Wife's Attitude Toward Your Dressing

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Originally Posted by Krisi

OK, this is sort of a poll. What is your wife's attitude towards your crossdressing?

1) She seems to actually enjoy it. She shops with me, sometimes buys me stuff on her own, she will sometimes ask me to dress when I wasn't planning on it and she willingly goes out in public with me as two women on the town.

2) She accepts it. She may shop with me, she doesn't make snide remarks or give dirty looks when I am dressed around her and she treats me normally when I'm dressed. I don't have to hide my stuff in the basement, it's hanging in the closet with my other clothes.

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Wife here: I'm going to rank myself. lol
I would say I am at a 1.5. I don't actually "enjoy" it, but I do love seeing my SO happy and I know this makes him happy. I do ask him to dress sometimes, but only because he gets kind of cranky when its been awhile. We do not go out dressed in public around town. I worry about people recognizing us and the backlash that could happen with my kids and husbands job. We did have our first public outing last month at a Tre-Esse meeting in another town. It was a wonderful time with a great supporting group of ladies.
Now Note: as accepting as I am and willing as I am some times I can hit a 3 - I just tolerate it and don't want to deal with it. Mainly when she is in that Lovely Pink Fog.:battingeyelashes:

At first it was #2 but now its #4

Mostly a 2, however depending on my Polar Bear's mood, it could swing to a 1 or 3...

Probably a 2.5. The poll makes me think I am better off than I realize. Thanks for making me think about this.

Went from a 2 to 5 after my son was born 4+ years ago.

Somewhere between 1 and 2

3.5. She accepts me, but doesn't want to talk about it.

Well, i think its 4,5 by me.

I told her years ago, when she found some lingeri in my closet, ! and was asking: if i had something going on with an other woman. I said no, its my OWN. !!
She was sad, but we worked it out over some time, i was hidding my CDìng away some time. .-)
I now dress when alone at home, and i think she knows, and at some pont accepting it. ( DADT ) and she always give me an aprox. time when going or one on messinger for her arrival. :-)
As im writing, sitting ind my leatherboots 4" forms and a pretty skirt, i am the most happy "girl" on earth, and loving my wife bigtime.
I`l of course hope for a lower / better number over time. :-)
Hugs to all.

She is somewhere around a two. Most of the time she lets me buy stuff and will approve or disapprove what I pick. Once in a while she will actually dress to match what I'm wearing. Sometimes I wonder what she is really thinking because she is not really open with her feelings. All in all, she's a great wife and is very tolerant of me.

I went from a 2 to a 4 and don't see that reversing any time soon :-(

I believe I am a 3.5

Somewhere between 2 and 3.

Say 2.5?

I'm going to say #1, my girlfriend is absolutely thrilled that I cross and accepts it probably way too much lol

I would say wife is somewhere around 3 or 3.5. She wouldn't throw my pretty things away, but doesn't want to see them or talk about it.

Somewhere between a 5 and a 43 5/8ths I don't think she would or could handle it well. And the few times I get to dress and shop satisfy me enough to keep it this way - even though in a dream world I would like to do the whole thing, wig, jewelry, makeup, shoes etc.

I'm a 4. Wife really doesn't like it and gets cranky if she can tell I've been made-up.

I can't fault her... We had no clue when we got married. :(

5 for me!

I'm in for 2 at the moment. Hoping for 1 in the future :)

#1 for me :)

I would say 3 for me. Wife swings from accepting to very cranky about it... mostly cranky though

#4 without the aggression. She only learned about 2 months ago. So far I'd say she's handling it well.

# 1 for sure

My wife is probably a 2, maybe a 1.75. No issues at all with the CD part of me.

3 to slightly 4 . funny how she was totally Intuit when I told her 12 years ago before we were married. Although I cross the line a few times, I have just started dressing again after a six year break. She hates it now and wishes I would stop. So I guess you could say we are on a DADT for now.

#4, she knows and never wants to see me dressed, she has found my stuff before, she will never throw anything away, I am lucky in that way...