Oh, I more than catch your drift. You'd have to know my son. He's cool with things in ways and in other ways he's not. The idea that I'm TG doesn't bother him. But I don't think he wants to know any of the specifics. Not right now at any rate. I think he's going to need some time, maybe a lot of it, before he's ready to start dealing with that. That's why I found a forum for children of trans parents (transparent parents?) for him. Let him talk to other young people who are accepting of their parents, and he'll see it's not the end of the world.
One of my contacts in a Trans organization here in Ireland suggested that some day he'll be proud and happy to wear a badge that says, "Somebody I love is transgender." I had to laugh at that. I think my son would be just as likely to wear a dress as he would that badge. As I said, he's cool with things in ways and not cool with them in other ways. You have to know him.
Annabelle