation is that I'd have a hard time finding something that I liked, underwear would be a real challenge (style & size), people around me would only be my supportive wife and what would I do/where would I go dressed like that? then, what would I do with everything afterwards? So in that case, I think it best that it remains a fantasy.
Good luck to you and if you do get a chance to turn your fantasy into reality, I do hope that it is all you want it to be...
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I originally posted at #109. Another fantasy I have is to be hostess/waitress at a night club that has drag shows on the weekends. Actually, years ago there was such a place in my small city. But, alas, no more!
In my fantasy my female cousin who knew I loved wearing women's clothing told me such club was hiring waitstaff for the weekends. However, I had to dress as a young woman. I was hired for the position, and, showed up for my first day of work fully attired in a white blouse, black skirt, black hosiery and black heels with all the proper undergarments. My long hair was styled. My makeup was impeccable. I loved it. I made great tips especially if I did not object to getting patted on my ass or caressed up my stocking clad legs. It wasn't until a month after being on the job that the boss you hired me asked why I showed up in women's clothing all the time since there was no requirement to do so. My cousin played a trick on me.
My fantasy is to have a job. And maybe a car so I don't have to walk so far to get stuff. But it's just a dream I have.
Love your flicker photos. The engagement ring is a nice touch (for me, too). Do you fly en femme?