In bed with your wife en femme, ever?

Trying not to be too racy or explicit. But for those of you who have sympathetic SO's, where do you stand on the subject of marital relations with you dressed? My perspective is a straight CD, but I do have a femdom thing going on, too, and I have fantasized about my wife insisting I go to bed with her as a woman. (I think the term Male Lesbian kinda fits the situation) Is this something that other of 'us girls' think about? How about the SO's, does accepting your mate en femme extend to the bedroom, as long as the dance steps remain the same?

I wore lingerie a couple of times with a girlfriend years ago but I didn't feel right. She was the wrong person I guess and my wife doesn't know I CD so not tried with her. I think I would like to be treated as a lady so I can't see it working for me.

Many years ago, I had girlfriends that liked to dress me up before unmarital relations. But the wife is not into that. However, I had lingerie on during foreplay but was told to take it off before things progressed.

I would like to try being fully dressed. Maybe one day she will entertain me.

Yep, been there, done that! in fact it got to the point were it was the only thing we did! Note the past tense there!

I slept with my wife a good part of the time in femme and we would do it which ever way we felt,I always would at least have my panties on.:love:

I always wear women's night clothes. Capri satin pj's or night shirts. Feels normal for us.

I normally sleep in a nightown.

I am with geri-tg and Misty VA, it would be unusual for me not to go to bed (sleep or not) without a nightgown and almost always a bra and forms. Nothing like having her hold up my nightgown and feeling it cascade all over us when doing "the BAD thing!"

Kim

When it comes to the bed room, well lets just say Kaitlin get as much time as me! But it's not that big of a change, I always wear panties, legs are shaved and smooth and my toenails are always polished. So when we bring in Kaitlin we add in a sexy night gown, lacy bra and forms and a little makeup! As far as when and how often, that just depends on what mood were in! It's like bondage, were heavy into that as well but it just depends on the mood!

Every night in a silk night shirt. When it is playtime we bring out the baby dolls. It adds to the fun. SA

Not all of the time but about 30 % or so. Had some very racy times in all of the varieties that you could think of between two happily married people. Makes life very varied and interesting - wife has small love-heart tattoo on back with my drab name and one on top of left breast with Stephi.


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Always. My wife insists and even picks our the nigthies and panties for me.
Actually I don't think I could get a good nights sleep without wearing something frilly.
Even when travelling I always sleep 'atired'.

I feel so sad for those who don't have a supportive partner. And so lucky to have a partner who actually supports/encourages/insists my femme side.

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How about the SO's, does accepting your mate en femme extend to the bedroom, as long as the dance steps remain the same?

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Absolutely! I like it when I pull back the covers and discover Hubby 'dressed' - he doesn't wear a wig or make up to bed(his choice). It's also fun to wear matching 'outfits'. He's not en femme every night, but he's free to be whenever he wants. As for 'as long as the dance steps remain the same'? Not necessarily. :D

We more or less lost interest in bedroom sports years ago and are celibate, but I always sleep in one of my silky-feeling nylon nightgowns with my hair on. I recently acquired good silicon forms, so I think I'll get some of that Hollister adhesive so I can sleep with the breasts on also.

My SO is TS so of course she's allowed into the bedroom, so long as she brings a nice hunk with her. :D :D :D

I always sleep (with my wife) in a nightgown and sometimes wear lacy panties underneath, but if we engage in marital relations (which isn't very often these days) it all comes off.

Marina,

Yes, i sleep en femme with my wife at night. I usually wear silk PJ's a night gown or a full slip. if i am especially troubled by work or stress, she insists on me being dressed as i sleep much better...

Ps: the other part is better too...:heehee:

Nope! My wife is very accepting, most of the time, but Sally is not allowed in the bedroom. We even try to avoid TG discussions in the bedroom to throw her off from being with her male mate. She isn't attracted to women at all and if she sees Sally when she looks in my face then all possiblities of fun are off for that night!

Why sure, did it all the time, everythong wig included minus makeup. It is a marvelous experience for those who've never done that. The climax is unbelievable... but after a while the wife tires of the Suzy Q role playing that she does just to placate me and wants a man, her husband to make love to her. Her reason and rightly so is that we selfish narcistic CD's including me are more into making love to our clothes at that moment than our spouse underneath us, and its terribly unfair after a while. Don't push it.
That was many years ago and lasted for about 10 years on ocasion but those days are over and we are celibate alao for various personal reasons. No husband/wife sex.

Megan

some times in bed wearing underwear while making love
all the time sleeping
i let her feel like a woman
some times she treats me like woman
most of the time she treats me like a real man
we love each other

I'm wearing lingerie nearly 100% of the time my wife and are... well you know:o

So, the question to me is - where did you find these women? I find it amazing and I'm completely jealous.

I wouldn't even know how to get to that point in a relationship, and, if any of your wives have a sister with a similar personality, send them my way!

No, never, darn it !:sad:

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So, the question to me is - where did you find these women? I find it amazing and I'm completely jealous.

I wouldn't even know how to get to that point in a relationship, and, if any of your wives have a sister with a similar personality, send them my way!

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Mine's bisexual. In her words "more attracted to girls, but can't live without... ;)" so that's how it works with me.

We haven't slept together while I'm dressed yet though, as we separated before we got the chance. Then I moved home to be near family. So once we're ready to give our marriage another chance, there will be plenty of that :D

Yep, every now and them...completely dressed. First she....than she......and then.....:devil:

It took about a year after my wife "discovered" Daisy, for her to allow me into the bedroom wearing panties and a nightie. But when she did, my access came with unlimited privileges. However, she usually turned off the lights before the main event. :hugs:

Daisy :)

Married people .....

still having sex ?

with each other ?

really !

got to tell the wife bout this one......


LOL

Joann

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Originally Posted by Joann Smith

Married people .....

still having sex ?

with each other ?

really !

got to tell the wife bout this one......


LOL

Joann

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Can't get it as the guy, so I know Lauren ain't getting no play.

When I first told my wife, she said absolutely no cuddling, etc.
She told me "I'm not into girls, that would be gross" one night, I pointed out "I'm not a girl, just dressed..." and almost immediately she was cuddling on the couch. The next night I was allowed to wear a cammi and matching panties, and was quite surprised to find her cuddling with me as we slept. As far as the "relations" go, I am still figuring this out myself (thanks to this site, and another I recently realized that nothing is actually wrong with me, and let her in on it), so I have not really tried.

I am so lucky that for the past 5 years i have slept with my so in a nightie

In fact i have more nighties than she does

We have had "Terri "in our bed and relations since we have been married and we both think it has enhanced our lives .

I guess i'm lucky, my wife loves our intimate, moments in the bedroom when i'm dressed. of course it comes with a price, i have to give her a great back rub. but i enjoy that to, i look at myself in the mirror when i'm doing it. life is good

Yes we have. She has picked out what I wear at times. I am always sleeping at least in a pair of panties at night if not a nightgown of some type.

Yeh works for me i'v been to bed with my wife wearing stockings suspenders and panties, she loves it but not all the time! which suit me too. :)

No second thoughts. I have something soft and pretty on every night and when the time comes, well...:D

I am lucky that my wife has totally accepted Maria, and all of my shoes and clothes as well. She has recently , since Halloween, actually started to participate fully in my dressing, helping with make up and nails, which is wonderful. Sometimes, I may not be dressed fully, but there is ALWAYS at lease a pair of my heels on during intimate times. Other times, I do dress and just be fine holding her, or vice versa...

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Originally Posted by Joann Smith

Married people .....
still having sex ?
with each other ?
really !
got to tell the wife bout this one......
LOL
Joann

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:yt::fs:because that sure isn't going on around here either!!!!---->>>:dom::lol2: OMG I feel so bad for reacting that way to your post but sometimes that Y chromosome just wont stay hidden.

I sleep in a long XXXL mens shirt and bikini panties. My wife tolerated lingerie until we had a crisis involving a tornado and then it was decided that since we have kids that probably wasnt the prudent thing to do. My wife has never allowed me to fully dress in bed.

I think that line of thought applies to many of us.And no big kisses as I am going out the door,either..."don't want to smear your lipstick like you do to mine..":2c:

I have worn everything to bed from nylons and garter belts to teddys to cotton slip shirts and everything else in between. It must do something for her, becasue she has aked me to dress up for her. It sure makes it fun.

Tried a couple of times--but wifey really isn't keen on the idea.

I was married for three years; before the wedding we had been together two years, and she knew about me early on (the second time she met me I was fully dressed).
Before the marriage, I went to bed with her while wearing a black negligee. She had a problem with that (not anger, just discomfort), and I never wore it to bed again.

Before we got married, we "had fun" when I was dressed, but only a couple of times. Both involved a couple of drinks, and I don't think she would have been too eager had she been sober. Since we've been married, she's seen me dressed numerous times, but has never said "hey, let's fool around." Darn it.

Oh well.

As for clothing I wear a sweatshirt and lounge pants mostly. However I am always en fem in bed as ME.... after all that is who I am.

I haven't slept with Veronica as I didn't know she existed until a couple of weeks ago... But I can't wait to! I'm even picking out sexy under things for her to wear!:D

We have played around and had sex while i was wearing stocking, garter belt and panties, but we have never done anything sexual when I was fully dressed. When I am completely dressed she says she thinks of me as her sister and she is not into incest!!!!

If I was not dressed enfemme every night in bed and during relations, my wife would ask if I am ill.

My bride was not willing to let Sarah in the bedroom during those times. That's not who she married and she wasn't giving in. Since she was so supportive in every other aspect of my crossdressing, this wasn't worth fighting.
Still happy and Sarah will probably die an old maid. That's okay by me.

This thread really rings true for me as my daughter was conceived with me wearing white stockings and garter belt (I was all dolled up then clothes came off). I soon became quite enthralled with the idea of coming home to dress up all the time which sparked the beginning of the end for that relationship. I still put my daughter to bed every night 13 years later but not a day goes by where I don't pine for the way things were.

Life is more complicated now...

I work nightshift so i dont dress sexy then,maybe my panties,but when am off I usually dress in Silky nightie,and bra and panties,feels so right and if we then do wat comes naturally,then my wife has absolutely no problem with that
On occassion she likes to take charge and be dominant and I have no problem with that :D:D

My dressing all resurfaced because of the bedroom thing. I had burried it for years, and was pretty miserable not remembering why. My wife knew I loved her to wear stockings and sexy stuff during relations. Then it happened though she asked me to try some stockings one night, ooops. Things have progressed from there. Now here I am a full blown CD. I had always been so, just would not let it be so. Any how now my Wife and I enjoy both sides of my self. As she put it "she gets the best of both worlds
'. Ya gotta love the woman.:love: