My SO still gets very excited when he puts on anything fem. It only lasts a few minutes but you can tell he is aroused.. Does this go away or is it natural? When you are tucked does this still happen?
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My SO still gets very excited when he puts on anything fem. It only lasts a few minutes but you can tell he is aroused.. Does this go away or is it natural? When you are tucked does this still happen?
We are all different! :)
Some dress FOR the excitement.
Some dress and share the excitement.
Some dress w/o excitement but can get excited.
Some never get excited.
Some would rather not get excited.
Some wish they could get excited.
As for being excited whilst tucked . . . neat trick . . . but usually the excitement needs to be over before tucking!
:)
i get excited when i'm stepping into a dress or sliding some stockings or panties on but not in that way,i don't get physically aroused,i used to when i was in my teens.as for tucking i really don't need to lol :) x
i don't. i just feel more relaxed and more "real" if that makes any sense at all.
I use to get aroused when putting anything enfemme on when I was in my teens and twenties, by the time I was 30 yrs old the arousal phase went away, yeah!. Now when I dress enfemme it is more like a comfort zone for me, and I feel alot more at ease, and I feel like I am free to be my true self.
When I do tuck I still get aroused when I have a romatic encounter with a GG. :D
As your S.O. gets older and has had many times enfemme behind him the sexual component of dressing enfemme will most likely fade away. I hope he does not make dressing enfemme become more important than romantic encounters with you.
Vivian's responce to the question can be ditto for me. When in teens, yes but since married, no. However, my sex life with my SO is normal regardless of my CDing.
When I first started dressing (long after teens, btw) I used to get very excited doing it, sometimes so much so that I had to change panties as soon as I had put them on which was a bit disappointing because I immediately lost the urge to dress, but that doesn't happen any longer.
It does happen to me still but very rarely now. It depends what's in my mind.
Since reaching puberty and all the way up to now, the thrill is NOT gone.
Tucking? I never have and I never will do that. I couldn't imagine how nasty that would feel.
I'm married and have been dressing for thirty five years and counting, and I still get aroused by it. Not instantly like it was when I was younger, but it still always happens and I hope always will.
I am in the same boat as Tricia.Quote:
Originally Posted by tricia_uktv
Its more natural now for me to slip into something nice as I call it.
Xx Vicky xX
It is as if i am telling about my experience, because it was exactly what was happening, especially during an interval of few months between m cding and my telling my wife.Quote:
Originally Posted by Electra
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I still get excited from dressing as well as thinking about what I may want to wear, shopping for clothes or reading CD stories or watching a cd movie. The thrill keeps going on.
I get aroused before and during my dressing, but as soon as I get ready to go into public, etc, all that goes away. I'm too busy concentrating on looking/acting like a young lady.
Hi, like most of us i got a little excited when I first put on a Skirt, but it didn't last long, In fact only Hours. I was looking for Weeks or even months, but no. Disapointed? yes - until i realised that I was watching tv. in the most relaxed way I have ever done. in other words CD. it's not a state of mind, it's a state of being. Lovely , Cute, Warm, WANTED?
NOT so sure about the wanted, but you know what I mean, I get a great feeling of self confidence while wearing a skirt, Yes someone does know, but there is no way I can go out dressed, Id make an ugly woman, though that is not what I'm after, just love Skirts & knickers, etc. could do with a few like minded fiends/ does that say fiends, met friends - cordless keyboard = Crap - Friends - not fiends
It depends.
If I dress to get aroused, I will.
If I dress to dress, I will not. Doesn't mean I can't get aroused while dressed though, which is the only moment being tucked can become uncomfortable.
(does that make any sense?)
I get excited but not aroused but that would only take another 1/2 second.
Yes, the sexual aspect of crossdressing remains an important aspect
of my crossdressing. Still true after 40 years!
I'd better ... or all this stuff is going to the GoodWill shop!
For me, it's not really a matter of getting "excited" like that. But of having a continuous kind of quiet exhilaration that lasts through the whole event, whether it's a quickie try-on of something new from the store or an extended deja-cation of a week at a conference.
Both deja and 'whats-his-name" are the real me, but deja exists in technicolor!
;)
I can somewhat set my mood for the session by changing the way I perceive it (Do that make sense?)Quote:
Originally Posted by tricia_uktv
That exactly how I feel. That makes perfect sense!! I was talking to my doctor about dressing and that’s how I explained it to her. It's nice to know I'm not alone.Quote:
Originally Posted by Sylvermane
I'm 65 now, and I've got excited when dressing every time since I was 10! Maybe now, it's partially because I only put on clothes I find exciting, and yes, when my wife is wearing such clothes, I get excited too. My ultimate thrill would be for us to get intimate while we were both wearing sexy clothing, but until she became a bit more tolerant of my CD side, that's unlikely to happen.
Tony
But, only a PRE-TEEN as a CD!:heehee:
Excited: Almost ALWAYS, when I'm CDing!
Aroused: Almost always, at some point(s) during every CD session.
Tucked: Almost always!
Orgasms, ( u didn't ask, but): Because of being; excited, aroused, and tucked while CDing? Almost ALWAYS!:o
I get aroused every single time I use any femme clothes. I am 46 years old and I have maybe 5 years crossdressing at home. First time I crossdressed I was 13/14 years old and I did not do it again until 5 years ago.
My wife accepts to go to the bed with me in femme, although I do not make up, do not use wigs, an do not shave my body or legs. I use panties, bras, nightshirts, femme pants and skirts, stockings, pantyhoses, and my favorites: High Heels.
Rachel
Yes I ever get ecxited while & after dressing. It gives me emance pleasure of heavenly feelings. Now a days I sought a c.d.company to add to my joy & fentasis to hugg.Quote:
Originally Posted by cocopuff's girl GG
Deja says it for me. I feel so much more alive sometimes when I'm dressed en femme. I'm just more aware of the different feelings of painted nails, my forms, the different materials of the clothing and the smells associated with this effort.Quote:
Originally Posted by deja true
Yes, dressing still excites me. I always look forward to it. The sense of well-being that comes over me is always welcome. If you're asking about sexual excitement, well, I used to have a constant state of arousal every time I dressed, but that faded over the years. And it's more relaxing to not have that going on all the time while I'm dressed. But if I desire it, I certainly have no issues inducing that stimulation manually, especially while dressed.
When I was a teenager but then just about everything made me excited.
Nowdays dressing is more about feeling comfortable and good about myself.
I get excited each and every time I become Nicole. Being able to slip into my soft sexy clothing, my wig and makeup is a really emotional turn on for me. I may be a little unusual, but I no longer feel the sexual excitement that I felt 20 or 30 years ago.
For me, the excitement comes from going out as Nicole and being accepted by those I encounter as the person I appear to be. I get really turned on emotionally when I go into a woman's shop, try on a new dress or outfit, and have a sales associate or another shopper comment on my appearance or pay me a compliment. I also get excited when I go to pickup some makeup and I am approached and questioned on my choice of product.
I guess excitement comes in different ways as you get older. I am far more happy and content with who I am today than I have ever been in the past and I find my excitement far more rewarding.
Nicole
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Originally Posted by StaceyJane
Interesting thread. A related question I have is- for those that are full time or have transitioned, do you get the same excitement or thrill now as you did when you first started part time CDing?
A GG friend of mine (who knows about my dressing) tells me all the time, "I don't understand why you'd voluntarily wear a bra". Of course, I'd trade with her in a second! :daydreaming:
My experience is similar, but I really don't dress en femme to get aroused. I certainly CAN get aroused when I'm dressed.
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Originally Posted by Gerard
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Originally Posted by TGMarla
As far as getting excited while tucked, That is pretty difficult. All tucked in and held there with agirdle, Not much room left for expansion.
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Originally Posted by cocopuffs girl GG
[SIZE="2"]Excited? Yes. Aroused? No. How can I be aroused when I feel vulnerable? Vulnerability excites me all by itself, but it certainly isn’t sexual excitement. I need to remove my clothes for that…:heehee:[/SIZE]
Started dressing when I was 8 or 9. The excitment started than and has never stopped. It gets me going everytime. Maybe that is why wife is so accepting.
I get excited when my SO joins in the fun!!! And she loves me dressed!
The levels of excitement never seem to diminish . I'd go even further and say that the anticipation , waiting for the chance to dress as glorious and addictive .
These most pleasurable feelings only get stronger if the chance to repeat dressing from one day to the next arises , for me at least .
+1. I don't 'get aroused' any more when dressed as a girl than I do while dressed as a guy. And when I do, the feeling is the same, whether in guy or girl mode; I feel like I'm supposed to respond with stereotypical female behavior. I have learned to 'act' like a guy. I've gotten pretty good at playing that part, but it still feels unnatural.Quote:
Originally Posted by linnea
Ditto.Quote:
Originally Posted by linnea
I'm more interested in putting full ensembles together, and seeing what works esthetically. Women's fashion is too good looking for me to ignore. I hate it ( meaning I'm jealous) when women wear the latest fashion trend, and try different outfits each day because they feel like it.
I still get aroused sometimes but im taken a pill called transfemme and it messes with that department but when the girl mode realy kicks in it helps me I've never had a problem with it but im like everyone here its like when you can be your self its so relaxing and the fillings are so real don't let it both you its normal to not get aroused everytime you dress