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Bondage is on the list, the very long list, of crossdressing related activities to explore (don't ask me how they're related - they just are) for me.
I guess it can't happen until I meet people who I am willing to trust in that sort of scenario... Just another reason I have to get out there and meet other CD's and fetish people.
Would love to answer but I'm kind of "tied up" at the moment! :tongueout
Um .. TGs aren't the only ones who like the idea of bondage! ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by angelfire
it is a part of my life style, i am married to a dominate woman........the rest is pretty straight forward
heels, hose, skirt, blouse, restraints, ball gag, collar..........
silk:thumbsup:
To me, it sounds like about as much fun as a root canal-without novocaine.
It's fine for other folks, but I just don't understand it
Have also enjoyed aspects of BDSM, though more in the Bondage end. To be tied up "dressed" is kind of wild, and have done self-bondage along this end. Wonder if there is a connection between bondage and CDing?
bondage and cd ing ..mmm hooked into a bra that only experenced flexable women can unhook traped ...
womens firm zippered girdles.....the ones that have to be undone to free her round butt from..sort of traped in her mold if the zipper jambs! dido any of the dresses, and as history or clothing ..a bizzlion buttons and corset laces of the late 1800 and early 1900's any boy tring on moms stuff had good reason to fear getting caught ...traped ina jambed zipper...exciting ? feel good? mmmmm
Omigod i LOVE bondage and all the stuff that goes with it! Check out my albums.
When first started to dress up around the age of ten I would tie my ankles to the bed, so I've been into it before I even knew there was a name for it!
If you havent tried it yet, give it a go, it really is a rush!
OOOOOOOOOOOOOOHHHHH!!!
My wife doesn't agree with me crossdressing, I know she wouldn't go along with domination or bondage. But I would like to try it, with a gg of course.
My favorite fantasy!
Shame on me for loving it so!
My dressing has become a 'going out thing'. And to be in a dress and nylons in public is my idea of bondage. I don't fool too many that I'm a natural woman. But my dress (or skirt) is very feminine as are my shoes and makeup (lipstick, mascara, etc.) So folks may not think I'm real pretty, but I love being 'trapped in my skirt, nylons, and slip. For me, to be dressed is to be feminine, the expression of my woman within. It means enough to me to be feminine that I'm more than willing to take it public--to express myself in a feminine manner.
Tying up doesn't fire my imagination, but being 'out' in a dress without any means of hiding does. Don't mean at all to dis the value of bondage to others, just trying to relate it to my own drives...........................laci
I saw a web site for Hobble Skirts. Looks interesting, only taking about 6"
steps, And hopping up a stair? :daydreaming: Might be worth looking into.
Finally discovered this thread late! Yes, I'm into bondage both as a producer and a participant when dressed. There are many levels to that kink and it's different for many people. I'm into what we call "did". Damsel in distress. I take photos of ladies tied up like in the old movie serials. My models are usually fully clothed, maybe some lingerie but never naked. And certainly not x-rated either!
For the last 2 years I've been dressed up for photos when I go on my annual vacation to FetishCon in Tampa Florida. A very dear lady friend and model I confided in encouraged me to dress up, get bound and gagged and have pictures taken. We were both trussed up together for a series of pix and a couple of short video clips. Her hubby (a very nice guy who had no problem seeing me dressed) and another model friend assisted. Everyone there was very enthusiastic and understanding. It was a wonderful experience and now nearly all of my model friends know about Audrey. Next year they want me to dress up and wander the convention floor with them for the big party we have on the last day of the convention. I'm not sure if I'm ready for that!
-Audrey
My cd husband came to me just last month and said that he wanted to "try" it. We liked it so much it's become something that we enjoy :o as much as we can.
Carol
The 2 go hand and hand with my boyfriend.
Female clothing has always been resrictive to one dregree or another.
The feeling of being somewhat helpless and needing a man to protect ones self has always been an attraction to many females as the more masuline a man acts and helps the "helpless" female the more feminine they can. feel.
I suspect this is the attaction for many CDs also as far as wearing restictive female clothing. I don't like to feel uncomfortable but, I must admit that I rather enjoy the restrictions of many female garments and the feeling of heplessnes they might impart no mater how slight.
In our modern society, most females no longer wish to feel "helpless" and hence the change in dress to less restictive clothing.
