Absolutely Bi-Sexual. Sometimes Try- Sexual. I do prefer to be in the company of men when I dress as a female though.
Printable View
Absolutely Bi-Sexual. Sometimes Try- Sexual. I do prefer to be in the company of men when I dress as a female though.
I am also a bisexual crossdresser. However, I was cross dressing at such a young age and became a bisexual but I never felt that my cross dressing was the cause of my bisexuality.
Not to be glib, but I do believe that labels are for groceries on store shelves and bins of nuts and bolts in a hardware store. We are human and we frequently project a wide variety of personal preferences in our public and private lives.
That being said, over the earlier years of my life, I was always the typical male who had a love of women's clothing and manners and I never thought twice about how it would all work with other males. I just love women. Over the last 20 years that I got serious about being and acting like a female when dressed, something I never thought would happen. It evolved especially when out with other Tgirls and also my infrequent trips into the public eye. Now, after various exposures with these other Tgirls and when I as Sarah I am in the presence of males I start to feel the allure you possess and the attention you can get from them. It is quite a feeling which can lead to fantasies and desires that some times needs an outlet.
not to be double glib, but that's called being bisexual
I`m bisexual with TV`S ,CD`S, and TS`S
I am a bi make. But I found that I am particularly attracted to men when en femm. I had an experience dressed with a gg girlfriend and it just did not have the same thrill. As others posted I believe that it has something to do with the thrill of being taken as a woman, and the appreciation that is in it for all the hard work getting to look that good. I have a different feeling when I have not been dressed and had a male lover... a bit confusing but it works for now. Thanks
NO!:hugs:
Angie
That's a no for me. I love being with my wife. :D
I read this thread about a week ago and I've been think of a suitable response ever since. Here it is.
I love women, I love their shape, their curves and their touch. I have never been with a guy, but when in girl mode (and feeling very sexy) I do like to fantasize about being with men. As yet I am not in a rush to find one, and there are plenty of "toys" out there for just that. Does this make me bi? I don't know and I don't try to categorise. I am just me.
I love all things feminine...I guess one of them is how the feminine attracts the masculine. A fancy way to say I've "been there, done that" lol. It is what it is. I think some of us resist the "bisexual" label because it can have such negative implications/connotations. But who cares? Be safe, don't hurt anyone. We are only here once...enjoy the trip as best as you can!
We all have those thoughts and are mostly fantasy and something most of us will never act upon. Having such thoughts does not make you busexual
This. Thank you, this is me, too.Quote:
Originally Posted by Sarah S
Purely speaking for myself, I'm a straight person, but during my first and so far only crossdressing adventure in public ( read about it here https://www.crossdressers.com/forums...sal&highlight=) I did fantasize with and talk to a GG about 'making men happy'. I didn't play along, it came quite naturally being dressed and acting as a girl. I guess it was part of the full illusion and act of playing a woman. Being with a man (or the thought of it) makes you (or at least me) feel more feminine
I don' the label myself as straight ,bi ,or gay. I am me. If I want to be with a male or a female I will be. Yes I have been enjoying being with both sexes before I started to dress. Yes dressing gives me more of a desire to be with men a little more often. It is not so much about their gender as it is about the person
I don't really get into labeling my sexuality, but men simply don't do it for me. I try to avoid cis men as much as possible, and don't really see it for FtM trans men.
I’m a bi crossdresser. Like many here, I initially thought I was a straight cd and “bi-curious” but going out dressed one thing led to another and ended up fooling around with men and ended up liking it a lot. Took me years to come to this realization though. I do still prefer women as aesthetically they look better (hence why we crossdress to look like them lol) but I’ll admit a fit muscular guy can be really attractive to me. To each their own I guess, my suggestion is if you’re curious, try it if you get the chance, you might like it
for me, only attracted to women, their sensitivity and have mostly women as friends.
Being honest I have fantasized about being with a man when I'm fully dressed as a woman. I guess that makes me bi-curious, if the opportunity presented itself maybe.
I don't criticize a crossdresser mtf who says that doesn't have interest in men but I can read in this thread that dressed some have fantasies, some have desires and so e have fulfilled those desires or fantasies. Other define themselves bisexuals.
I personally think that if we enjoy dressing as woman, so.e enjoy going out dressed, it would be the more normal and natural to have women's sexual desires and fulfill them.
I identify with Jenny. If the opportunity arrived that would allow me to experience what it was like to be a woman being loved my a man, it might be truly a rewarding experience.
i'm only interested in women, i have no romantic interests in men or other t-girls at all,
I'm sure some crossdressers may be gay or bisexual just as gay and bisexual men are part of the general population that does not crossdress. Personally, i have never been attracted in any way, shape or form to another male. Any romantic or lustful interest that I feel or have ever felt is urge is solely for genetic women.
I am a CD. And I am also bisexual.
I fantasize of being with men and/or women while dressed as Leah and fantasize of being with men and/or women when I’m as a man.
Ironically enough, the idea of me and another CD doesn’t do much for me, now a transsexual woman is a different story lol
Can you be bi if you have never been with someone of the same gender and opposite gender? I've certainly had fantasies about being dressed and being with a man.
I believe that would fall under bi-curious, Claire. You may simply have to do some "personal research" on the matter to be sure. ;)
Yes.Quote:
Originally Posted by Claire_ORFL
I’ve never been with a man willingly, but f stasise and am attracted to them.
My counselor looked at me in the eye and said: “just because you never had it, doesn’t mean you don’t want it. You’re bi and that’s ok!”
It's an interesting stance. Are heterosexual virgins "straight curious" under those rules? Or do they get to be who they are with no experience?Quote:
Originally Posted by Kayliedaskope
The present thinking is that people are imprinted with their sexual orientation in the womb. If that's the correct, then you are what you are experience or no. That said, I did know a guy who had convinced himself he was bi and decided to do "personal research." He freaked out when a guy leaned in to kiss him and bolted out of the restaurant. (Then blamed me for taking him there.) So I think the answer is if you're bi you're bi. But if you are obsessing on some fantasy a little reality will settle the question Real Quick.
I'm definitely bisexual. I'm not sure if it has anything to do with me crossdressing. But I definitely get turned on more often by crossdresser than a naked men or in drab. I fantasied for long time about sex with another men, but until recently I never tried it. Because I'm naturally a submissive person, I was playing a role of a "women" on my first and only attempt so far. I know now I love giving oral, but not a fan of receiving anal. It hurts too much and I can't enjoy it.
I doubt I will get approval to do "personal research" but you never know...Quote:
Originally Posted by Kayliedaskope
I stated in my profile that I'm bi-curious, but I've never acted on it. If I ever got to experience being with a man, as a woman, and he was a gentleman type, and asked me to perform sexually as a woman, I'd probably experience my fantasies.
When I came across this thread and one other some months back I knew this community was for me. A closet CD I had just begun to ask this question of myself. And the responses I read gave me greater clarity, though not answers, about myself. Plus they allowed me to give Callie the same permission to be herself that I'd always had when presenting as male.
As a genetic male I have always been straight and perfectly comfortable with it. I have had no issues or concerns about my sexuality. It just was an accurate reflection of my desire. I have adored women greatly and they have often pointed that out to me. Nonetheless, the discovery of very femme CD and TG females strongly provoked my interest. Maybe that's bi to some...or not. It wasn't a question I ruminated over. The commingling of the male genitalia with a strikingly beautiful feminine body and face provoked sexual curiosity and interest. It continues to do so.
Callie's life has been briefer and she is pure virgin. Her lustful thoughts would most likely be pseudo-bisexual from the information about that phenomenon that LilSissyStevie provided. Yet, her erotic focus isn't truly men. It's pleasuring men. It's the seduction of the masculine archetype more than the man. It's bringing men arousal by stimulating their sex organs. The penis and her performance with it are the keys to her fantastical arousal.
For me it has nothing to do with homophobia or shame. It is the mindset; the different physiological paths that might be taken to achieve emotional and psychological arousal. Callie's desires feel unique, personal and independent of those I've had throughout my life presenting as male. I never sat down to distinguish them, and force differences they have just always seemed to be there. But en femme Callie has never had the opportunity to see if what arouses her alone with her imagination would also be what would arouse her in a true interpersonal dynamic.
I have no indications that Callie would be any more interested in a relationship with a male, and being nude in male form with another man, than I have ever been. My inclination is that she would not. That her pleasure is less from the man, than the idea of a man, of being an object of satisfaction capable of satisfactorily providing feminine pleasures. That's what I think today. It could change tomorrow, next week, next year, etc., progressing linearly or seemingly randomly and contradictorily. I think this authentic discussion has freed me from feeling as if I must self-label and reminded me to just live the moment. Let the moment define the moment and what I want right then. And then let the next moment do the same. Once it's all said maybe it will bring clarification to those around me or those who find clarity through labeling. I doubt it will be of much, if any significance to me. My hope will be that I allowed myself to feel authentically and, therefore, to make my choices, freely. And I hope that means that when presenting as male and as female that each path is unique and true.
I identify as bigender and bisexual. But the two things are totally unrelated to the other. I first kissed a guy aged 16, many years before I considered anything about my gender.
I consider myself straight, but I sometimes fantasise about being with a man sexually while dressed. The thought of actually doing it in real life turns me off though for some reason... I don't think I could bring myself to touch another man.
I lived my life as a straight guy. I have crossed dress going back to a child putting on my mother's clothes. I went on to live as an average guy with a guilt although urge to cross dress as a man. Between my up bringing and religion, I stayed away from it but after just not caring about what people think, I started crossdressing as a man, but when approached by men, being called Maam, Mrs, I never have got comfortable with it. I have like many of you had my bisexual attraction to other guys at times but only liked other cross dressers or fem guys.
I took it further and had some bisexual encounters but, I am dominated by my straight genes, yet willing and able to have sex with another guy. I have an S O. When she found out, I cross dressed. She popped the question of whether, I had sex with another man since with her. A relief. I was able to keep it a truthful relationship by saying no. Athough, In my first marriage , I told her, I have had sex with other guys, Being an open minded person. She had the attitude that things happen like that, It is posible for men to be a top and that all guys will top another guy and still be 100% man.
I firmly believe a guy topping another guy can do this without guilt or second guessing himself, But being a bottom is much different. I have bottomed and topped while living without guilt, Sure of myself at all times. And realizing where it came from in me. I like women, I love their clothes, I see some women and want to look like them, I am attracted to other men like me. So by definition, if this is what, I do and , I do this with men and women that makes me bi. If, I just do it here and there, the same. However all must agree. I one just does it with another guy. Never revisit it, your not bi. You had a bisexual experience regardless of what your feelings are.
Like many others here I have fantized about being with a man while dressed and acting like a woman. As I have become mote adventuresome I have had the opportunity to act on that fantasy. The many years of guilt took much to overcome but I have discovered that I enjoy being treated like a lady and enjoy sharing intimate moments with a man. Also very much enjoy being with other CDs.
For me NOPE, tried it once, I do not find men attractive at all, and not chance of me trying it again.