I know about his CDing... he doesn't know I know

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Originally Posted by Sarah_GG

Sorry, I didn't provide an update and this thread has come back to the top again! But, yes, it's all out in the open now and has been for the last month. The two of us couldn't be happier. Thank you all for your advice. I had to hear it straight from the horse's mouth, but I think it was certainly made easier for him that I knew in advance. He knows how I know and we've been able to be totally honest and open with each other. It's all been fantastic.

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That's wonderful! Good for you (both of you)! :D

Let him wear a new dress of yours by telling him, i wana see how it looks on a person, and observe whether he blushes, if he does, give him a warm hug and a smile and tell him " I feel you are feeling comfortable, so continue feeling comfortable, as nothing makes me more happier than to see you happy"

What do you think?

Thats great news, Sarah. Congratulations.

I think the best approach is to tell him you think CDing is cool without telling him you know. Watch a CDing show on TV together and just say how amazing it is and tell him if he ever wants to try it you will help him. Maybe mention how you know that some people in the world are freaked out by it, but you are not and you would be respectful and keep the secret if he desired that. Also, just take him by your hand one day and dress him up...he's not going to volunteer, but I doubt he will resist too much.