Jenny, see Helen_Highwater's posts starting at the top of page 6 of this forum. It works!
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Jenny, see Helen_Highwater's posts starting at the top of page 6 of this forum. It works!
Jenny,
Stevann beat me to it. Any questions just PM me and I'll answer the best I can and yes it does allow what you're seeking to do.
It has been a long time since I last posted on here but I regularly read through the latest Posts.
For around a year I have noticed my bladder muscles getting weaker in various ways, and I have also begun experiencing symptoms related to an enlarged prostate.
I'm only 42 though, which is younger than the age men typically develop such concerns - so I'm wondering if tucking twice a week for a couple hours each time might have contributed to my weakened muscles and all that?
Has anyone else had experiences like this?
Silky,
My advice would be if you have any issues to consult your doctor. While age is a possible factor in certain ailments it's not the case that these conditions won't effect younger people. Relying on the experiences of others on the forum could be misleading and potentially dangerous to your health.
This has been my go-to since discovering them a couple of years ago. Since I am on the plus-size end of things, I have to overlap two separate tapes to get full side-to-side coverage, but the result is amazing!Quote:
Originally Posted by prene
I have not had the same luck as others in reapplying the tuck after using the restroom, but I have found a successful workaround using an external catheter (think condom with a funnel on the end) for urinating. I cut a small vertical slit in the tape before applying it, so that the funnel end can poke out. The tape keeps it flat so that it doesn?t look unnatural, but it?s able to open up when I pee.
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Jenny - Just saw this, but I have also had success with using a condom catheter. (The hardest part was actually finding one with the right adhesive..)
Has anyone used a fufu clip? I just got one and so far, I think it's amazing! It's very comfortable, which I did not expect. I also did not expect the beautifully feminine feeling of being "put away" so well and the appearance through clothing (with a proper thong to cover the clip) is very authentic. Even with all the tucking that I have done in the past, this is the first time I felt like I had the look right while wearing leggings. Curious about what experiences others have and how it translates to connecting with the female in you. It was a milestone moment for me!
I would add a photo, but I'm afraid it may offend some as vulgar.
I have a FU FU on order
I posted a thread about gluing bum pads; https://www.crossdressers.com/forums...ads&highlight=
using Pentel roll 'n glue and just how well it held the pads in place.
Well, it got me thinking that for those times when you need a semi permanent method to hold the "gentleman's sausage" in place but still needed to be able to release and reset when visiting the toilet it might provide a solution. So I applied the glue direct to the "sausage", put it in place and pulled up my knickers and tights. And I can report it works. It keeps the tuck in position but allows you to release and reattach with the absolute minimum of fuss. And being water based the glue will wash off in the shower.
It's cheap and cheerful and ideal for those shorter periods of dressing were you don't want to go to great lengths to achieve a decent tuck.
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Well I've been trialling this now since posting and I have to say it works well. It provides enough adhesion such that with a correctly sized pair of knickers and tights all is held in place without any slippage and at the end of the day easily washes off in the shower. You can apply it in seconds (top tip; squeeze the bottle gently to help the glue flow) and then put in place, knickers on and you're good to go.
A 50ml bottle is cheap as chips so perhaps worth the gamble and you can buy 300ml refill bottles if you find it works for you.
I'm surprised that there hasn't been more feedback on the fufu clip! As long as you are able to fit one, they are amazing!
No luck here with the FUFU - I am too large for it to work
Thanks for the tip back in February, Alisonforme! I just wrote a long post about fufu clips for the Clothing, Shopping and Beauty section. Look for "Fufu Clips (new product)". That's not a public forum so I won't link to it here.
Hi Lisa Gerrie! Your fufu clip analysis is outstanding and should be very helpful to many, as it was to me. Thank you for thoroughly checking it out!
I have found that surgical tape helps me the most when I fully tuck, but when I want access, I just use one piece of tape and pull back under as far as I can. Panties do the rest.
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Please tell me more about this fufu clip?
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Silky, I have tucked for some time now, no issues with prostate, but I also am an avid prostate massager to keep it healthy and working the way it should.
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Lovely, I must get myself a few pairs to try out.
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Valerie?s, how long will a single tuck using this method hold for you?
Believe it or not I use a pair of men's speedo swimsuit to solve the problem and it works great
I am having a really hard time with tucking the 2 little guys back in the canals they dropped from. I have tried all devices from the gaff from En Femme to the tuck kit from unlockable to compression panties and I just can?t seem to get it right. They just want to keep popping out. And they are not really that big so its not like they can?t fit back where they came from
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What is the FuFu clip everyone is talking about. I never heard of this before.
I am thankfully blessed to be able to tuck an keep it all together with a thong. No tape. No gaff. I wish there was more I could help with
Grace,Quote:
Originally Posted by Grace Kelly
I would say persevere, practice and I'm sure it will come in time. One thing I would say is make sure the crutch of any knickers you use are broad and not narrow and wrap them around your penis snugly.
