For me ... lace trimmed full slips, bras, panties and thigh high stockings. Oh ... did I mention lace trimmed full slips? Can't get enough of them.
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For me ... lace trimmed full slips, bras, panties and thigh high stockings. Oh ... did I mention lace trimmed full slips? Can't get enough of them.
My original fetish, which started me into crossdressing was stiletto heels, and the higher they were, the more facinated I became with them. But that eventually led to stockings, and the lingere, and outer clothing, and then makeup and jewlrey. But through it all, my heart belongs to 6 inch stiletto heels, yes, they are a fetish for me!
I work with female craftswomen, and I have a thing about strong arms, soft boobs and a hint of sweat. I never got serious about crossdressing until one of these women, whom I was dating, discovered that I was 'borrowing' her lingerie. After a few conversations, she dressed me in her nightie, pinned my arms down, and spent the rest of the night alternately teasing and torturing me. "Chrissie" came of age that night, and has been here ever since!
Fetishes? Hmmm, don't think I have any :) ....unless you count brassieres, brassieres, brassieres, thongs under shorts, lipstick, and being pinned to the bed. :battingeyelashes:
Most fetishes here are PG, and I realize anything further isn't allowed. (although I sure wish there was a thread or section here where everything was ok...oh well)
So...here's mine...
I shop exclusively at thrift stores. The only exceptions would be thongs and stockings, or in male mode, socks and underwear.
My fetish:
I am thrilled to be wearing something a woman wore before me. Since I buy either hippie clothes, sequined bling, or hot, tight clothing, I like to imagine what the woman looked like who wore them before me, what kind of person she was, and what she did in the clothes I am now wearing.
(note: this does NOT include intimates)
this is easy I love heals of any kind, I hav e so many shoes, and I am still buying more.
Fetish?
Hmm.
I guess pantyhose. I love them, always have.
Spandex catsuits are definitely another.
But I kinda dislike the term fetish. Mostly because of the negative connotations applied to it. In my experience it is also usually applied to men only, somehow women don't have fetishes, or if they do, it is purely to stimulate men.
OMG - Bras rule!!!!! I love the feel, the bounce, the look ( with or without clothes) and release they give me. I underdress every day with my bra holding my "little girls". :heehee:
I went to several online sources to get a definition of "fetish". The results varied, from a strong attraction or something that tends to sexually excite, to an object (like high heels) or non-sexual body part (like hair) that is REQUIRED for sexual arousal.Quote:
Originally Posted by Jaclyn NM
A lot of responses here are of the type: "I really like pantyhose", fitting the strong attraction definition. Some have a long list of things they really like, or say that crossdressing in general is their fetish.
I know that some of us, though, have a fetish for something that is (possibly in my case) required for sexual excitement, or (certainly in my case) required for maximum arousal. There are many things that excite me (long painted nails, blonde straight wigs with bangs, maid outfits, heavy makeup, long eyelashes, for example), but very high heels (the higher the better) and dark red lipstick (the deeper and darker and more heavily applied the better) take me to maximum excitement. That is especially so when part of a total (the works) makeup/dressup transformation, but high heels and/or dark red lipstick can, by themselves, arouse me greatly. When I need to dress but time and place situations don't permit full take-my-time-and-enjoy-it transformation, I have often used high heels and/or lipstick to take me to blissville.
It is not my intention to engage in a fight over the definition of "fetish" (Lord knows we argue constantly over CD, TG, & TS definitions), but to point out that responses reflect different meanings of "fetish" from the posters' point of view. Nothing wrong with that. Jacklyn's comments really hit home, though.
for me it is a quilted housecoat in nylon
Andy
I just can't stay away from a cute bra which probably is the reason I have such a large collection of Victoria's Secret, Wonderbra, Lily of France and Vanity Fair bras! It's so bad our waitress last night was wearing a Wonderbra style I just bought; turns me on so much when I know I share something that intimate with a woman. My wife would absolutely die if she discovered how many I own (40+) not to mention the fact I crossdress!
pretty much everything has been covered here, so i only have one thing to add. I am amazed this thread has 315, whoops i mean 316 posts.
I have a fetish for anything tight & shiny. ie leotards, catsuits, tight etc...
I have never met another person knowingly with a fetish.....It's so lonely sometimes!
Marina, you help me feel normal. But, I typically did it myself. problem was, I had to always give myself a release. Then, I read somewhere of someone's idea of using handcuffs while you went about your day in the house. this wasnt total bondage, but it was a good start. Instead of safety cuffs, they suggested putting the key in a block of ice, or something that would take a while to melt, and then you were stuck. This is actually fun for me. And, although I like to dress normally at my age, I dont dress as an infant like some (not that I am stepping on them), I do like dressing like a teenager with their kind of clothes. I have a cheerleader outfit from my favorite college, and dance tights.Quote:
Originally Posted by MarinaKirax
Hi like your outlook!
