Anyone Still Like Being a Man

I dont know if i can pick one over the other and ill tell yoall what i mean by that. i injoy being a guy but is that becuz thats all ive ever known? again dont know. i do know this ive been cding more in the last 10 years than i have in the 30 years before that and definatly more after i started looking at this sight and all the kindrid sprits within. so i guess what im saying is ask again in about a year (and im shure sumbody will) maybe i can give a better vote one way or the other...cp...:straightface:

I like being a guy most days. I love cars the out doors and such. These thing i think I would enjoy if I wear a girl too. So ether physicall gender would probably result in basicly the same person.

I love being both and the balance it creates for me. If I cannot dress for a while the man part of me is not nice to be with, but after dressing up for a day the man in me has fun with life. Today life was one of the best on top off the world and all man, maybe it was being dressed last night and looking all girl that brought peace to my world, just my thoughts.

Luv regina

Your Feels Are Very Much The Same Feelings I Have All The Time, When I'm Dressed As A Woman All I Want Is To Experience All The Things That A Real Woman Would(encluding Sex) But Until I'm Comfortable With My Self Being Seen As A Woman I'll Stick To Just Playing With Myself In Private......

will always be aspects of me that are all man, am hoping to blend them with the finer points of my femme side and come out one again someday,better than the original!balance is the key in my little world.bottom line- enjoy what you can, endure what you cant!

[SIZE="3"]Hmmmm a new and improved me, part gurl, part man, all human,...."we can rebuild him, we have the technology"! Now there is an idea for a new series on TV The Bionic Crossdresser, Yikes.[/SIZE]

hmmmmmmm... bionic boobies??????????? i could work with that!

I guess if i could start again from birth or early childhood - I would definaitely choose to be a girl with all that implies, including motherhood. However having reached where I am - husband, father etc. etc. as a male there is no way that the clock can be put back. furthermore I am attracted by females not males

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Ivey

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Originally Posted by Karren Hutton

Love being a guy as much as being a girl!!! Best of both genders!!!

Love Karren

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Yep!
I like going into my "Phone Booth" dressed as a "GUY" and coming out "Female" and "VISA VERSA".
Guess you could call me a "QUICK CHANGE ARTIST":heehee:
LOL
Tamera

I think I am in Girl Mode all the time, even if I'm dressed as a man. I'm always thinking of things to do dressed, and planning my next outings. I love makeup, high heels, sex undies, and clean fresh shaved legs, a pretty sundress, a new skirt and blouse, short shorts and tank tops, HEY!!!! I think I must be a girl!!!!!!

:love: Vickie

At one time I enjoyed being a guy, although I never liked sports, and other guy things, although I do love the car hobby, and women. I have always liked womens fashions, and prefer their clothes. I dont like being a man anymore, I would definately be a woman and take all the good and bad that comes with being a woman.

To be honest with you, there are some good things about being a guy. It is much easier to be a slob, go without shaving for a couple of days, be a beachbum, wear beat up raggedy clothes, just watch ballgames and drink beer.

I think that when I was trying to transition some years ago, that the counselor I was going to, saw right through me, and declined to prescribe hormones and put me on a program. I thought I was ready to be a full time female. My friends were already well advanced in their transition. I thought I was ready for the physical alterations.

Yes, I have a very, very strong feminine side, but I have also liked being a grandpa. Does that answer your question?

Big hugs,


Rita,

Now back to my chores, haha

[QUOTE=Karren Hutton;842959]Love being a guy as much as being a girl!!! Best of both genders!!!

Ditto that!

I like being a guy but I've never really been interested in football,fast cars and beer.Deer hunting either.I like electric trains,amatuer rocketry,Star Trek,Rock and Roll and crossdressing.

I like being a MAN.

Protector, Provider, Complement to Woman: Physically, Emotionally, Spiritually.

I can do all these things and still suck at Guy stuff.
Lately, since I have been relentless in my pursuit of Enfemme Joy and Glory, I have been sucking at and deferring Guy stuff.

On the other hand, I have carried the ball for my household finding new work (As a Geek), a new Home (closer to my daughter's schools), and finding a new car (old one up and died), and being the guy my daughter calls whenever things aren't working out for her.

I am temporarily sucking at being a Guy, while I figure out how to be a Girl more efficiently. Much of the confusion is coming clear now. It takes women years (a lifetime), I am very guy-like in my (I can do it!) arrogance that it should take me a few more months!


Also, I spent a lot of years clueless as to what women were thinking when they were driving me mad. I'm going to be a much more serene and complementary partner when next I take a woman into my arms and heart.

:rose: Roberta :rose:

I am deffinatly a man, a man that has softer side. I have always felt that their has been a fem feeling in me, and I am greatful for that. I dont fully understand woman, but becuase I get in touch with this woman inside me, I am starting to understand them emotionaly. As much as I love to put on a dress every now and then and pretend to be one of the girls, I could never truly be a real woman. Plus then I would have to find a support group for lesbians:D

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Originally Posted by Eva Diva

I just sat through a few hours of the NFL draft coverage - not a lot of women would do that without a gun to their heads. :D

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You'd have to put a gun to my head to get me to watch that, regardless of how I'm dressed. & you'd have to keep waking me up.

I have never felt really comfortable with a group of guys. Not to say I have romantic feelings just not into sports, cars, chasing women, binge drinking...... Always felt more comfortable around the ladies. I do admire and very much love the look and feel of a woman, but also love the look and feel of being a woman myself at times. I do motorcycle, hike and do home repairs/remodeling but so does my wife. I am comfortable dressed as a man but also comfortable, maybe more so, as a woman.

Let it go and grow and see what blooms.

What a great thread...I had been thinking about this one myself. I love being a guy and playing golf and being competitive. I have several guy friends that I would not trade for anything. As for being a woman...I love that too and want to be as feminine as I can be. Its the transition that I enjoy. Hard to explain. At the end of the day I feel fortunate to have both genders within me...

Well I agree with Karren 50% male 50% female. I am not to bad at being a guy but it sucks some times. i would love to dress more as a female but for now my job won't let me.

I like being a cross between the two M/F……. kinda like a two for one special that’s half off for a limited time only.:)

I pick both genders. I like being a guy and a girl.

A'hhh - the classic conflict that has been within me all of my life -- at least since my earliest of memories. I enjoy both sides of myself! I guess, as has been said, I have got to be me, and "me" is a combination of both genders!!! I have no desire or intention to change my anatomical sex, but rather want to continue to have the best of both worlds!!! I have done well as a male, but I have, all of my life, constantly thought about my feminine side and how I love to express that side through crossdressing!!! It is so prevalant within my heart, mind, and soul!!!

Am successful as a guy, wat i dont like about beign a guy is that male cloth/fashion are so FIXED men are not adventurers in DRESSING-UP.... not many colours, not many different designs, no sexy new trends, they are not mostly fitted, and one thing that is important but men dont do it is coloring their nails (which i love and tend to get me into trouble) and male beauty is so plain not RICH and not deep, BUT if mens WORLD will adopt all the things i mension above i think I might never want to CROSSDRESS or FANTASIZE about beign a woman, but i think am a woman am almost sure cos sometimes i really feel like crying cos i cant be pregnant, i cant paint my nails without having some complications in ma life, i cant cry in public, and there are so many ornaments and postures that i cant do in public even i get some confort,... the list is endles.

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Originally Posted by becca1125n

Does anyone still really like being a guy?? I really do like being a guy a lot...I enjoy sports, I still like shoping for mens clothes, I like being on a date with a girl still. However if I could choose to pick my gender when born, I'd with out hesitation pick female I believe. Dressing does do somthing for me I can't explain...and since getting more in touch with that side of my self I even look at girls differently, not only am I attracted to them, but I wish I could be them as well.
I saw a post that some one wrote that said they think they have a multiple personality disorder. I understand where they are coming from on that, I don't believe I have a disorder by any means, but When I am a man vs when I'm a woman, I have different personality traits and I feel like a different person.

Before It was easy to go in spurts and not dress for months at a time, but with in the last 5 months or so, its been so hard not too, and its been with in the last 5 months that I have purchased more than just clothes and dresses, did the wig shoes and makeup thing as well.

NOt sure exactly where I am going with all of this, but I guess just does anyone still feel very undecided about there gender, which one do you prefer, and if you could choose just one, which one??

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I love being a guy,first&foremost.I equally enjoy sneaking into mothers
closet,when she is away,and dressing in her wardrobe.I love the feel of
silky pantyhose,on my legs,as I go into mothers closet,where I pull out
one of her short mini skirts& a silk blouse&a pair of black heels,and walk
all through the house,practicing walking in heels.Other times,I enjoy dressing
in her good short skirtsuits&pantsuits,as well

I love being a man. Just wish I could look more like a woman when I am dressed. Also wish I had the guts to get breast augmentation surgery.:heehee::happy:

Im happy being my guy self,,am that way probably 90% of the time. Some of my favorite hobbies are cooking and gardening but I dont consider those fem type of hobbies. Never cared a lot about commercial sports,,multi million dollar pitchers and quarterbacks contracts just bug me when I have to pay $10.00 for a beer at a game. More power to those guys I guess but I just dont care enough about it to support any sports in particular.
A couple years ago I was full Cindy mode one night, up at 3 AM to go hunting (back in ugly guy mode) and shot my biggest deer at 7 AM wearing my now lucky VS red undies under my camo LOL
Try explaining THAT to some consoler :)

Cindy

I love being a guy. That said, I would love to be Alyssa most of the time when I am not at work. It is hard to explain how natural I feel in a dress and heels. I find myself not just admiring the women I see day to day, but secretly longing to be free to come and go as they do. In the end for me, I just have to find the right balance between my male and femme sides and go with it.

I like being feminine, but most of my life has been what society dictates as masculine. I grew up on a dairy farm, I have always been outside, hunting,fishing canoeing ,that sort of thing. Even now I live in a cabin in the mountains. I do know thing, as far as looks go, it's a lot easier being a man.

I love being a guy and love dressing; When dressed I am I love the way i look smell and feel wonderful. Think i Have the best of both worlds; while its great to be a women , being a man has it
's advantage. I don't have monthly periods, getting my belly blown up with a baby, going through menopause, and all the other hazards of being female.

But: " I enjoy being a girl"

I have spent my whole life being envious of women. From the time I was a child I always wanted to be a girl -- not a boy. Although I've had a fairly successful life as a man, I still have these recurrent feelings. I just wish I were a woman. To some degree, crossdressing helps me cope with these feelings.

I definitely like being a guy when I'm not en femme. I like playing the male role, being the tall strong guy who can lift all the heavy stuff, and whatnot, but when I'm feeling femme, I kind of wish I wasn't so big and manly.

Mixed feelings I guess, but I definitely have moments when I love being a guy.

Hi I very much like my guy self as much as my girl self best of both worlds
As a Bi sexual I am attracted to both genders so sex is a fun thing
I do not feel that God made a mistake He just made me but I would be happier had I been born a girl no plans for a trip to the surgon both sides of me like each other thankfuly and he is content to let her run about and be girlie
Hugs Annette

As I reflect on my life, 55 years of the 60 being a transvestite,now transgendered person, I believe that a major component in my going the way I have is not being accepted by males as an equal. I was soft looking, long eyelashes, weaker, younger, maybe a scaredy cat, etc. Girls felt empathy for me, I recall, inviting me to their girl only parties-once I recall well. I think this was one major factor in going to the other side. I wish I had been born a girl and except for playing with old cars, would be happy to live only in a woman's world. regards, helen

Nope, not really anymore. I've never really been into sports. I do like cars and trucks and motorbikes. But I also know a few gg's that are more into sports and cars than some males I know. Personaly I can't really stand most guys. They've got just way way to much testosterone running throught there viens. Me, if I had the cash, I'd probibly be looking for permenant hair removal, counselling, hrt, and srs. Don't get me wrong, being a guy does have advantages, but not enough for me to be happy. I feel so much better about my self when I look into a mirror and can see a female looking back. I'm lacking the words I want to use right now but me not happy. Marisa

I'm not into sports either. I only play badminton, and swim, thats the extend of my sports. I have no interest in cars or trucks. But I do like being the big, strong guy girls turn to when they need something they can't reach, or need something lifted they aren't capable of. I like being able to show off my strength, and that makes me feel masculine, and I enjoy it.

absolutely love being a guy - type B rather than type A

don't like hanging around with the pseudo macho 'rednecks'

mitch

Absolutely love being a guy. Crossdresser or not, you need to love yourself to be happy in life.

I still enjoy being a man and some of the manly things, but I also like being dressed enfemme. When dressed I feel more relaxed and comfortable. I am not much into sports, in fact I would rather watch hsn than espn. I have never really been very macho and whether in drab mode or enfemme I prefer the softer side of life.

I like being male, just like dressing female sometimes. Nothing wrong with variety is there?

I am happy with my male self and even happier when I can express my female self.

Never liked being a guy!

Absolutely love being a guy. I dress up like a girl because I like to do it and it helps me to relax and get away from the stresses of everyday life. It's also really fun. So I am a guy that likes to play girl but loves to be a guy or a girl.

Great question and one I usually avoid dealing with. I think the honest answer is that since I've done the guy stuff, and since I've always been a repressed transgender, I think I'd rather be a woman all of the time for at least a little while. Of course, that isn't possible, so where do I go from here. Another sale, another dress, another wig, another day of wishing.

I'm with you, Becca. I tremendously enjoy my feminine side, but I'd never give up being a guy.

I consider myself as being half girl/ half guy because of my physical stature.

Hi all,
I enjoy being a guy, I don't enjoy shopping for guy clothes though! Gads, I mail order all of them: new jeans and a few golf shirts are about all I buy. I enjoy looking for girl clothes in catalogs and in stores, I enjoy my fem times too. But gosh I do enjoy playing a power game of golf.
Hugs, Gwen

My physique allows me to wear tight clothing very easily. I wear a size 6 in womens skinny jeans. I also wear womens size 8 and a half to size 9 shoes in most brands.