I've been tucking for so long my "Gentleman's plums" now need only sight encouragement to pop away. I suppose you could call it a form of muscle memory.
Benefit of being equipped like a 13 year old..everything falls nicely into place. Smooth panties are wonderfully easy
Something about small bits belong in panties, I am convinced
Unfortunately for me, tucking is not much of an option, unless someone can help me. I have a right hydrocele (not painful, but a pain in the ass regardless) which prevents me from tucking without much discomfort. Any advice for other options? (Sorry if I put this in the wrong Thread, I'm just learning about this forum)
I used the trick I saw on YouTube where you cut the waistband from a pair of stockings, cut a part of the legs (about 15cm long) and thread the waistband through to create 2 leg holes. Seems to have works well enough for leggings and found could pee. This is my first time. Is reasonably comfortable and no taping required
Can I tuck if i had a groin hernia repair?
I don't have any issues tucking but I think I am going to have to order a fufu they sound wonderful.
I am the proud owner of a FuFu Clip collection. While there are at least three sizes, there is absolutely no guidance on fit. I merely ordered them all and found the one that fit the best, comfortably. I have also tried the plastic and metal versions. The plastic models are made via 3d printers, consequently they are not as smooth as the metal versions. One can smooth out the plastic with some sandpaper or emery cloth. The metal version lacks a tab at the top which helps conceal the retracted penis. This problem only gets worse as the ?hold? seems to break down over time, rendering the clip useless. In addition, the metal version is much heavier.
I have become a huge proponent of the clip over the last couple of months. It does take some practice, but the time spent is well worth it. I have an event scheduled for early December where I intend to be dressed in public for an evening. My goal is to perfect the use of the clip prior to that outing. Wish me luck.
Trish Lamore so you recommend the metal clip? I want one but thinking about the plastic. Did not know came in 3 sizes did know of 2 sizes. Have any tips on how to know what size to get
Trish, me too! The Fufu is amazing! Did you see my long write-up the in the Clothing, Shopping and Beauty forum a few months back? I already have notes for a post about picking a size.
Sorry if my comment came across as an endorsement for the metal FuFu clip. I had great hopes for the metal clip, but the weight, size and lack of a tab have caused me to think otherwise. The metal clip is larger than the large plastic clip. The clip works because of the friction between the skin and the clip, that results from threading the skin over and under the clip. If the clip is too large, you won?t be able to pull the skin taunt, thereby setting the clip. Wish I had some guidance on size, but??.
The bottom line is that I?ve tried many of the tucking options and the clip is the only one that has allowed me to wear those alluring VS panties. While I?m not throwing away my numerous gaffs, I now have viable options.
After reading this thread I have decided to buy the fufu clip for trying. It seems to me to be an wonderful solution for tucking. I have been playing with a similar thing for last weeks and found it successful in making me feel as a woman much. It is a plastic chasity cage but it has the disadvantage which is the hard plastic upper part with a kitschy "sissy" logo.
Ok, here's my experience with Fufu sizing and fit.
First, surprisingly, your length/girth as you might measure it with a ruler (firm or soft) will probably NOT affect your Fufu size at all. The size of "the boys" probably won't matter either. Here are a couple of tests you can perform the next time you are in the shower.
With the thumb and index finger of your non-dominant hand, make a circle. Using your other hand, carefully pull all of your saggy bits through the circle. This will gently push everything inside upward, toward the canals (but maybe not into them). The circle size needs to be 100% comfortable but still hold everything firmly in place with just friction. After you do that, let go and try this second test...
Put the tip of your non-dominant hand's index finger on the tip of your "manhood", and gently push it inward on itself, almost like you were collapsing it. Use your other hand to help. I -- and apparently many (most?) GMs -- can comfortably push it all the way inside the body. (I discovered this in my teens and thought it was yet another sign that I wasn't a normal boy.)
The Fufu's inner ring does the job of the circle in the first step. When everything is almost tight, you do the second step. Then finish pulling the skin tight, and the little tab will hold the tip in place. While you're getting dressed it may look like everything up front is bunched up, but that's because it's cold. When you put on some underwear and things warm up, it's kinda shocking how much you can flatten it out. I have a lightweight shapewear panty with a front-center seam, and if I wear it I immediately get a camel toe. (Even after the Fufu fit was right, it took me a while to find the all-day everyday undergarments that work best.)
If you have a LOT of saggy skin, that's where the Fufu's outer ring comes in. I don't, so I don't use it and can't tell you much about it. All I know is that it helps holds things in place.
SO... it's probably your personal saggy anatomy that determines your Fufu size, not the other things. (In other words, "Your Saggage May Vary".) Unfortunately, unless you spend a lot of time in locker rooms comparing male anatomies, it's hard to guess your own small/medium/large. So all I can really do is recommend buying the 3-size sizing pack. Then buy spares of the one that works best for you, because I guarantee you'll misplace it just when you really want to get dressed.
By the way, always shave -- or don't shave at all -- because pubes change the friction. Heavy perspiration can too.
