do you have them?
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do you have them?
must be Monday.
Try the search here, you'll find probably a million threads about this (OK Hundreds)
Not to rest ofthe members here...keep it clean
Im bisexual, so yes I do....
I wish I had a man of my own so I wouldn't have to think about it.
I don't need to be dressed enfemme to experience that feeling FYI.
My short answer. No.
Only when i am dressed to the nines, and with a gentleman who would treat me like a true lady, honoring my boundries. But, never when i am not dressed as a lady.
I don't have fantasies about having sex with anyone actually (sigh 🙁 )
oh yeah, lots of them... ;)
Yes, but happy to keep them in the "fantasy" world
How many ways are there to say NO?
I am Bi-Sexual and I don't have fantasies about sex with men. I actually do have sex with men and it is very enjoyable.
I think everyone does at least once whether they may admit it or not. :)
Yes, because I'm bi. I had sex with guys long before I began dressing, so CDing has nothing to do with it.
This thread just demonstrates the vast diversity of the sexuality and gender identity of members on this site. For those of you who are gay or bi or have transitioned and perhaps now consider themselves heterosexual females, then I say please enjoy yourselves. Personally, I have no such fantasies about being with another male, even another CD male. However I do fantasize about being intimate with a GG while I am dressed as a woman. The fantasy "male lesbian" thing.
I have had that fantasy when en femme but that's all it is just a passing fantasy.
Sure I do, all the time.
Yep. Especially if I am dressed, because I have never had sex with a man while dressed. But have a few times not dresssed.
i agree with kate...i don't believe the people who say they don't...now...those of you who have made those fantasies a reality...is the real thing better than the fantasy or is it the other way around?
I think the fantasies are somewhat better than reality, because I heavily embellish in my fantasies, so they can be *exactly* as I want them to be. But honestly, the realities play heavily into my fantasies.
Fantasized about it? Yes. Realized them? No. I'm torn between actually wanting to try it and being content to fantasize about it.
I certainly had fantasies about sex with men and many years ago I decided that it was a question that I needed to answer so I placed an ad in the newspaper (pre-internet, if you can believe that)! That was about twenty years ago and, although we now live in separate cities, we still maintain a very valued relationship and get together as often as we can. It has blossomed into a very intimate friendship and I wouldn't change it for the world.
From a sexual perspective, it was a little difficult at first as there would be something of a "buyer's remorse" that I felt immediately after our encounters but, God bless him, he understood and never judged or imposed his own agenda. He was patient and unselfish and allowed me to come to terms with my sexuality at my own speed and for that, I will be forever grateful. I realize that it's not for everyone but after all of these years and all of the many intimate moments that we've shared, I couldn't imagine my life any other way...
Fantasized and realized.
Oboy, did I! Graphic ones appeared in my imagination from out of the blue in my 50's! So much so I was sure I'd turned gay!:eek:
It took many years before I realized it was simply the idea of becoming a real woman that appealed to me in my dreams. And, there was nothing about males that I found/find attractive!:brolleyes:
It's been 7 years since I've had one those fantasies. I think they've stopped for good.
Is the real thing better than fantasy? Well fantasy is usually better than reality right, but sometimes it's close and sometimes things are even better than expected. The imagination is only capable of so much.
I do! Most of my fantasies involve intimacy with a man. I prefer actual experiences, but fantasies are fun in the meantime.
Jeri
I am bisexual and yes I do. I'm in a heterosexual relationship with my GF but I sure would like to have a man in my life. Gotta admit though that gay men do not like us but heterosexual men do. I have been with two married men while being dressed. I must say that wow it was amazing all the petting, kissing and foreplay and them undressing you for sex was pretty amazing.
Tabitha, My male parts were no problem to them and they got me off anyways as I was pretty hot. LOL
Sounds amazing, Dana :daydreaming:
Oh yeah, it makes me have fantasies about men. You bet. To be a girl in a relationship is fantastic. But as I said they were married so it had to be kept secret. but I sure would like one of my own. LOL
From the beginning of my dressing until a few years ago, no fantasies. Now, every day. I'm Bi-curious and would love to be the woman in a man's arms, to cuddle, fondle, kiss and satisfy him sexually.
Mmmmm....so would I.....:love:
Oh yes I definitely do!
I don't that type of fantasies.
All the time!
Uh yeah i do, but i am 99% sure it aint happening.
I do fantasize about them a lot while
Yes I do, but the fantasy also contains the romance part, being treated like a lady, taken out to dinner, dancing, all that stuff.
I agree with Donna June. I guess I left the romance part out of my reply. The experiences I have had, and my fantasies, all involve romance. A casual sexual encounter is not my cup of tea.
Jeri
Fantasy very different from having actual sex with a real man; once you have gone through the later, there is no turning back, you will be longing for more...but then are you still considered as a crossdresser who have you already cross the "line"?
Not sure if dreams fall into the fantasy realm but last night I had a dream where I was on a gay game show.
And the grand prize was a free trip to the Vatican because thats where the only unmarried gay people were., but the kicker was they were all priests so you had to lure them away for a weekend have sex with them to win the prize.
OK, now that's a funky game show dream, you gotta tell me what you ate before going to bed! 😃
Makes my 'almost made out with the drummer from a band' dream look...well...pretty lame 😪
Robin I had dirty rice for dinner google cajun food.
Without true romance and being treated like a lady (as you should) it's all fake. We deserve the real deal :)
I've thought about it, but when I talk to actual guys they're either forceful or super creepy :/ The closest fantasies I have to that now is with another mtf XD
Fantasies yes but just that.
Tracii, i remember hearing the Grand Ole Opry many years ago, and a song about Louisiana dirty rice.
Very hard to keep them out of the way. Usage and role all depends up on the person you are satisfying who is in turn satisfying you and what makes the grade.
I must be a right so and so the speed my knickers come off lol .Only joking, I am actually quite prim at times.
Well said Sandra. Got me laughing...