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i have read a lot of the responses and the one that makes the most sence is from reine,i believe that she can see this subject from both sides.her mate is a very lucky person that she can be so open minded,i wish that i understood the compulsion that i have that makes me crave to wear female clothes,i know that they are just clothes but they are clothes that are designed for females,early on in my life there was a sexual feeling while wearing the clothes,i imagine there are a lot of us here on the forum that have went thru the same thing,but now when i get up and get dressed in the morning i would rather have a pretty pair of panties on,any more its mostly panties,i do have urges to wear a bra at times but but not that often.anyway thanks to reine for her insite on this subject.
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The answer is subjective and relative to the total and complete life experiences of the individual that is questioned. There are a lot of variables involved, which are opened to interpretation. Clearly there are advantages and disadvantages to being of either gender, or sex if you construct your reality or interpretation of such to the construct of binary thinking and logic?
As there are currently about 7 to 8 billion people on the planet? There are about the same approximate number of answers to the question? And exponentially so! As there are deviants from the statistical norm? That precludes the possible number of billions of people that have preceded us ~ now dead.
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After reading this thread I had the realization that, while it may not be easier being a girl than a boy, it is easier to be either a boy or girl exclusively than to assume both roles alternately.
While I look forward to presenting female it does involve work, since I have to do quite a bit more than a GG to achieve an acceptable appearance. I also have to consciously change my voice and mannerisms to match my presentation. Once female, I relish the experience of interacting with the world as female.
When the time comes when I have to go back to being male I feel a sense of loss and also one of envy for those who aren't required to go back. One could liken it to a psychological withdrawal symptom.
