Something amazing or does it happen all the time ??
Little background.
I have always been analytical and logical and always in control, not “emotional”. Nothing shocks me or surprises me. My Ex wife, 35 years ago once stated “if the roof fell in you wouldn’t even blink”. This may not have been an exaggeration.
That being said…
Last night I was changing my profile, removing “Telecommunications” as Occupation. I had thought “occupation’, job. Who cares where I work. Let me put something meaningful in there.
Job, well my Job in life is.... and I quickly typed this up.
"Occupation: Just trying to live a good and decent life so maybe, just maybe if I'm very lucky, somebody will think of me now and then after I'm gone."
I was thinking there were too many characters and then, OMG, I stated crying, tears where rolling down my face. This went on for 10 minuets’ It was amazing. I have been fully embracing the fem side of myself for a month now dressing and going out 6-7 times.
I have also seen small changes in “guy” me, little bit of a skip in my step, more complementary of others and a little flirty. Gesturing when I talk?, I have never done this but apparently I do now. These are small changes and did not come as a big surprise. But waves of emotion swelling up in me I didn’t think I was capable of these feelings. Guess Jackie sees more meaning in what I wrote than "drab analytical guy" at least I hope that's what's going on.
Over the years I have been on the internet a lot but never herd or seen anything regarding strong emotions and crossdressing. If this is part of girl power, then Ill just go with it, enjoy a good cry once and a wile and carry extra tissues.
This is your crossdressing life Jackie Bee.
This is great stuff. Just found it. Its like, "this is your crossdressing life". Its the complete manual for me.
It don't directly address crying like a baby but I think its in there between the lines.
I agree 100% with what is in BOLD for myself. What is not BOLD I agree with to a lesser degree.
I disagree with non of it.
Looking back through the thread I see a lot of the same information, you very insightful pepole you.
The link goes to a commercial Brest form site's FAQ there's nothing on that page but this article and some links.
http://www.fanforms.com/contents/en-us/d26.html
The article is quite large it also covers: Are there different types of crossdressers? What problems do crossdressers face? Are there dangers? What about children? What about their wives? and More.
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When crossdressers are asked why, most say that it relaxes them.
Crossdressers when dressed usually try to emanate the female as much as possible. They take on a feminine name, they dress in total feminine garments, In essence they attempt to become a totally different person, one who does not have the problems and worries that their male counterpart has. It can be said that they attempt to develop a feminine personality.
But very few crossdressers live totally en femme, Most spend the majority of their
lives in their everyday masculine role. When the crossdresser returns to their normal everyday masculine role, the feminine personality integrates along with their masculine personality to help form a more complete person out of him, one who is more caring and sensitive and considerate of others.
Do crossdressers wish to become women?
Unlike the transsexual the crossdresser does not detest his male body and does not wish to have it surgically altered to that of the female. He is content with his maleness and with his masculinity, but also recognizes he has a feminine component to his life.
While the crossdresser does not wish to become a woman, due to his high
admiration for the traits of the woman he does wish to become womanlike,
discovering and developing the most positive traits of the woman and integrating them into his own life.
Femmiphile
This is the most common form of crossdresser. In it’s simplicity, the femmiphile is a
person who has a love for what our society considers to be feminine and a very strong desire to associate themselves with the feminine. Femmiphiles have high admiration for the female and wish to emulate them as much as possible.
While there is an old saying “The other man’s grass is always greener,”
crossdressers have in fact found that the grass while perhaps a different shade of
green, is just as green on both sides of the fence. Rather than choose sides, the
crossdresser has found that he likes both shades of green equally. The crossdresser has in fact grown beyond the point of being an ordinary male and has become a total person.
Original Source: Tri-Ess http://www.tri-ess.org/
