For me The sexual experience went many many years ago ,age 9 if memory serves,now its me and myself.
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For me The sexual experience went many many years ago ,age 9 if memory serves,now its me and myself.
This is exactly how I feel. I dress to become the girl of my dreams... My fantasy. There have been numerous times where I've been at mall and I will see a girl who I would die to look like... And I will immediately buy the exact outfit she's wearing and run home and do my best to transform into her.Quote:
Originally Posted by Lynn Marie
Could it be conditioning? Think Pavlov's dog. Even if your first experience with CD is as a very young child you can still experience pleasure even if a child's mind does not understand the pleasure to be sexual in nature. Anyone who has changed a baby boy's diaper knows even babies with no concept of sex do get erections. Pleasure can be very addictive and a strong motivation. I won't get into how hormones and puberty add in you're all big girls and understand the tie in. ;) Dressing is a guaranteed shot of pleasure if you are in control of not only yourself but the woman within sooooo you know it will [or can it's all up to you] end with a very happy ending or you can chose to prolong the fore-play so to say by not and saving it for next time.
Sex is something we some times see as the ultimate form of validation. So if you are straight and finding your inner girl wanting that validation I think that could be seen as normal enough. If you are dressed and feeling beautiful, mysterious, very tempting and a whole lot of other things what better form of validation than what society has taught us to be validated? Look at parents telling kids sex is for married people who love each other. They show love by the sex act. Now the flip side is bad boys and girls go around having sex without love or marriage. It's enough to drive us all a little nuts sometimes.
That said hell no, I don't think all CD is fetish. Not even most. I think the sexual component is just one of many needs being filled by CD. I would think even someone like a previous poster who shall remain unnamed would be open minded enough to see that much if I can. Things are almost never how they seem.
Take my words with a grain of salt since I am on the outside looking in. I'm not a CD but I play one in my mind on occasion. :lol:
happy dressing y'all
Katie
Well said, Katie :) Maybe it's because we love how we look as a pretty woman, and as with most males, the sight of an attractive woman turns us on a lot. That, and the clothes are much more fun to wear - so many wonderful fabrics, colors and styles. I will never understand how men are content with the limited things they have to wear.
Unlike many of you here, I always knew I was meant to be a girl, even when I was very young. My first sexual experience with a boy was when I was 15, and I was always dressed up when we were together. But even before then, when I'd put on some of my sister's amazing clothes, I'd feel very excited. That's still true today, to a lesser extent thankfully as I've been full time for over 9 years. I know if I spend a lot of time on my outfit and makeup, men find me very attractive, and that also turns me on. What a sweet life :)
@SilkeeLegs I wish I had other friends that approved of my crossdressing but while dressed Ravel's Bolero plays in my head til the finale. Could be a short time or days if I underdress! Always fun/sexual for me short or long term.
Gigi
Hi, for me too it was always a sexual thing, I think it's more of a how I'd like my ladies to dress ie. stockings, high heels, silky undies they all feel nice and sexualize the female form.
I used to think of myself as straight but when I'm dressed I get the feeling I want to be penetrated, as of yet I've not done anything about it but may invest a toy at some point.
Maybe this is the difference between a crossdresser/transvestite and someone who identifies as being trans-sexual
I have NEVER had any sexual gratification when I dress as a woman, because it felt so natural to me
It's like a (real) man being turned on when he wears blue jeans and a t-shirt!
Being a GG SO of a newly revealed CD, I am so glad to know that his sexual fantasies / desires involving his CDing are not uncommon...and neither are mine. I won't go into any details, but things have definitely heated up in the bedroom. :o
You say it like it's a bad thing :P
When I was a child, I watched a cartoon that has a magic to slowly transform man into woman. That made me feel turned on so much, and it's still true now. Maybe that was like a sparkling that ignited my brain chemistry to like CDing since then. The feeling of slowly transform myself into a woman just feels so... sexually excited.
For me it's the excitement of picking out an outfit,make up etc and looking and feeling sexy. A GG once told me that just getting dressed up and looking nice made her feel very sexual too.
I think that is a mutual feeling among most of us girls as the silk feels so good on or next to our skin
When I first started dressing, early 20's, my greatest sexual rush was sneaking away with my little bag of lingerie and having fun alone, the thought of thinking that no one else does this turned me on. Another rush (not sexual) was going into public stores to buy ladies clothing. I would always end up with a flush face and sweat! My big regret was always about how to pick out clothes that match and look good. Especially when I'm in a mad rush to get into the store and get out quickly in fear of being recognized. After these years, I still enjoy that rush, but I take my time and save my sexual feelings to when I'm alone.
I thing that most of us would love to have an understanding gg to guide us along.....then its time for sex!
everything is sex
It used to be the case for me, but these days the libido is not the same. But I am STILL dressing :)
The fact that you are feeling contentment and happy calls for the most satisfaction you can possibly experience and in human nature that would be sexual. I guess there are exceptions to all rules but sexual sensations are probably one of the most intense and basic of all signaling fufillment in life.
A toy is a must but im so lucky my g/f loves fingering me xx
Whenever I dressed up as Jennifer, I always felt so incredibly sexy and aroused!
Nothing better than being fully made up as a woman and the silky feeling of a pencil skirt against your smooth legs!
Only thing that was missing was a hunky man to be in the arms of ;-)
I understand completely. As DRAB, I am wallpaper. When Sarah emerged and went out, she felt like a model or a star! When I was going out, people of both sexes would flirt with me. Made me feel incredibly sexual... and I caught a glimpse of how easy it is to make men slobber!!! LOL! Ah, glory days.....
I am immediately immersed in a feeling of well being and euphoria. It always has a sexual undercurrent that is much more powerful than Viagra if I tap into it and let it carry me again and again to its happy conclusion.
Wow!! I remember feeling that way reading 'ozma of oz'
I get so aroused by the intensity of my feminine feelings. I adore not only the silk next my skin but the nylons I wear, the tightness of my bra , the garter belt and the power of high heels. The makeup and the way it feels is so intense. These things trigger such intense feelings that stir such white hot feminine feelings.
I don't always dress because I want to feel sexual, but I almost always end up feeling that way. Being soft and vulnerable plus looking down to see perfect breasts and long legs poking out of a skirt. Call me narcissistic, but how could I not feel sexual? Of course, being groped by my horn ball wife helps a lot. :)