Dressing in lingerie and nylons ever feels so good!
I guess I would haveto go with the Damesale in Distress too. I love being tied tightly and gaged and left to struggle.
I have a lot of fetishes, and many would be surprising. Most of dressing is not a fetish to me though. The only feminine thing that is a fetish to me is extremely long nails
[SIZE="3"]I'll second that! Would really like to find some of those today but they seem to have fallen completely out of style with almost everyone. : (Quote:
Originally Posted by Christinedreamer
Lacy PJs[/SIZE]
Women's business attire with skirts not pants. I like them on me and on women.
My fetish involves being a submissive in a Beauty Salon!:heehee:
I can relate to that! Because I love the sight of a lady in tight jeans, I too wear tight ladies jeans. Also got a thing for nylon panties.Quote:
Originally Posted by Anneliese
IDK if this is a fetish but sometimes I wonder what it'd feel like to totally submit myself to a woman i.e. to be controlled by or 'kept' or 'handled' by a GG woman. In and out of bed. Please just don't TELL anyone I said that ok? I'll just deny it if you do!
Annaliese, Been there done that, wear the Tshirt often. I highly highly recommend it and it's easy to findQuote:
Originally Posted by Annaliese2010
For me it would have to be ... dressing up in something sexy with 4 inch heels, and cater to a group of guys on a football Sunday. Nothing sexual, just being there serving food and drinks and catering to their needs. :eek:
Well now that I write this it sounds kind of crazy, but it is just a fantasy ...
Hmm, let me see...Latex clothing, stockings, high-heels, being dominated, bondage etc etc etc
Huh? That went right over my head. What Tshirt? What's hard to find?Quote:
Originally Posted by JoannaCaroline
Thigh high stockings, thongs and heels for me
High heels and pantyhose, to wear and to look at.
I fantasize about but haven't participated in the following fetishes being a cheerleader, being tied up,losing my virginity while being a cheerleader and tied up, being in a relationship with a woman with me as "girlfriend" and her as "boyfriend", said "boyfriend" putting a hand up my skirt/dress and rubbing my thighs and giving "boyfriend" a lap dance
I hope that this will become a reality some day soon.... I would love to worship the feet of a beautiful girl! Then have her trample me with her sexy heels and let me be her slave :)
Yeah me too not the slave part or being walked on but here's a fun idea dating a woman who likes to watch sports with male friends after feminizing me I hang out with the girlfriends and gossip talk about girlie things
Fantasizing about dressing as a woman and being a girlie girl is a new one for me :daydreaming:
I also have a smoking fetish. Seems so sexy to smoke leaving lipstick on the filter. I love Salem or VS. Also love to watch women smoke. My aunt smoked and I think thats how I got my fetish, I thought she was so sexy.
Chocolate, OMG chocolate and not that healthy stuff that tastes like cement but milk chocolate, soft, sensual, sweet, melting in my mouth overcoming my entire body with sense of goodness. Oh la la Godiva, can you see, can you taste?
Oh YUM!! I love Godiva chocolates! But I can't eat too much of it or there will be even more Audrey to go around! LOL!Quote:
Originally Posted by Alexia Elliot
-Audrey
Since I was a young boy I've had a satin fetish. I wear satin panties and slips most every day. I also love to wear sheer stockings and garters. I love the feel of the stockings and garters pulling against my legs and butt as I walk or sit down.
I sleep in long satin night gowns and love the feel of the satin agsainst my legs during the night. I usualy wear a pair of satin boxer shorts under my nightgown.
Of course it goes with out saying I must have my chocolate!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Satincandies:battingeyelashes:
satin is lovely but for me, silk does it best... and lace... love thongs as well...
I also would love to be dominated by a GG but out where I am, it's pretty hard to find....
Just being dressed in short skirts and heels.
I was being a little glib but I meant that it is not hard to find a dominant female to fulfill that fantasy. I intentionally dated dominant women for many years before I got married to a wonderful wonderful woman and DommeQuote:
Originally Posted by Annaliese2010
Well for my fetishes, I am a furry and crossdressing still has a very sexual aspect to it, even though it is becoming part of my daily life.
My bride has a bridal fetish and I have a bridegroom fetish combined with a love of being all suited and buttoned up in a stiff white collar and perfectly tied bow tie, so our life is a constant wedding! Works perfectly.
