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I have been straight all my life and expect to remain so.
Living the straight life but can't deny my attraction to men and the bi lifestyle.Quote:
Originally Posted by SuzyZahn
I have had some experiences with a guy but only in a health club environment. I have not gone out in dress to a club where i might meet a guy. I would be nervous about the club experience but open to going to try. Then if something happens it happens.
Marveled at your insight after a daliance with a trans women. While dressed I experienced the role of a sexually active women and loved it. We both shared that experience at the same time. Afterwards my fear of being too involved I returned to my long term marriage, though greatly aware of my bisexuality. Finding a different way of turning me on than women do has been quite the roller coaster ride.Quote:
Originally Posted by RoseReve
I am just a STR8 guy that likes to Dress Pretty,
definitely gay and love being a woman in all respects.
I am kind of with SuzyZahn, Str8/bi Probably the first time I have ever said that. Brenda
Bi. MtF trans but live as str8 man who underdresses. Wife knows I dress but not true reason why. She thinks I'm just a CD. Kids do not know at all. I'm not willing to sacrifice my wonderful family situation for selfish needs. Underdressing helps dysphoria enough that I can live with it and still be relatively happy. That's not to say I don't have struggles, I do, but I can deal with them. I will not go outside our marriage for anything.
I stopped trying to fit my attraction into a singular label long ago. The umbrella term "queer" works, but that's as much about who I am as it is about who I like.
I am attracted to cis women, trans women (pre-, post-, or non-op), and MtF crossdressers (understanding the part-time nature of access to dress, accepting it at whichever interval it presents, and really only wanting to see that side of a CDer). I've known of my attraction to the first two groups since young adulthood but the realization that I'm also attracted to crossdressers is a more recent discovery in my life. From 2007-2017, the time in which I understood myself as a crossdresser, I looked at all other CDs as "member of a group I'm also in" and left out any judgment of "how good they look" beyond a kind compliment, but found myself deeply interested in, and attracted to, crossdressers as of 2019, two years after I came out as transgender.
What I find attractive in these groups of people varies wildly, and obviously I don't find all members of any given group attractive. There are commonalities amongst them but the differences in perception allow me to distinguish that, hey, I like crossdressers differently than cis women for reasons x, y, and z, which I will not expand on here mainly due to lack of eloquence on my own part. I understand my thoughts and the emotions which develop in a way that make great sense to me but I've found difficult to explain to others.
100% celebate
Totally straight.
100%straight Happily married. Just like to wear dresses
Straight. Never a doubt for me.
I'm bi, but don't really find men attractive. Have an urge every now and then especially when dressed up to be with a man. Definitely prefer women though.
100 % gay. I like guys. It doesn't matter if I am dressed female or not. I guess Amanda is straight but I am gay as my male self.
I'm bi. Love women and I've been with a few trans. Love sex with both but I do really enjoy playing with the latter more if you know what I mean, being able to wear pretty lingerie is the most exciting times I've ever had in the bedroom.
Straight, but I do like any feminine image, so I've been known to appreciate a CD, trans woman and even myself while dressed :o
100% other, trans and very happy
I think this is the first time I put it to word but I’m straight/bi.
Enjoyed your commentary to the topic here. My experiences are similar as yours. Married over 40 years and dressing since puberty off and on. Thinking about new experiences my imagination runs wild meeting attractive people. Read with interest about your trip to Ireland and planning to go some day to celebrate my heritage. Please share your experience with us as you return.
Reading all these comments is making my head spin.
First of all what do you mean by "Other"?
Never would have thought there were so many variations on a theme.
Ok, enough of that. In my youth I experimented and had some fun but found I prefer women.
Can't say I am straight because straight Men don't wear Panties, Brassiere, Slips etc. Can't say I am Bi either cause I am not attracted to Men, I can say I am more between a person that likes being a Woman and still be a Man if that works
I think I'm bisexual/heteroromantic. But I've been presenting as a straight man most of my adult life, so it's possible the bisexual part is pure fantasy.
If you like someone specifically for what's in their pants or under their skirt, you might be gay. If you like the woman you're with and she happens to have a pen** you didn't know about, that doesn't make you gay in my book. SameIf you don't care what they have for special bits. This is why I don't like labels at all. I don't think someone should be called gay, Just because their partner affirms their real gender.
Never tried anything but straight. Does that make me straight?
I sort of muddied my water earlier. I must be straight -- I have no attraction to males whether I'm drab or Geena. But, as suggested earlier, I see an attractive CD as an attractive woman, not a guy. I don't know that it redefines me.
This question comes up from time to time.
Totally straight.
It's complicated cause in today's world what is considered straight, gay or bi?
I was with men, mostly for financial reasons or needing a place to live. I don't like women, cd's or other trans women.
Recent days I don't have sex with anyone nor desire to have sex.
No attraction to males. So straight.
Straight. It gives me immense satisfaction when I can give someone pleasure. I can be bi if that is to fulfill a fantasy, but I want to be able to charge a high fee for it. Weird, isn't it?
There's a lot of people refusing to admit they're not straight in this thread.
This is a tricky issue. When in male mode I am completely straight. It gets complicated when being en-femme when I can fully experience my feminine side and needs. I do not exclude that the whole crossdressing thing in my case could be an excuse for or work-around to my hidden bisexuality. In female mode both female and male bodies seem to be attracting me.
Straight here but it's soooo confusing when in girl mode and guys hit on ya.
So true Rachel. I had a girlfriend for years who told me what?s the point of looking like a beautiful feminine woman if you?re not going to experiment with a guy .
🤷🏻*♂️
When I'm in girl mode I am attracted to masculine men. I have a man I met online and after a lot of vetting we meet from time to time. I always play a role. I'm a maid who did a poor job and now I have to "clean" a certain body part, or a schoolgirl who has to perform extra credit. He has a certain fetish so for Halloween I was a cat burglar caught by the house detective. To show me the error of my ways he bound me and alternated between tickling my feet and working my ribs. I was a quivering exhausted mess. But it was also a turn on being a helpless bad girl in her short skirt and nylons getting dominated by a big strong man who was really turned on by the act of controlling me. I'm a little weird.
Love that Mirima!
I'm almost entire straight and have some bisexual fantasies while dressed. I'm married to a woman and have no intention of ever going outside our marriage so it will stay a fantasty.
However, when I'm all dolled up, I feel somewhat attached to the male anatomy itself. It's strange, I feel like I could give oral but the thought of kissing a man is off putting.
Complicated!
I just realized what the Kinsey Scale is.
There is also a more extensive Klein Sexual Orientation Grid (KSOG) evaluation.
Your feelings sound a lot like mine. I too am attracted to the male anatomy, especially when dressed, but nothing beyond that.Quote:
Originally Posted by nalasirder
Kissing a man is not appealing to me at all, nor is any physical activity that doesn't involve the male member.
I am definitely bi.
I am straight, but then again, that's the most common definition for a cross dresser. (noun) (a straight person who "gets off" wearing opposite sex clothing) This is a whole 'nother "thing", so to speak, than a Homosexual, Bi or transsexual who does the same, as far as reasons go, with the straight CDers having a more complex and varied motivation set driving the condition rather than aspects of sexuality and identification associated with the other groups of people who Cross-Dress (The verb). With straights, we have all sorts of drives from fetishes, to humiliation SM, personal "escapism", stress relief, and even the "highs" associated with "Taboo breaking", deliberate personality disassociation, etc. I find it a very fascinating study that opens insights into how the brain/personality might function.
Basically, I am straight but when dressed as a woman the things get complicated. When in female mode, I desire to play the female role, preferably passive. I am attracted or even addicted to male anatomy but face. I don't know how much is this about fantasies only or just a real thing.
I've given this a lot of thought of late and think that I am pansexual.
Any feminine characteristics attract me.
I also love the male physique as long as it is fit although I'm not crazy about body hair.
I seek relationships with women and transgenders where they dominate me and I can nurse them.
Ugh, yes, body hair is a huge turnoff for me as well, and I'm not a fan of facial hair at all.Quote:
Originally Posted by candice_cain
and yes, although I'm mainly attracted just to the male's main part, what they are attached to needs to be relatively fit as well or that's a turnoff too.
I'm Bi. I have done some things with a couple of guys, and honestly would like to do more. When I do go to the internet to "surf" it's men I look at and watch and enjoy seeing them nude and wearing lingerie or just panties.
I've been married for over 30 years and love my wife, but fully admit to checking guys out. My wife knows that I crossdress and is fully supportive of it. She also knows that I am attracted to guys as well and we have had many conversations about it.
Yes, and complicated.
I'm not sure exactly where I fit into the gay/bi/straight spectrum. I'm only physically attracted to women, but don't mind playing with other men on occasion, especially in a public setting.
THIS one does, thank you very much.Quote:
Originally Posted by Bruce64
I am drawn to the feminine. That's what makes me want to be Jenny in the first place.
I claim the title hetero
Truth be told, I have not had nearly enough time "out" to have experienced attention from males. It will be an interesting experience if and when it happens.
Truth be told, I draw far more energy from my interactions with GG's when dressed. I know that I'm paying laser-focused level attention to all their little mannerisms and movements, as well as seeing how their clothing works with their natural curves.
<shrug>
Jenny