ah but its not drab to us :tongueout (well not to me) only to you MTFs!
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There is no disrespect there Kieron. DRessed As a Boy is the ONLY context I use the term, same as DRessed As a Girl.
I suppose I could have said en homme?
The last thing I would ever do is want to offend anyone. (I've had too much of that directed at me through my life.)
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Kimberley
Cap posted a pic! Wow! :D
But to all, you look so much better (no offence by the way) when you are you, as guys. :happy:
Heheee yay we look better as boys :D
Look what I found when filing today's pics away, this should make you laugh (I look sooo girly):
Is it hard to believe it's the same person as that boy on page 2 of this thread? :hmmm:
[Edit: mmmokay, that pics been up long enough :p ]
Haha yeah that's me...with really plucked eyebrows and a bit of make up and girly clothes. I'm also sitting in a really girly pose/"acting" girly (acting being the right word I think.... but then aren't we all acting in certain situations anyway... aargh confusion!)
Even "as a girl" I usually am not so girly at all but I thought it might be interesting/funny to show me looking reeeally girly.
So you think boy me seems like the real me?
Wow this photo business is getting me confused again. (All good for learning about ourselves though I suppose!)
It's nice to have people rooting for the boy me :) Thank you :)
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Pocoyo
It's how you feel inside that counts most. How you present is secondary. Having said that, you do present very passable as male. If I was on that side of the pond I would kick your bum for thinking otherwise. Maybe we can get one of the guys over there to do it for me?
Just kidding of course. Not really very lady like is it?
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Kimberley
*grin* Thanks very much Kimb and Kieron... food for thought indeed...
It's interesting how you guys n gals and my counsellor and my most recent ex and one of my friends say the boy me feels like me.... and how some guy friends (and sometimes my mum) say "you're not a boy" and like the girly me....
Hmmm very interesting indeed... *scratches chin*
Hmmmm. Is there a difference? I dont feel it.
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Kimberley
Look, you have this great sense of humour, and a sensitive caring side but so do a lot of guys. Those are not exclusively female traits. You are doing just fine and will continue to do so. As I said before, its not what you got but what you feel. That is the real key. Sometimes we get bogged down like I did yesterday but it is only temporary.
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Kimberley
I totally agree!! Especially as I am a gay lad. Plus I know plenty of straight boys that are just as soft and caring actually.
Thank you. That's very cool.Quote:
You are doing just fine and will continue to do so. As I said before, its not what you got but what you feel.
To be honest I am really silly and goofy when I'm dressed as a boy or dressed as a girl!
Yaaaay! (to bogged-downness being only temporary!)Quote:
That is the real key. Sometimes we get bogged down like I did yesterday but it is only temporary.
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Thanks Kimberley, you are most cool.
Hey Captain that's a great pic Man! Ya was quite a dude even then xx Felix :hugs:
I can't believe that's you :eek:
Is it April Fool's Day already?
Am I on Candid Camera?
No way, man . . . I know you have a variety of looks, but I'm speechless . .
Not to imply that there is anything wrong with the girl side of you (or the boy side, of course) - you are who you are. If you're "acting" in that picture then you have a career ahead of you if you want it.
BTW, parents always see us as they want to. Mine still thinks I'm about 3-1/2 years old. :rolleyes:
Haha. Well yes, I guess I have been a bit of a chameleon.
It's interesting how different hair colours/styles, a bit of make up and different body language/facial expressions can change how you come across.
It is me tho! Dressed up on a birthday.
It was when I went through the most girly stage of my life (I was competing with a girl who was really horrible to me but thats a whole other story).
The way I dressed at that time was not really myself I don't think, but I was dressing the way I thought I should at that time (long story).
Haha!! Not so sure myself :pQuote:
Not to imply that there is anything wrong with the girl side of you (or the boy side, of course)
Whoever the heck that is! :eek: ... a cunning combination of the two I should imagine (e.g. the real me when I'm relaxed at home, not the "acts" I put on for other people...)Quote:
- you are who you are.
Funny you should say that.... hehe!Quote:
If you're "acting" in that picture then you have a career ahead of you if you want it.
Hahaha! You mean, you mean you're a grown up? :eek:Quote:
BTW, parents always see us as they want to. Mine still thinks I'm about 3-1/2 years old. :rolleyes: