I think that what it boils down to in society is that men just don't give a damn and that is why it is so easy for women to crossdress without little or no remark. Women are merely implementing the style into their wardrobe, men on the other hand when dressed as a woman aren't trying to implement what they have on into their wardrobe; they are trying to be that which they are not or at least in the view of society.
Skirts have always been worn by men and dresses by women in history, but as time has passed the wardrobe for men has changed drastically because of the consideration of formal presentation and mannerisms that are supposedly interactive with each sex. The same view for any person with any type of fetish still exists as a society we expect the men to indulge in our masculinity and females to indulge in their femininity instead of indulging ourselves in what society deems childish or perverted fantasies. Because we are not acting in the behaviors that society deems appropriate we are immediately set aside as freaks of nature with some kind of mental or pshychological disorder.
We don't have to like eachother, as this diaper guy is on the same boat we are. It is still curteous and well mannered to show respect to those who are different than us. This is why so many of us are still in the closet because we are worried about what society will think and react to what they deem inappropriate behavior. There are many things we all could learn from this diaper guy and the bravery it takes to wear just a diaper and tshirt out, and the kind of man he truly is because of the courage he took to even step out of the door just wearing a diaper and tshirt.
We all have our own individual belief systems as well as lifestyles in which we live by. We all have fetishes even though some would not admit. If anyone has watched the show "Monk" you would realize that just because he has an obsession with perfection that he is still a highly valued member of society. Yet if the president started crossdressing he would most likely be impeached because of
moral standards in which has been set by the public eye. Some of us would vote for his impeachment and some would not. Just like the california ammendment to allow gay marriage. Some of us voted for it and some against it and it all comes down to our beliefs and lifestyles in which we live. If we let this get in the way of our community here then it would only break down this community in which we have worked so dilligently to build and all the friendships that we have forged would only go down the drain. We are all individuals here traveling on the same path, but in reality we are on seperate paths that are similar in nature, but surely different since we are not all the same and live by different standards than the guy next door.
Sorry for the very long vent, but I felt I had to.