Like Trish I bought several Fufus. For me, after a lot of experimenting, I ended up using a medium-size ABS plastic one, with the outer ring cut off with a Dremel tool.
P.S. While wearing a Fufu, the basic anatomical similarities of boys and girls becomes more obvious. For example, Mr. Happy's tip ends up very close to where Ms. Happy would normally be.
Hello I just joined... How can i access this post about fufu review? Many thanksQuote:
Originally Posted by Lisa Gerrie
https://www.aliexpress.com/item/1005...d=CuNkYqhkwsIr
They are like the tuck tapes but reusable like a stick on bra!!! OMG they are great!!!
natashaj, somewhere on the main crossdressers.com page you should see "Clothing, Shopping and Beauty". (You may have to apply to join it, I'm not sure.) Then use the Advanced Search page to look for "fufu" in that forum.
natashaj
I suggest you post an introduction post
You will get access to the section you require when you have 10 posts, so it won't take that long.
Hi Lisa,
thank you for explaining the fufu clip thing. I have already ceased to feel comfortable with my male organ when en-femme. Fufu clip seems to a perfect solution. I have just ordered two fufus in small and large size for having an option to fit optimally. I am so excited and waiting for delivery now!
Sabine
I need more practice. Those berries don?t want to stay where I put them. lol
There's duck tape. Then what kind of tape that's used for tucking? Dick tape.
John
Having not heard of a fufu clip before, but based on this thread I ordered one this week. It arrived this morning, and after finding a video of how to wear it, I got it on. Wow! I feel more like a woman than anything I've done to date. I'm sure I'll get better at putting it on, it was a touch uncomfortable, but my junk is all tucked into my body and being held in place and I've never been so curved down there before.
Amen sister! I can't get the berries to go back into the thicket! More practice I suppose!! LOL
I'll admit I'm intrigued! I've seen the ones made from ABS plastic and metal, but I've just seen some made from silicone. Does it need to be rigid, and so the silicone one would be useless?
I have bought 2 fufu clips recently, a small and a bigger one. To be sure any fits. Despite my great expectations neither works for me. I don't think I am doing something wrong. I did many attempts to fix it right in a right place, all failed. I guess I have to less skin on my testicles. This way they failed even to be femininized.
I still use my fufu clip and it's held up over all this time. I find it sexy and transformative beyond words! It's not always easy, and I am not successful getting it on every time, which maybe makes it all the more special when I do. And, it must come off to urinate or make a godawful mess. I'm usually not successful getting it back on after that. I strongly encourage all the ladies to give it a go!
Might have to try the clip! Usually tucking deep into pantyhose works for me!
For me just a snug pair of panties, an easy pull back and I'm good to go.
I have a fufu clip and I really enjoy it. I can wear it all day long and I can pee with it.
I love the look and the feeling it gives me. Nothing has felt so right since my first pair of breast forms.
As far as tucking, I don't think it's the best choice. The fufu forces you tuck and invert which gives me a bulge.
Nothing beats a gaff or a pair of spanks.
I have a clear fufu clip which works ok but i love an inverter clip from koala swim . It took awhile to get used to having a catheter in all the time but iit and the harness keeps everything in place.
I guess thats the upside for me having a small package i dont have to try to hard to tuck. lol
Lately I've also been using a C-string. It doesn't stay in place on its own, but with snug panties or a thong it stays in place and makes a smooth appearance. My test of a good tuck is always whether I could wear leggings without have to cover that area, and this method works nicely for me.
I have been tucking for years. At first how to do it was a mystery to me. I would lay on my back, push the boys up and tape them in place. It was always uncomfortable. I bought gaffs which made it much easier and more comfortable. Recently, I purchased new panty gaffs that make everything simple. Grab a handful while standing, push them up, then pull the panty gaff up to hold everything in place. It's comfortable all day and bathroom breaks are easy.
I've seen panty gaffs but assumed they were just like tight panties. I might have to give them a go - and brand recommendations?
I gave the fufu clips a try but no matter what I did, it didn't seem to work. Tried both the small and larger size. I don't think I have enough skin down there compared to the directional videos. The few times I got it installed close to instruction it seemed like I had a bigger bulge in the front than had I just left it alone. Plus it was sort of uncomfortable. I went back to tummy control panties. My package has definitely dwindled with age so it's hardly even "tucking" any more!!
Clare, I get that bulge with a fufu at first. But after I put on some underwear and (most importantly) everything down there warms up to body temperature, the skin in question relaxes and flattens out quite nicely. One final adjustment after 15 minutes or so does the trick for me. Once I figured out the right size fufu and how to put it on, the effect is... astonishing. Male and female anatomy are far more alike than you might expect from outward appearances.
Glad to see people discussing the fufu and similar devices. Not much interest a year ago, a lot of people said "No way I'm putting a 'clip' down there!"
It's just a different way to tuck; some of us "tuck up" with just a panty girdle, most here apparently "tuck under", and fufus "tuck inside". I find it very comfortable and natural compared to "under". It takes a long time to figure out, but it's worth it.