Never done it fully dressed, but have worn knickers in bed(her suggestion).
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Never done it fully dressed, but have worn knickers in bed(her suggestion).
thats what it's all about for me - sex - totally sex - dress for sex - and dress for all the foreplay:)
I have had sex as a woman only for 3 yrs now . I am a cd and NOTHING is better for me than being made love to as a total woman. I always wear my corset, panties, bra, breasts, nails, makeup, hair, earrings, and stilettos during it and the men I am with seem to love it. Nothing makes me feel more femme and sexy!
:)My wife and I are like this as well. I love the added dimension of her deciding to take or be taken.Quote:
Originally Posted by pantyhosed
doris you look stunning im sure they all like it :love:
Have done it twice with my wife while en femme. I loved it - she barely tolerated it. But I'll keep trying.....
I had a g/f once who was really into role-playing and she dressed me up and had her way with me. My wife, on the other had, likes it when I make love to her as me. She doesn't have any lesbian fantasies and while she supports me wearing what I will, she reserves certain times for, as she puts it, her man.
many many times with my ex,she did`nt mind and made me dress as she said it was better.
I would absolutely die if I was given the oppurtunity to sleep with my wife while enfemme, not to mention if she played with me - say as two girls together do.
Anessa
I'm also confused by names though: What are the critical differences between a crossdresser. a transvestite, a drag queen. a *******, a t-girl. and a transsexual? I'm guessing that a crossdresser and a transvestite are the same, and can be in either 'boy-" or "girl mode”. However, drag queens, ********, t-girls, and transsexuals are always in "girl mode". Right, or is there more...
HMM interesting.
OK
transvestite....derives sexual pleasure from wearing the clothing of an opposit sex
crossdresser...enjoys wearing and being the opposite sex when dresed
drag queen...a person who wears the opposit sexes clothes and performs for the public. Rarely "always" in girl mode
transexual...A person who has gone through a surgical procedure to become a member of the opposite sex.
t-girl...this one is a bit open. BUT...usually anyone who identifies with being the opposit sex when dressed uses this phrase and it is accepted as such. NOT alwasy in girl mode necesarily.
*******...a phrase mostly used buy the porn industry describing...excuse my language here..."chicks with dicks"
hope that helps everyone.
As a joke my wife set me up on a date with a friend of hers...He being Bi was all in for it and I was told to be prepared to be "all" woman...I was, I did, I loved it, just never been there since... :o
I have never made love to my wife while femmed up but when she wears lingerie, I wish I had them on to.
She jokingly asked me to put on her lingerie once and it took everything in me not to accept her offer. if the situation arises again I am definetely taking her up on it. Who knows, this may open the door to finally tell her that I crossdress.
I have a few times. With an ex girlfriend who was cool with my CDing, and several times with my fiancee. Most recently, last fall, we were both a bit drunk, but it was WILD. Still, I love being a "guy" with her. But, every now and then. . .
Most definitely -- it sooooo unbelievably fantastic. I never ever knew how wonderful and pleasurable it would be until Debbie and I shared our intimate times en femme. I think it because for once in my life, I am now totally free to give wings to all my fantasies.
Equally fun ... okay .. I'll say it ... is when we are both underdressed when being intimate -- my en femme and Debbie en homme.
Might not work at all for the rest of you, but it was number one on my hit parade of fantasies and lead to one fantastic night :D
Huggles
Toni-Lynn
If dressed in a night gown with out any other fem helps counts yes. Does this count?
My wife and I haven't made love since our last child was born. Her reasoning was that if we weren't going to have any more, there was no need to be intimate. That was 10 years before she knew about my dressing.
To the point of the thread. Yes, I have made love whilst dressed. It was a professional lady who was very much into what I was looking for. If you are confused by this, think of the Governor of NY – very high end.
It might have been one of the best days of my life.
For the mods – if this post is out of bounds, I apologize and please feel free to delete my post. I am new here and want to fit in.
My wife and I made love a few times while I was wearing panties and even nightgowns a couple of times, but those days are long gone now (along with sex of any kind with her.)
I'd love to start off totally dressed up and have sex with a women who was into that.
I can only hope.
Susan and Laura
My heart goes out to you for I too found myself in similar circumstances over 10 years ago with my ex-wife. We didn't make love until 8 months after our wedding and then it was solely to conceive a child. My crossdressing was not even known to her at the time. I had a very difficult time of it and went through the motions. Later it was determined that I had a very low sperm count. At that point, we not only didn't make love ever again, she also moved out of our bedroom. Divorce was the result about 4 months later .. I asked for one.
I know the longing for an intimate touch of any kind. I understand. I'm sorry for you.
Huggles
Toni-Lynn
I'm with you Kayla, for my SO this would completely out of the question and if Nikki was to have intimate relations then it would need to be with a man or a bi woman.
Discrete and accurate!
This is exactly how I feel; I really don't think I want to bring Nikki into the bedroom with my wife and I'm absolutely positive she doesn't want that either.
As Nikki my fantasy (longing) is to be taken by a man and to completely immerse myself into that experience. I have always wanted to experience making love from the femme point of view and this is often a source of my 'confusion' and anxiety. As a 'man' I have no interest in men; as Nikki, I have lots of interest.
No sex is Habit forming? LOLQuote:
Originally Posted by Karren Hutton
I find my SO in sexy panties, rather hot at times, but with any type of love making, eventually they come off. (hehe)
can't say I would find him, attractive in that erotic sense when in total 'femme' mode
I think it has to do alot with the comfort zone you have with your partner
Do it 2-3 times a week in femme. Lots of fun . Always wear 3-7 pettis at once. Wife only dislikes the breast forms. I think there is competition here. I always wear a full slip or camisole over my bra .
I love it. I have found that find the sexual intensity of my lover is raised multifold and he seems to last longer when she knows there is no fear of being ridiculed. Ever since my first experience at college, I think the excitement of a man enfemme is contagious.
Paige,
My wife agrees with you on this point. Especially the intensity issue.
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Originally Posted by Paige.
I agree totally . I think there is also the gorgeous tension that awaits . After dressing we normally sit, cuddle, watch a movie , perhaps share a drink or two. Then its almost like the brakes are off and the cars screaming out of control heading at great speed towards the fast lane of the sexual highway......:o
Thank you, being new it was very helpfull.
Not to get too much into details, but yes.
The dress and slip go UP, the panties and pantyhose go DOWN (just far enough), the heels, forms and bra stay ON... then SHE takes off her jeans. :) Sometime she'll unbutton my blouse or dress just far enough so she can cup my bra and forms in her hands.
I love the feel of all the layers of slippery materials and the sight of all the lacy things I am wearing pushed up and out of the way around my waist. I also enjoy the feeling of long dangling earrings brushing against my cheek and neck as I move.
The only downside is that is IS a hot sweaty activity... and wearing pantyhose, dress, bra, forms, etc. doesn't help any! But it isn't anything any different than millions of other women have had to endure over the centuries.
By the end, I'm a mess. Bra straps are out of place, panties and slip are all bunched up and twisted around me... the pantyhose may even have a run or two. Laying on the bed afterward in the 'afterglow', my dress and various underthings tangled around me, is a feeling I'll always enjoy.
My first wife thought the idea was perverted so I got a new wife who thrives on perversions and encourages full exploration of all our fetishes and fantasies. There are many! I'm 58 and worried that I'll run out of steam before tasting each and every one of them.
We have foundation wear night, French maid night, prissy sissy night, harness night and on and on. It's all just so much fun and playful. We've even started making movies! LOL. Fun!!
We also have many crossdressing friends and couples that make exploring and experiencing thecrossdressing fetish a central part of their sexual and intimate lives.
Our friend Rose will only have sex with men that are feminine and crossdressed. How about that! They may be few and far between but they are out there.
No but just be careful you dont get caught up in one anothers stays otherwise it could be abit more tricky than youde bargained for and a tad painful if the elastic pings back and catches you on your thighs.Quote:
Originally Posted by Nicki B
Bev
[SIZE="3"]My wife and I used to do it alot while I was dressed, she would even play "the man" at times. Now we are seperated and divorcing so I think those good times are done forever:doh::sad:[/SIZE]
Docrobbysherry said:
"I have read a number of posts regarding CDs, either making love dressed, or fantasizing about doing that. It just occurred to me that that thot has never entered my mind!
I find Sherry so hot, I don't want to share her with anyone! Maybe that's just a stage I'm going thru. So, I'm asking all of u if u do, or have, felt that way about your female creation. Not wanting her to make love to anyone but u."
Sorry, I may have misread this, but I think docrobbysherry is talking about making love to his own female creation and not wanting to share that with anyone other than himself? Or have I got that wrong? Confused?
Since my wife came to accept my cd'ing,I believe we've made love with me dressed just about every time - there may have been one time that I wasn't dressed in the past year !!
I have had the pleasure and love it when lingerie rubs together and being teased about being cute in panties. Overall its the intimate talk and teasing that amkes making love as a girl soooooooo hot.
Yes! And it is fabulous. My wife enjoys it, too. Sex while dressed is not something we do often but it is great when it happens. She understands that I get aroused to higher levels when dressed and she is a sensual lady who enjoys the intensity.
I am a very fortunate CD.
Not so much now but in our early years of marriage my wife would get so worked up and hot during our evening out in public she couldn't wait to get me home and lets just say do things her way. Now in our older years it' a turn on for me to make Lesbian
love to her while dressed.:love:
What do you think I do??
making love en femme... the only way to fly ;-)
I'm en femme inside no matter how I'm dressed on the outside, and my wife (GG lesbian) sees me as Kath regardless of clothing. But hey, silk nightgowns and stockings and the works are soooo sensual to see, wear, and be touched through, so most of the time it's silk and perfume and jewelry for both of us while making love. We're both "butch in the streets, femme in the sheets," I guess ;-)
Kath
Most of the time, and if I don't have something fem on, like one of my nighties, my wife will ask me to do so.
My wife and I have made love twice while I was wearing thigh high stockings, and it was very sensual, at least for me, and my wife didn't complain or object. Of course I had to take my stiletto heels off so no one got hurt.
My wife and I make love often while dressed. She really does not mind and it does turn her on, as for me I would do it all the time or at least most of the time it feels so great. The silky felling of all of the lingerie and other items like panties and bras feel great and give me a extra level of feeling feminine to love making. Also it's a very good fantasy. :)
I envy all the "yeses" in here...