[SIZE="3"]My bride also LOVES wearing very conservative skirted suits, like with a two-button jacket and the skirt to or just below the knee, usually in like navy blue or charcoal grey, along with a very starched ladies' tuxedo shirt with a laydown collar and the pleats up the front, fully buttoned up and with those slightly fuller, poofier ladies' bow ties tied up at her collar. Often we'll go out like that, she in her suit and me all suited and buttoned-up and bow tied. We always get alot of looks and usually some compliments.[/SIZE]
Not sure if these are kinks or fetishes? Both? Whatever? But, here's a more vanilla list of things...for the others, you'd have to step inside bedroom.
Being dominated, dominating, silk, leather, asphyxiation, we'll just go ahead and say BDSM, teasing (erotic denial), rape fantasy (key word is fantasy), forced feminization, other RP.
I forgot I long to be dominated and forcefully fully feminized (I am partially feminized) and rape fantasy yes I would like to participate in a rape fantasy as the "victim" :daydreaming: of course I am such a subbie :D
Mine only run to dressing, but I do usually dress as an adult. I dont know if the two examples would be considered fetishes- I sometimes go for a teenager look, which is just for fun, and I have a cheerleader outfit for my favorite college that i pul out during football season. For some reason, when Im jumping around when theyre winning, it feels right.
it's shoes specifically high heels. I love wearing them.
One of the funniest instances happened recently a couple of Saturdays ago. It was late afternoon, early evening and my bride and I had decided to have one of our "wedding evenings." Actually, she had come home to find me in my "wedding suit," navy blue suit, VERY starched white shirt, and navy blue print bow tie. I'd even picked up a boutonnierre at the florist! So she's upstairs getting into her bridal gown and veil. I'm downstairs, all suited and buttoned up and bowtied, pacing and feeling the same butterflies I'd felt on our wedding day. Suddenly, a knock on the door. I open the door and it's three friends of our's. They're like, "Whoa! What's the occasion?" Suddenly I hear the bedroom door open upstairs. I tell them to be quiet and I head upstairs. I meet my bride before she comes down. I don't say anything, I just take her hand and slip her arm through mine. We walk down the stairs. She's gazing at me through her blusher, knowing I'm up to something. We appear in the doorway to our living room where our friends are sitting, and they're just blown away! They thought it was SO sweet and romantic that we wanted to be a bride and groom all over again. Someone found organ music on the computer, playing Lohengrin's Bridal Chorus. One of our friends "officiated" and we had another wedding!
That sounds fun, I fantasize about being the bride at a cross-dress wedding
At first I thought I had some kind of crossdressing fetish. Now I find that bringing sex into the equation sort of ruins it for me.
Sorry but my fetishes are for me and my S/O. This is about cross dressing I thought not about fetishes.
I found that the fetish element to crossdressing faded after I discovered the joy of actual human contact when I met my first girlfriend, who I later married, but the relaxtion/inner peace/contentment factor increased. We later divorced, after 23 years of being together due to factors other crossdressing, not a very scientific observation but that doesn't that assist in the arguement that crossdressing is something other a fetishtic obsession? I would interested to hear the views of others on my experience. I know only infrequently crossdress but couldn't say triggers the need to crossdress.
I love to see toenails and fingernails with colored polish on them. In the summer when I am shopping I look at all the ladies feet like some guys look at women's breasts. For about a year I have been getting a salon pedicure once a month and I have my toenails colored bright red every time (even though I am presenting as a male). The last two times I also had the salon manicurist put color on my finger nails also. I dressed right afterwards and went to a shopping mall for the first and second time publicly En Femme!
I also love open toe high heels and high heel sandals. I have been buying them and wear them around the house before my wife gets up in the morning or when she isn't home (she knows I cross dress, but doesn't want to see it)( Funny thing though is she told me she didn't mind me painting my toenails and only occasionally makes negative comments about someone seeing them or she thought I would quit doing that). I enjoy clerks and and other shoppers seeing how pretty my feet look with my nails painted and I don't hesitate to tell them what I am looking for or wear a pair as I go up to the counter and ask if they have them in a certain color, etc. .
I have so many fetishes, it's gettin a bit ridiculous! :p And they will get dirtier as we go...
Obviously I love women's clothes. But really I love tight, skimpy *****y clothes. And of course I have a giant fetish for boots. Kneeboots, platforms, thigh highs, high heeled kick ass boots, love'em!
Always found women smoking to be a turn on, don't know why, something sensual about it.
Starting to get into BDSM. Spanking, being tied up, having to wear a collar and listen to my Mistress's commands, forcing me. Pulling my hair and whipping me when I'm naughty! :devil: I like the idea too of switching and being the Evil Mistress instead of the slave ;)
Voyeurism & Exhibitionism are fun as well!
Don't know if it's been mentioned but there is this really cool sexy social networking site devoted to fetishes that is free called fetlife. Met a lot of fun like minded people on there :)