I did start crossdressing at an early age. Born to be one? Maybe.. I am happy to play the cards I have been delt.
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I did start crossdressing at an early age. Born to be one? Maybe.. I am happy to play the cards I have been delt.
For me, it wasnt' the same. I'm gay now, but never really felt gay earlier or in high school. I didn't look at other guys, and I didn't think that I should or shouldn't be looking at other guys, I just didn't. It wasn't a thought in my mind until college.
Now I'm out of college and my crossdressing has snuck up the same way. It was never anything that crossed my mind until I just saw a few images and read a few things over the past couple years, and it began slowly and has matured only recently. I'm 29 now, and probably never even thought about crossdressing until I was 27, but I LOVE IT. :battingeyelashes:
It seems so natural and fulfilling. Its made me pretty happy. In fact, I'm about as happy as I've ever been in my life (considering all things, not just the dressing). Now I just got to find someone else who feels the same. I'm single and would love to find another guy on here who loves to dress. :daydreaming:
And thats another thing; almost everyone here is straight. Do we have many other gay friends amongst our cds here?
My SO, who is a CD, remembers a time that his mom walked into him and his brother's room to wake them up and when she pulled back his brother's covers, he was wearing a bra. We don't know if he still CD. But, it does seem to have implications with genetics, doesn't it?
Not necessarily. They were both brought up in the same environment, and in contact with the same people, so that could have a tremendous influence on them too. There are all kinds of outside factors during developmental stages can lead to permanent behavioral changes. I know it's much easier to simply put the responsibility on something concrete like genetic predisposition, but that's not always the case. Read my bio, if you wanted to create a crossdresser out of a normal kid, you couldn't find much of a better recipe. I didn't feel like I was supposed to be a girl until I was told that I was; from there on, it was just sort of a positive feedback loop. Years of that when your personality is forming can cause amazing things.Quote:
Originally Posted by Shananigans
I was borne naked.:2c:
I remember one time reading about an experiment some docter did. he took twin boys and raised one as a male and the other as a female. the one was aloud to play with truck's and boy's toy's and the other boy was given doll's and such. If i rember right the boy/dressed and rasied girl was not interested in the girls toy's but the boy's toy's. so as far as enviroment im on the fence as well as with nurturing. maybe be gentic's,i have heard my dad had odd tendecy's "not cding but other's"
now that i think about it,my wanting to live as a girl at that time was shortly after my father had abanded are family. hmmm, well as for being born only time and study will tell imop
The answer would be "Yes".
I was born to be me and I have found that it involved crossdressing from an early age.I cant say whether it is just hormonal or genetic or environmental or all 3 together but it just feels normal to me when I get the chance to dress whether its underdressing or dressing fully.
Pattie:daydreaming::battingeyelashes: