Crossdressing and" accidents".

I suppose I could ask how many of you have actually been in a car accident but that would be way too simple. I could also ask, how many underdress at least some time if not all the time and worry that you MIGHT be in a car accident? That's not the question either. [I'm talking about outer clothing being cut away or removed by a doctor, EMT etc.]

So how about this and and I'll even include all you GGs. How many of you on a regular basis [at least once a week] go to the gym let's say and lift, do aerobics, dance, swim...whatever and shower and/or change clothes THERE at the facility where other people MIGHT see your your underwear/panties. MIGHT see.

I'm guessing [sorry] very few folks and that almost everyone who doesn't have a SO would rarely have any "legitimate, reasonable" worry that someone might see the underwear they are wearing?

In other words, aren't the chances extremely SMALL that anyone other that a SO would ever see your underwear?

OOps: for you folks w/o dryers or who simply prefer to line dry your clothes...certainly underwear could be hung up indoors?

wildaboutheels how about telling your story first!

back in the days i often went across the border for recreational herbs if you know what i mean. And i used to underdress regularly in those days. Biggest fear was gettin pulled over by the cops lol. They always used to take you to the station and do a strip search. Now wouldnt that have been the sight.... Had a few near misses but never caught.

She always warned me to wear clean underwear, when I was a young boy, so that I was taken to the hospital I wouldn't be embarrassed.

IMHO, if I'm in an accident and rushed to the hospital I think the LEAST of my worries is whether the staff sees women's underwear on me. Just for the record, I don't own any men's underwear so it isn't even a consideration.

Be happy,
Sandra1746

OK; I wear panties 24/7, Fem Jeans most other times. When possible, I wear
a bra under dressing. I do not go out totally dressed, so I have no fear in being
discovered. I do not wear a bra when I might be found out by someone hugging me.
Rader

Thanks for the answers so far folks. Maybe I should rephrase to "is almost any man OR woman who wears the "wrong" underwear reasonably "safe from Society" if they go out in public"?

Only talking about underwear/panties here.

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She always warned me to wear clean underwear, when I was a young boy, so that I was taken to the hospital I wouldn't be embarrassed.

IMHO, if I'm in an accident and rushed to the hospital I think the LEAST of my worries is whether the staff sees women's underwear on me. Just for the record, I don't own any men's underwear so it isn't even a consideration.
Be happy,
Sandra1746

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This is so true. On both parts my mom would make sure I had clean underwear on. The doctors see so much they prob wouldn't give it a second thought. I will say though I always thinly about what if.

I would say yes! Even if you are in an accident and the EMT's or docs have to cut your clothes off. They aren't going to care. Trust me, they have seen it all and won't think a thing of it. They won't (shouldn't) even ask about it. The only thing they are concerned with is taking care of you at that point.

I don't under dress if I'm going to the gym or somewhere where I will have to change in a public place like a locker room. That would be risky, but anywhere else... GO FOR IT.

I did this for years. It isn't hard to not be seen especially in a male locker room where if you look you MUST be gay. Besides there are men's panties available. I have never worn boxers (but I know three women who do on a daily basis) but I have worn I think ever other kind of men's and women's underwear and I have worn them to pools, gyms and (um....) bathhouses. (PS I used to play highly competitive volleyball and I wore snug panties instead of a jock)

I have been in an accident while wearing panties, the medical staff is so used to it that it does not cause a problem. One nurse made the comment "nice underwear" , but that was all. On a different occasion I was getting released from the hospital and my wife got my street closes out of the locker and lay ed them on the end of the bed. The nurse was helping me get dressed and looked down at the panties and said who are these? I told here they were mine and she helped me get dressed with no reaction.
As stated before, if you are in a accident what you are wearing is the least of you worries. None of the medical staff care about that , they only want to take care of you medical issues.
I, like many on here only wear panties, do not own any mens underwear.

I know quite a few policemen and medics/nurses in the UK... and they have seen it all! They have procedures protecting individual's rights! We are safer with the EMTs and police than the general public! Now they are the worry!

I'm not going to worry about a car accident cause unless my car has rolled and won't start then I will just drive away like those guys in a Mad Max movie.

I don't care if I get caught by emt or doctor. I wore plain white hi cut panties to the doctor's office last time I went. I wish I could wear them 24/7, but my wife is against it due to it not being manly. Oh well.

Well, I probably had a "worse case scenario" about 7 years ago when I collapsed en femme at the(LGBT) club. I came to and collapsed again. They took me outside to get some air and took my wig and pantyhose off. In the meantime they had called the ambulance. When it came, they took me to the hospital to get checked. The paramedic asked what to call me, ma'am or sir. I said to just call me Richard. When I arrived at the hospital, no one batted an eye as they have pretty much seen it all. The ER Doctor was only concerned with my health. They even gave me nail polish remover and soap, water and a wash cloth to clean myself off as I had explained my wife would be picking me up and she was not at all favorable.

It definitely was not the end of the world and was actually the start of me balancing my feelings. My only advice before going out, just make sure your bra and panties match just in case someone has to pull 'em off if in an accident. ;):)

I have never been in a car accident, but, I am sure it they never seen it before they will now see it. I have no problem getting dressed or undressed in locker rooms as I usually step into one of the stalls to put on bra or hose, no need to freak the men out, finally, I would leave the lockerroom dressed the same way I arrived. Quite often I would change into a one piece swimsuit and you need to shower before swimming, never had a negative reaction.

Been wearing panties for 2 years 24/7, toes painted for the last 6 months. I visit the gym at least twice a week and change in the looker room, use the whirl pool and steam room, no problem. Not worried about an accident the EMTs will just have to get over it besides they need new stories to tell their friends.

i am not concerned about emt's or dr's as for seeing my underwear or my dress i am wearing.. as for an accident the biggest worry there is it will be somewhere close to home and everyone that knows me stops to see if i am ok.. now i am talking about being fully dressed in the worry.. The last trip to the DR i was in girls jeans, panties, a blouse with low cut socks and with tennis shoes.. i cared my fanny pack over my shoulder due to lack of pockets in the jeans.. i have long hair that is cut in a fem style with bangs and i wore it down... My dr of 20 years never acted like he even noticed... will see how the next visit goes when i go even more in fem.. and start asking about drugs to help slow hair loss...

Having been a paramedic, I know this stuff happens and I'm not concerned about the hospital staff finding me wearing girly panties. I was stopped once for a traffic issue while fully dressed up. Fortunately, the cop just went through the procedure of writing me the ticket without comment on my appearance.

So...based on the responses thus far, few people go to the gym ...or read that far...and/or think a traffic accident is the most likely way others MIGHT see other people's underwear?

I think most folks know when they are going to the doctor and could plan ahead IF they were concerned?

I go to the gym fairly often in the winter and the pool in the summer. I've never had a problem with people looking at my undies. I usually wear microfiber panties in solid colors when I know I am going to be in a locker room.

I go to a pretty busy gym and am concerned that in the crowded locker room someone would notice panties. So I don't underdress when I go to the gym. Do I look carefully at others when they undress? No, but I still think I'd notice something unusual, like pink panties.

Hi,

As you know im a member of the S C A, Renaissance group.

we have 200 men & women, last year we had 250. 50 were from Austraila, I was bunked up with two women & one guy from Austraila for a week. okay us women have our own toilets & showers, in our complex some 16 women . they see what i wear from nothing on to fully dressed, even our male bunk mate i dont do any different wether im at home or away on camps, for us its just a normal day to day detail.

Yes i was very embrassed about how i looked for many years, yet in these situastions its help each other as needed, so not an issue,

Two week ends ago was no different , 32 of us, I had one of our women help me dress all i had on was knickers, no bras, cant wear them, so again no issues, I have no issues around women & i dont mind what they see, im no different in how they are body wise or i look,

My self being with the St Johns for a time & what iv had to do in regard to helping people in accidents or surgerys , i would not even see what they wear, im to busy attending to what the person needs, if i had to attend to any one here its just the same if you had pink or red knickers on id not take note of that, i have a job to do, end of, if i was asked later on id say never saw them,

Its like , oh, did you see what he was wearing he had red female knickers on, & painted nails .= me oh did he, never saw that,

must check next time what who ever is wearing, im sorry im not interested , my job is more importaint concerning the guy, not his clothes,

...noeleena...

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I would say yes! Even if you are in an accident and the EMT's or docs have to cut your clothes off. They aren't going to care. Trust me, they have seen it all and won't think a thing of it. They won't (shouldn't) even ask about it. The only thing they are concerned with is taking care of you at that point. .

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My wife and I have a friend who is an ER nurse.

This is true, but they will talk about it to others. They won't mention your name of course, but they will say "they brought in a guy last night who was in an accident and he was wearing a bra, had his toenails painted, etc."

Of course you won't know the people they are talking to and they won't know you so it really doesn't matter.

Cops, EMTs, and doctors have cross dressers amongst them. OTOH, having them all together in one place waiting for our accident to happen is wishful thinking. :daydreaming:

I wear knickers/ panties 24/7 bra except when wearing t shirts in summer. n last time i was in hospital a night nurse (male) got a shock when he realised i got a fem lacey
vest n bra when taking my blood pressure.

