I think they changed something in the Matrix...
because the above post keeps showing up as "new" over the past few days yet always says it was posted "today". I'm experiencing the worst deja vu...
Oh, Lolita, Lolita, Lolita
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Originally Posted by
xxlolitaxx
However any guy who wants to cross dress and wants their partner to accept it is wrong if they would not return the favor. Me myself I would do anything to support my SO if she wanted to buy a zebra I'd support her and if she wanted to dress different or become a ftm I'd support her if she wanted to become an astronaut I'm all ears. I'd support her no matter what. I find it greedy when people aren't willing to accept things but want their things accepted.
Sorry to say but most cross dressers are greedy people! Most of you expect or want your SO's to accept more than you ever will.
I wouldn't mind because I know she would do the same for me and a relationship is not about me or her its about working together as a team and doing things you both enjoy.
And I mean that in the BEST way. U sound like me, 25 years ago. The problem is "our" dream relationship requires another person. If that other person is a GG, like mine was, u may be deceived and/or disappointed, as I was.
I thot my ex and I had the relationship u described, exactly. And for nearly 10 years, it WAS great! Our breakup was caused by her suddenly wanting to change everything to suit her. And that she was tired of "faking it" for all those years. Some changes included her being able to hang out evenings with her girlfriends. It soon became apparent, that they were quite literally "girlfriends". The end of our Camelot was at hand!
My point is, some GGs do what is necessary to please the man of their choice. Then, when you're roped in, u find out who she really is. The chameleon syndrome, if u will.
Just becareful out there Lolita. I don't regret the 8 good years I had with the woman I loved. Or my daughter with her. But, DO I resent loving someone who so completely fooled me! I can see the signs looking back, but love can blind u to just about anything!
Remember THAT, if nothing else in my rant!:chatterbox: