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Great thread does My CDing make my feel guilty I guess for a straight out honest answer YES maybe ashamed is a better word. I try to get over it, some people wife included knows about my dressing and I am fairly open about it,But the guilt remains. Is it the sexual overtones. that certainly has something to do with it. I suppose I could spend a fortune on therapy and I actually wish I could not that I need it but it might be enlightening. Maybe it is our old Victorian (puritan) values that are the problem and not our harmless hobby
I used to feel guilty but that was many years ago. Know I just feel good.
Hello Doc!
Getting past the sexual stage and going out will not take away the guilty feeling. I seldom find sexual gratification now and I dress and go out each and every time that I dress. I still feel guilty about making my wife unhappy. She hates the fact that I dress. I'm told that I'm "not normal" and in some way "sick". I think that because I have tried to hide this side of me all my life that I in some ways agree with her assessment. We can find all kinds of ways to feel guilty.
Sometimes I do, sometimes I dont.
No I don't feel guilty when I cd. I feel frustrated when I have to go back to drab tho. Hugs, Kathy