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Sounds fun, but living in London, I never learned to drive. I use public transport, buses and tube. I haven't tried this en femm yet.Quote:
Originally Posted by Cami_wi
It's the old one about not :cheers: drinking and driving... I gave up the :devil: driving...
Cheers.
Kim
:dom: :Party2:
Yes. I have done the same thing. I was most nervous heading to the car. Once I was there I felt safe. My wife feels that I should go out more often as I have outerwear for all seasons. I had an interesting thing happen last weekend. We were out shopping with me in drab, I hate men's clothing now.
Anyway, I was looking for some fashion boots to wear with my new long black skirt. We were at the sales counter and of course they try to sell you protectant. My wife inadvertantly told the sales person no thank you he'll only be wearing them inside. My jaw dropped. It did not seem to phase the sales person.
I'm 6 ft. 180 lb. in stocking feet so I don't feel confident walking around outside as I feel I might stick out like a sore thumb. However; I try to dress conservatively with clothing and makeup befitting my age (60) so as not to draw too much attention.
I need more confidence and probably someone to help me over the hump. My wife is very supportive of my desires but really does not want to be directly involved although I dress very often around the house when she is there and it does not bother her. I just do my thing. I suggested that at least once a month we have a girls spa day. Jacuzzi, facials, manicures and wine and cheese. She thinks that would be a fun thing to do. I'll let everyone know how it goes when we finally do it.
Sorry for the long winded reply. I just got wound up.
Hugs
Margot
Driving when dressed is a great feeling, even though I've only done once or twice. The feeling of stockings and suspenders straps rubbing under a tight short skirt as you legs move driving is so good!
Used to dress and drive alot , then my car brokedown , I found that for me then it really boosted my self-confidentce , buying gas at AM/PM, in femme dress , I miss my car :( but hoping to get another one soon ......
I remember my first dress n drive. I decide to go through the drive through at Wendy's. There were several cars in line so I figured that the server would not remeber that a male voice had placed the order. When he handed me my change he said, "Thank you mam." I wanted to say "You sweet wonderful boy," but decided that would blow the moment.
Dress n drive and a night time walk in a safe park feels great.
TTFN
Cyndie
Wonderful photo! But I better stay away from Atlanta - I would definitely cause a major pile-up trying to catch a glimpse.... :eek:Quote:
Originally Posted by Deidra Cowen
Three times now for me, first time was completley dressed. Wig,makeup, earings, short black skirt, matching top and 3" open toe heels. Went to pickup my fiance from work, very exciting. 2nd time was halloween, dressed all day in public. 3rd time was last nite, dressed again to go pick up my fiance from work. I live in townhouses, so allways a big risk that a neighbour will be looking, but oh well loved the feeling anyway!!!
I have a t-top sports car that adds to the excitement. Truckers, I have learned, enjoy watching for gals, especially in short skirts! I was on the freeway and was passing a long line of trucks when I looked up at the driver staring down at me, giving me a big smile. and waving! I realized that my seatbelt had pulled my skirt up enough to show my stocking tops. As I passed the trucks it was the same....(they were talking about me on there radios) At first it was embarrassing, then I thought, if these guys are getting a kick out of it...what harm is it!
Been stopped by traffic cops twice while dressed! (It's a sports car) Never got a ticket either time!
Driving with a full western swing skirt with a petticoat is an adventure...it poufs out everywhere! I learned later that you do not wear a petti in a car...you put it on in the ladies room (where appropriate) when you get to the club!
Have fun out there
I finally have a house with an attached garage not used for storage. I can actually park in it. I can dress for an event, walk directly from the kitchen to my van in the garage, drive to the event and not worry about the neighbors seeing me.
Yesterday morning was a "velvet" day. Black velvet pants and a top, with my forms on. Black thigh-hi's and ankle boots. I was out of cigarettes. (no lectures please). There is a drive through discount shop a few miles away. I figured what the heck, why change, just go. It was cold so I did have a black winter jacket on. The clerk at the drive through can look down right into the van. All was ok, heh, until I dropped the change as I was paying. I had to open the door, reach down for the change. I'm not sure if she saw my velvet top, which was a little low cut and may have shown the forms. She smiled as I drove away. But, she usually does.
Never completly dressed since I haven't really tried makeup and I only have the one wig. I don't think I'm that passable anyway. Before I decided to be a stay at home dad, I would wear a skirt and heels to drive home almost every day. I always wore pantyhose so it was perfect except the time the cop pulled me over.
My first time out dressed was a Dress and Drive. I know I would never pass, but that didn't stop me from makeup, jewlery, the works! What made it really exciting was that I did not bring and drab stuff with me. If I got a flat, well then I goiing to be totally out. I initially figured I would just drive around the block. Well the block ended up being about 50 miles long.
I just remembered an incident either on the news or on a reality cop show.
Cops were chasing a pickup truck I think in California somewhere, and the driver would not pull over, when they finally got the truck cornered, the driver turned out ot be a balding guy in a skirt, blouse, panties, and bra. With makeup too BTW.
It was noted that when they initially flshed their lights at him he removed his wig.
So the moral is keep your sense of humour and smile pretty when the cops want to speak to you.
That way you won't end up on reality TV...OH MY, look at that!!!
"Reality T.V." !! Very punny eh?
Jestina!!
its all I have mangaged.. many years ago as a teenager an when I was in my early 20s. I dressed hen my parents were out - jumped in the car to avoid the neighours and drove about 5 miles. I stopped at a telepone booth and got out. I was only outside for 3 minutes but the rush of wind up my skirt was great.
A few years later when I was a student I dressed and walked aorund the block in the dark. I avoided eye contact so I don't know if I was read. This gave me the confidence to drive into town in the dark, get out of the car and go to an ATM. I passed people but again didn't get any eye contact so no idea if I was read. But that was 20 years ago and life has changed. A wife, kids, responsible job and it never progressed. I keep dreaming of going out again, but would like an evening out with other CDers. The thrill of sharing a night out would be great. I am so jealous of all you girls who can do it!
Whats that in my rear-view mirror.....Blue&red lights .......:eek:
I have dressed and driven numerous times. Once, I was about 5 miles from home and the car suddenly stopped running. I coasted onto a side street to see if I could figure something out. I was terrified at the prospect of walking home at 2 AM in 3" heels and dressed to the nines. I never figured out what was wrong. I wiggled some wiring. Fiddled with the coil and distributor. Checked the gas gauge. Nada. Tried to start it and it started right up and never gave me another problem. Sure took me a long time to decide to venture out again.
almost every time i buy something i have to were it home so i find an isolated spot in the mall parking lot and dress in the car! when i wear a wig i feel safer i dont worry about being stoped next to someone who could see i just hide behind my hair. Its worked so far.
To Group: :love:
Imma has put on National Nude Pantyhose, A Playtex 18 Hour HWLLPG, Two pairs of National Black Stockings, a Rago 6210 HWLLPG, Red Vasserette Panties, and a Rago panty brief. :eek:
Imma has sewed nine garter grip loops to each leg of Playtex girdle and girdle prevented from sliding down with a pair of wide suspenders attached to top of girdle. :D
Nothing can match the despotic grip of nylon stockings, many garter grips, and a tight girdle held in place. :o
Imma plans a drive in drab over clothes to store and buy LOTTO ticket. Could buy a lot of good stuff with $9Million!:thumbsup:
LOL:heehee:
:doll: Imma:doll:
Used to love to dress and drive. Would get dressed once wife had gone to work and then go out. Sometimes I would drive to a TV changaway store about 45 minutes away. Would pop in shop, have a coffee with the girls there then drive back home. From there it progressed to filling the car with petrol, going into shopping centres (malls) and window shopping and hearing the click of my heels on the tiled floor. Sometimes I would visit a small lingerie shop on the outskirts of a large town and several times bought myself some sexy underwear. Used to love seeing my reflection in the rear view mirror too and my polished nails on the wheel. As a woman, I was often let out at junctions by men, lovely feeling, would smile and a little wave of thanks.
In fact it was while getting the car out of the garage to go for a dressed drive that my neighbour (who I'd thought had gone off to work) suddenly appeared asking if I was alright, and how *****( my male name ) was, she didn't recognise the female me, not until I told her who I really was, but that is a whole different story.
As Karren will attest, my area of the country is not very understanding or tolerant of us girls, but sooner or later I will dress and drive, right now I spend a lot of time at home working on my walk...
W, G, M, all little towns I live around and drive through regularly have the porto typical "red neck" cops who would love to find something on a girl and maker her pay for a life time...course if you don't live here you wouldn't understand...
With all that said, I will dress and drivevery soon, perhaps with my wife as an escort...
I have only done this one time and it is the only time I have ever been out in "public". I was alone at a cabin in the mountains in east TN. I would never have the nerve to do it from home. It felt great!
When I first moved to Vegas, I lived in several of those motel apartments usually having several floors. In two of them I lived on an upper floor and had to walk up flights of steps - outdoors and open.... :eek:
It wasn't the driving that was the challenge, it was the notion of being spotted and ridiculed that caused me a lot of concern. :devil: Vegas is a redneck town, believe it! And these folks can be pretty tough!
I was usually dressed in black, as a Domme, and with pretty flashy jewelry and accessories - and so I expected exaggerated reactions.
As so often is the case, the results were never as disastrous as I expected, and with a few askew glances and an overheard after-remark or two, that was as bad as it happened. Whew :D
:heehee: Rickie :dom:
As a cop, I have o tell you to be careful so you do not get pulled over. That could be very embarrasing.
I still Dress and Drive....but usually on my way to and from somewhere.....
Karren
[/QUOTE] Before you know it, you'll be dancing the night away in a sequined cocktail dress.[/QUOTE]
Sky, What a sweet and darling enocuragement!
I've dressed and driven several times...it is a thrill (especially the walk to and from the car) I agree that the feel of nylons is exquisite and driving in heels really is different. I'm looking forward to getting a super-glam pair of sunglasses, earrings that are HUGE, hang an adorable rufflely blouse on the clothes hook in the backseat, and just relish being the girl I want to be just driving down the road!!
Ejaye, embarrassing sure, but what about legal bits? Is it against the rules in some states??
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Originally Posted by Imma
Imma:
You certainly write the most interesting posts on this forum.
I never tire of reading them. Always good for a smile.
Jestina.
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Originally Posted by EjayeCD
Ejaye:
My dad was a cop for a while, which is funny to me as an Irish stereotype, and my grandma was from Boston.
Totally irrelevant to this thread and just passing comments.
However, I must ask, is it illegal to drive a car en femme in any states?
I was friends with a cop in the 1960's who dressed and drove a lot.
He thought it was funny and he usually had a few drinks before doing it.
He always claimed to be going to a costume party.
At a wedding he told us that it was illegal on a technicality where the law made reference to "being in disguise".
In those days their was no such thing as photo ID on a license.
A drivers license in Ontario was a piece of paper the same as a title was printed on. So it would only be read as a gender issue in this case as there would be no other reference.
My picture looks nothing like me so I could be "in disguise" every day!
LOL!! As most of us could I guess.
So back to the question...Illegal anywhere that you know of?
Jestina.
I have done it fully dressed many times and always get a rush. Usually I do it at night and will get out of the car to get a soda from a vending machine where I can be seen from a distance by passers by. Billie Jean
Jestina:
Thanks for response.
Imma has written numerous technical papers and my family tells me I should write a book.
Lots of true and funny stories from a traveling salesman of twenty eight years.
Thanks again for words of encouragement.
The old sales rules still apply.
A blind hog will find an acron - If he just keeps rooting around!
LOL
Imma
it turn out that i'm not alone, my first time out was at night time, when out for a ride, wearing high heels, mini skirt and a blond wig, let me be honest i was shaking thinking that every body was looking at me, but it was fascinating a beautiful experience
Hi to everyone.
Regarding driving whilst dressed - although here in the UK, it's perfectly legal to wear women's clothing in a public place, although I wouldn't because of the looks and remarks I'd get from the general public!
So the only way to safely do it, is to go out for a drive whilst wearing.
I frequently do this of an evening - usually whilst wearing a wig, makeup, a black basque with nylons, mini-skirt and a blouse or top. I'm then free to drive around and get the tremendous 'buzz' from wearing my favourite clothes! Sometimes I stop somewhere quiet and take a short stroll - the feeling of pure freedom and 'naughtiness' serving only to heighten my experience! On these occasions, I have been known to hitch up my skirt and show the world my sexy undies as an act of defience - in effect, sticking two fingers up to society for not allowing me to indulge in what is after all, a harmless pastime that hurts nobody! I also frequently drive around of an evening in the privacy of my car, with my skirt hitched right up so that 'everything' is on show - the sensual feeling I get being indescribable!
I also sometimes wear my undies of an evening and wait until it’s dark before going out into the back alley behind my house. Usually, all I’m wearing is a wig, my black basque, nylons and a black negligee, and I quietly move the short distance to the end of the alley where it joins another. Once there, I lean back against the wall in the semi-shade of the orange street lights and allow my negligee to fall open to expose my undies! The feeling of being dressed in my sexy undies in a public place making it so exciting!
I have been approached by the police whilst 'dressed' in my car in a lay-by.
They asked what I was doing and then asked why I was dressed as a woman?
I told them that it gave me a feeling of freedom and liberation like no other - the constraints and pressures of being an everyday male, simply disappearing and allowing me to fully relax! To their credit, they made no snide remarks or tried to belittle me, nor did they laugh or make any diccourtious remarks, and they said that they could see what I meant by how I felt. The meeting ended with them wishing me well and with them driving away - leaving me to enjoy the time left that evening.
To sum up - if you haven't tried driving whilst 'dressed' - then do it, and find out for yourself just how sensual it feels!
Good luck to you all!
Wow, well said Suzy. There isn't a lot I can add to that and agree with you whole heartedly.
Dress and drive is one of the first and best experiences i've ever had and still do on occassions. Do my make up before leaving the house, put my attire in the car ready then leave under the cover of darkness so the neighbours don't see.
Then find a safe place to park to get changed. Here comes one of the best bits, when i remove my trousers to expose my nylon covered legs then slide a skirt up. Replacing my traniers with high heels. Phworr.... what a feeling and knowning that the illussion is all coming together.
It just has to be done.:happy:
Cami some time I drive home from work at night dressedin hose heel skirt and bra and just love it but as for going out I just don't pass at all :hugs:
Angie
After a tough morning of work, I took the afternoon off to buy Kristen some new clothers. She has been so good recently. Before I left, I put on knee-highs (going to Payless) and panties (hoping to buy a new skirt or jeans). Having read this thread earlier, I decided to drive in heels.
It was so much fun, even though I was still dressed in my guy outer clothes. When I parked the car at the mall, I gingerly stepped out as darkness was falling. Then walked around the car. Then up and down between cars in the lot. It was a thrill. Hearing the click of my heels outside was exciting.
Now I'm planning a few more excursions!
Did another dress and drive last night. I was all stressed out about taxes and decided to dress to relax. so I put on my black and white thong and matching bra, garter belt and black nylons, my red skirt and red blouse and my new black 3" heels. did my make up and finally put on long wig. as I was relaxing watching TV I went to get a glass of milk and saw that I wass out. so I drove to a little stop and rob that Is not very busy at nights and is about 30 minutes from where I live so I would not be recognized. I went in with my heels a clickking and the cool air under my skirt. the clerk range me up and I paid then in my best fem voice I wished him a merry christmas and left. the drive home was the best. verry exciting. will have to do it again soon. :be: :luvu:
Hell yes I have done that a few times when I first divorced,,I can remember the excitment like it was yesterday.. I used to bring a flashlight with me so it would shine down on my heels and legs. that was before they had these didgital cams I have been thinking for making a quick little movie while driving..:wave:
Hi. My second drive out, I stopped at might, in a small coastal town, in Washington state, walked around the waterfront docks, then through town.. A cop car, was slowly lurking, following me around town. I was nervous, and pantyhose kept slipping down, and I had to feep pulling them up. I got into my car, and drove back toward my motel, and the cop was following me, after a few miles, he turned on his lights, and I just about dirtied my dress! He asked me what i was doing walking around at night, and if i had been drinking, and where i was going. I told him i was dressed up, as a woman, to see what a lady goes through, what it is like . He said he did not care about my clothes, but about my nervous driving. I told him I was going back to my motel nearby, and he let me go. Boy, that was scary. Just, the night before, I took my very first drive, dressed up, and got gasoline. I went and got gas twice, that night, and several people noticed me. After the cop left, I got gas again, in my short dress, dark hose, and 4" black patent leather pumps, and a few people , especially one guy really noticed how tall I was, and my legs. Lucille
Last Friday I bought a pink denim mini skirt and had it on at home with a pink lace cami and heels. I had arranged to visit a friend for the weekend at his weekender. I knew he wouldn't be there before midnight because of his work schedule. So anyway as it was getting on dark I decided to drive up dressed as I was. It is about an hour's drive and the experience was fantastic.
