Wife meeting Jessica Tonight.

Well the kid is staying at a friends house and the wine is chilling in the refrigerator. Tonight is the first and hopefully not the last time that my wife meets Jessica. She has known about my desire to dress for awhile and this has caused a few problems between us. I took it slow and did not force anything onto her. I took my clothes out of the tote and hung them up and told her about it, so there would be no big surprise. I wanted to be open and honest with her.
I'm not ready to go clubbing or come out to my family. I still need to take it slow. Once she is comfortable with me I would like to go to Boston with her to visit some of the crossdress friendly clubs. Maybe meet some fiends. Well wish me luck.

Jessica

Keeping fingers crossed, and let us know how it goes!

One step at a time, Jessica. Take your time with going to Boston and meeting up with "fiends" --meet up with friends first, OK? Don't take a mile if she gives you an inch; let the pink fog clear away. You don't mention the nice things you are going to do for her. Listen to what she says and read between the lines to truly understand how she feels. I hope it works out beautifully. Good luck!

I really hope you goes well!
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ASAP!


Beth

Good luck! Let us know how it goes.

I pray that she will embrace you, and that you will be patient and let her take the lead.

I hope tonight meets your expectations, and your wife's. Have fun!

Hope it goes well. Good luck!

I hope you have a good time. Good luck!

Danni

First of all let me thank the lovely ladies on this site for your support. Last night went extremely well. I dressed in my best outfit did my nails and makeup and had my wife meet Jessica. She said that I looked lovely (I think that she was just being nice). We drank some wine did some dancing and set ground rules for Jessica. I am completely satisfied with all that happen. I can even get my ears pierced now.
Well just wanted to let you know how it went. I'm looking forward to the day that I get the nerve and go out for a drive or a walk ala fem.

Jessica

That's great. So happy for you!! :)

Congrats! Both of you will get there.

Thats wonderful i'm glad you both had an enjoyable evening.

That is good news :) Now just take it slow and don't rush things, talk things through together and most of all be honest with each other.

Take it slowly with her and the trip out will happen naturally

Good for you im so glad you had a good time !.As i say 1 dress at a time you will be ok !

Good for you Jessica! My wife knows all about Kimberly and has even seen some photos of her (she was not impressed, lol)but a face to face is still very much in the future. I can't complain, she has given me some clothes and some underwear lately and I can go out a little each week. So, like you I'm starting to move foward. Hope both of us gain more acceptance.

So glad to hear everything went well. Another positive reassuring story :)

That's wonderful. Stay focused now and keep the lines of communication open 24/7.

So glad to hear it went well. I'm at home with my wife tonight but Mrs Flowers has been more than accepting since the day I came out to her. We're having a lovly time sat here like a happy relaxed lesbian couple watching TV and surfing on our lappies.

I know the excitment and the fear! I hope you have a great time tonight!

Jessica, sounds wonderful! I know you're excited about getting your ears done, and I know how encouraging it must be to hear that from your wife. Is she willing to help you in other ways, or even to one day go out with you?

So glad it went so well for ya!!! That awesome!!! Its always so cool when your lover tells you that you look good! I wish I had that! Keep concidering her feelings! On all matters!

You go girl juat keep taking it easy Jessica.:hugs:
Angie

Congrats, Jessica! :)

Wonderful news!! Congrats!!

Hip hip hooray jessica. Keep the baby steps in order, and dont rush too fast. I know how you feel right now, and am on my meeting high also. My wife does not mind me being informally dressed - jeans blouse, bra, shoes. but has said she did no want to see me en femme. Yesterday she came home early, and caught me in full femme. I went down stairs to change, but she said she was ready to meet me fully dressed with wig, makeup, nails etc.. We sat all night, talking, drinking wine, and watching a movie. She has decided she can take the shock of me totally dressed when i feel I need it, and I need not hide it.

Today we went shoe shopping, and picked up some makeup and brushes for me to try.

Way to go, I know you and your wife will grow together in this and both will enjoy it.

Babes

You're a brave one, Jessica...Good luck..I rather envy you..smooches Jackie

So glad to hear it worked out for you, Jessica! :)

Congrats on a great night! It sounds like your approach is working for both of you. Listen to what the senior members of this site are saying, there experience is valuabe. Most of all listen to what your wife is saying! It's such an awesome feeling when your free of that seceret that you have been hiding from your wife. Good luck to both of you. Wife , child, CD you can do it!