Anway, the act of adding more bondage is just an extention of this..... IMO. :)
I have thought long and hard about how to reply to this thread, so that my reply will not be seen as condemning or criticising anyone. I will no doubt have failed, but I'll say what I have to say.
To me, bondage and its array of associated practices (discipline/ domme/ sub) are contradictory to what I view sexual intimacy to be. I see sexual intimacy to be the tenderness of giving and being free to give oneself over to providing pleasure to one's partner. I feel that because B&D in-animates a person, it objectifies them such that they can only be "used" by the non-bound person, and in a sense become passive participants.
Love and sexual intimacy is to be freeing, and in that act I am acting as one with my partner (my wife!) to bring forth a totality of love and joy such that we both, in a sense, spiritually, become unified at the time of climax. At that time I want my body to be free to touch and kiss and caress my wife and heighten her sensations. I see bondage as being more of a singularity in that regard.
Again -- I am not wishing to condemn or criticise anyone if their views are different from mine. The above is simply the way that I feel on the subject.
Huggles
Toni-Lynn
I find bondage fascinating, and also am very intrigued by dominant/submissive relationships. Forced feminization is quite a turn-on as well. But alas, my wife doesn't share my interests. :sad:
My job requires me to be in control and rather dominant so I suspect that my interest in being submissive is somewhat fueled by that. I believe I would enjoy being submissive with a dominant male or female. Perhaps, someday...O
Enjoy wahtever feels right for you both.
While I don't do BDSM myself, primarily because it's hard enough already to make the time to dress, I find it a very interesting subject. I recommend the movie Maitresse for a unique angle. It's erotic, yes, but also philosophical (which can be a form of mental bondage for some--but don't worry).
And it's got Gerard Depardieu in it, too. Enjoy!
:devil: Lallie
The text is from NetFlix:
Maitresse (1973) Petty thief Olivier (Gerard Depardieu) is entranced by his charming next-door neighbor Ariane (Bulle Ogier), who happens to be a skilled dominatrix. The mismatched neighbors begin to fall for each other after Ariane finds Olivier burglarizing her apartment, leading Ariane to teach her new friend a thing or two about her kinky profession.
I have always enjoyed bondage. I do most of my crossdressing at D/s clubs.
My ex got really excited (as did I) by locking me up in cuffs etc and in the most girly girl outfits I owned- square dance dresses with huge petticoats.
She really enjoyed locking me outside where I could easily be seen and this was many moons ago when folks were not exposed to kink as much as they are now.
After we split (still sad about that) I found a new thrill. I had a negligee made by a local dress maker and bought the entire bolt of nylon tricot.
One day I decided to play with all that material. I unrolled all the fabric which was 108 inches wide and about 10 yards left on the bolt. I let all the material gather on the floor except for one end which I placed in the center of the bed. I then took hold of the loose end and rolled over and over on the bed thereby wrapping myself in a nylon cocoon. I kept rolling so it would tighten around me as much as possible.
As I was already wearing soft panties and a babydoll top, the mummy style wrapping in all that nylon was unbelievably erotic. I was unable to wriggle out without reversing the rolling motion.(not easily done)
Once not too ong ago, I had a neighbor who knew all about me and I told her about this after the better part of a bottle of wine.
She wanted to see for herself so I got all girly and wrapped myself up while she watched. As soon as I was wrapped up tight and immobile, she took a roll of packing tape and secured the loose end of the material. Now I was really trapped.
Needless to say we both enjoyed the "bartering" process for me to be released.
I am not really (or so I thought) interested in bondage, but then I read an earlier post that mentioned the restrictive nature of some female clothing and I realised that there is, after all, an element of bondage in dressing. Some of it is obvious: my firmer girdles and long-line bras and tightly suspendered stockings are definitely restrictive. They don't make it impossible for me to do things but they do make movement a bit more difficult. Likewise the heels. Even without these specifically limiting garments, just being dressed in a skirt or dress with stockings puts some restrictions on movement and activity which, I suppose, is also a form of bondage.
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Originally Posted by Barbara Jo
ya.. i feel the same.. i think its kinda related
me myself like those 'restrictive' clothing...
bra, corset, garter, etc
People sometimes think being feminine is a fetish of mine. No, being feminine is just the way I am.
Bondage, on the other hand, that's my biggest kink.:heehee:
Love being tied up, especially with soft rope. And a nice cloth gag to reduce me to muffled whimpers is always nice.:daydreaming::o