I'd be totally absorbed in the fear that either the car would break down, I'd get pulled up for speeding or some other stupid thing, or any number of other catastrophes.
Though I'm happy to CD at home, I shant lie and say I've not entertained the fantasy of doing it once in my life, going out en femme. My biggest issue is I'm just too tall, that scares me and I feel that would be my demise in the give away stakes.
hugs
x
beckii
I can confirm that. I wasn't stopped by a cop while driving, but got checked out for my identity while walking back to my car from nightly walk. Really emberassing. I always dress up at home to the last detail and than drive to the other part of the town to walk around a little. I really enjoy those walks in the public and feel great while walking around dressed as a woman, but I just can't deside to tell my family and friends about my passion. I think I might loose my job if I come out of the closet. Drive away from my house and back to is really scary. I always fear that someone might see me, even that I go out like that only at night.Quote:
Originally Posted by EjayeCD
To Group:love:
Imma went out today in drab but was dressed underneath my pants and shirt.:devil:
As shown in photograph, Imma would have preferred to drive in exposed garters, black stockings, and black patent high heel oxfords.:o
Today, Imma was wearing nude pantyhose, Custom Maid 578 HWLLPG, black stockings, Rago 6210 HWLLP, red Vasserette panties, a Rago panty brief, and a red belt.:eek:
The tugging feeling of the garter tabs on the Custom Maid girdle and the stockings was fantastic!:thumbsup:
LOL:heehee:
Imma:doll:
Dress and drive is great fun.
generally the only time I get to be dressed and out of the house.
long drives with heels is murder though!
Dont let'em catch you doing 55 in a 54.......:eek:
A couple of times years back, along country roads at night, would find a secluded parking area, pull off my shirt etc, on with a flowery Laura Ashley mini-dress, off with lower half and trousers, shoes, socks, etc and the delight of knickers and tights, mid-length boots, and then start off again ... the thrill of oncoming headlights and the idea of being seen, driving fast, the fear of what might happen if something went wrong.... too exciting to be safe...
Not counting, of course, the times I've driven for an actual destination, I've made several cross-country trips in a skirt, pantyhose, and heels, without wig or makeup, and including several restroom stops in a skirt. I've even taken my mother to the airport and helped her unload in a skirt and pantyhose. It's a blast.
I used to check into motels and get dolled up ,then after midnight or so ,I would walk around outside ,maybe get some ice out of the bin, or get a coke or such. I was seen on several occasions, but never really noticed,I think.
But wow I remember the flush rush that I would get.:rolleyes:
Usually when I buy a new pair of heels, I will wear them on the drive home with nylons on under my jeans of course. But I can only recall two times in the last couple of years that I was out in anything more than heels and hose,and both times it was for a drive in my car and at night.
Allison, I love doing exactly that. Knee highs, boot cut jeans and strappy heels.....wow!!!
Have nopt heard anything in this catagory for a while. does any one do this anymore?
I have on quite a few occasions. Even some of the times I have a place to go, wind up being no more than a dress and drive.
The first time was in the early 70's, a gg girlfriend had "talked me into" getting dressed and going out to a straight club. She got me all dolled up, in her dress, and made me up, and did a pretty good job, considering what she had to work with. Then after a martini for courage, off we went. We walked down 6 floors because I was too scared to take the elevator! When we got to the club, we found that they were closed that night!! so, technically, it wasn't a dress and drive, I did try to go into the club, just never made it.
The most recent was an attempt to go to "drag night" at a local gay bar. I drove all the way there, and pulled into the parking lot. As I passed the entrance, I saw a gamut of guys, and no one other than me wearing a dress, so I chickened out, and just made a uturn and left... to the hooting in the background as I passed the door again! Then, just to make the night even more memorable, during the drive back home, I had to slam on the brakes to avoid hitting two deer that jumped in front of me!!!! My heart was in my throat!!! There were some other adventures, but they can wait for another post.. HUGS .. Cathy