What are your dress limits

No dressing around my wife, she doesn't want to see it. Other limits are my choice, not interested in transitioning, not interested in makeup, not interested in outing myself to others, etc.

When I had a girl friend who found out.
Her limits were:

I could not dress more feminine than her.
I could not like me more curvy (Busty) and she did not like when I wore a corset and my waist was smaller than hers.

Needless to say she broke it off.

My wife died back in May. But for me it was panties, pantyhose and nightshirts. Of course a LBD can easily be a nightshirt. She was accepting of a softer side of me but did not want anything too lacy, feminine. She was vey understanding to a point. In fact after a hard day of work she would ask why I wasn't in something "more comfortable". Since her passing, I seem to have stepped up the game several notches. Several shopping sprees later, I am starting to have a sizable wardrobe. But with family close, in the neighborhood, I must exercise some caution as I am not out. They wouldn't leave me, but they certainly would not understand.

Being out and about with my wife. It will not happen.

Hey Debs.
Limits, eh?

Well, I'm finding that this has been a variable sort of thing for me.

First - don't wanna see me at all

Then - makes her nervous, so don't ever wear breastforms around her

Then - all is good, dressing at home. I'm not going to stay in full fem as I make dinner or haul paving stones by hand to the back yard, though (tried once, with small forms and a light sports bra...after about an hour, i most definitely had "Wandering Boob Syndrome" going on. ;-) )

Now - If I am going to go out dressed (to my school over the summer to do work, to pick up a snack from the corner store) she just makes sure that I have my head on straight, and that I am not going to be endangering myself or my career. (a number of the families where I teach are "not very friendly" {rabid-irrational-frightened-bully sort of situations) to anyone on the LGBTQ+ spectrum....don't need parents coming at me with torches and pitchforks)

[hugs]

Pretty much just when SO is out of town.

I just told my S/O about a month back and she is totally supportive and wants our home to be a safe space for me to dress but I am just slowly introducing her to my dressing. As of right now there are no limits but since I work from home and she works in the office I mainly wait until she is at work to fully dress. I am expecting some rules to come along as time goes on.

DADT. Hear no evil, speak no evil, see no evil.

I can't let the rest of the world know who I am. Sounds hard perhaps, but heck We have gotten this far.