I have heard most medical professionals don't blink an eye at what people are wearing. I have never been out in public dressed or underdressed. I'm very comfortable just dressing at home and have no desire to go out. It is more relaxing being at home and enjoying the feeling of the clothing. Just my thing and the way I feel.

I guess you never know what's going to happen, where and when. Some of you are sooooo comfortable about wearing panties 24/7, I just wonder if you have all the bases covered. Remember the incident of Steve Lyons pulling his pants down after sliding into first base on a bunt back on July 16, 1990 before 14,000 fans at Tiger Stadium.

I was recently in an accident, and the force of it all tore up my jeans in four different places. Weird how those things happen, fortunately that day my undies were black, and not the bright pink ones. LOL No one said a thing through the entire process. It is hard to maintain any sense of anything while two others are helping you on and off of the x-ray table. Been to the doctors and specialists several times and no one has asked me to remove any acticle of clothing that would display any underclothing of any kind. I have had my pants off, but then placed hospital shorts on instead, this while the doctor was out of the room. Drats, I could have worn my bright pink undies those days. LOL As some one once said, "don't sweat the small stuff... its' all small stuff". There are do many things that are really important in life, what I wear today is not one of them. I'm still alive, that is important!

One of our friends (A T-Sister,) took a dive off the end of The porch over at Georgie's Alibi in St. Pete. (I imagine you know the place.) It broke her leg, and they had to call The Ambulance.

Over at The Hospital, the Nurses helped her to remove her clothing, and get on A Hospital Gown. Then, another friend was advised to remove The Femme Clothing. By the time The Wife gets there, no evidence! When The Mrs. asked about "His" Clothing, she was advised that The Ambulance Attendants had cut everything up with bandage scissors when they treated their patient on the scene.

Now this occurred in an area of St. Pete where lots of us kind of "inhabit." But, I would assume it's pretty typical. I work in The Medical Field, and our job is to treat, "The Whole patient, and do no harm." Avoiding Family Conflicts would normally be part of that job. If in doubt, ask them to remove your pretties! Can't imagine they wouldn't comply.

What The Cops would do during, and after an arrest. I'm not sure. (For clarification, I'm referring to an accident where you might be at fault and arrested.) But normally, if you go to jail, wouldn't you be issued An orange jumpsuit? I would think that would solve that small dilemma. Then, you concentrate on making bail!

Peace and Love, Joanie

i skipped a lot of postings here, but the emt and emg room workers do not care or have the time to care what you have on. just as long as it does come off with out a key. (they might not have it). they are far more interested in keeping you alive. stopping the leaks, etc.

and yes they have seen a quite lot, so no problem for them.

sure some times after the day is over, they might say i saw this (*) today. but no names or such said. but only talked about as a interesting thing, not as a putdown.

i had one nurse in the emg tell me she loved the style of my panties. (in a good way).
it has been a very long time that i do not put on any male undies, or pants, tops, etc. even when presenting as male.


and sadly one never knows if or when something bad is going to happen. so just be clean and have clean undies on.

loni

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I go to the pool at the local YMCA everyday to swim. I do not own mens underwear, only Victoria Secret panties - mostly pink cotton. I have clearly been seen, and never had a problem. I also have shaved underarms, and for the last three weeks, shaved legs for the first time. My panties have also been seen by doctors, nurses, hospital workers and massage therapists. Who cares....its who I am.

Jennifer

Yes, i was in a car accident, but not just 'underdressed'---fully dressed en femme. I was approaching an onramp to a highway and did not notice in time that the car in front of me had suddenly stopped. I was able to slow down some, but my car still hit the back of the other car. So there i was in a (cute!) skirt and top and heels standing out there talking to the other driver.
Fortunately, she turned out to be a very nice young lady and was friendly. We looked at the (relatively minor) damage to the back of her car and agreed on an amount that i should pay her. Luckly i had enough cash on to cover the damages; so i just paid her in cash and we went our separate ways.

I only have my femme undies and I do underdress every day for work, stockings, panties, bra. I do not worry about being discovered if the unforseen were to happen as I am into my lifestyle and I am comfortable with it. Hospital staffs are used to the unexpected and they deal with the circumstances. When i go out fully dressed, I do not think about mishaps, but if they were to happen I would just have to deal with it at the moment....Veronnie2

If I am going to be in an accident dressed so be it!

I wear panties all the time. When I go to the gym and change, the first thing I do is put on my t shirt then continue stripping and put on my gym clothes. When I get dressed the first thing I do is put on my shirt and then my panties. The shirt covers enough of the panties that you would really have to be staring at me. I have never had an incident. If I was ever in an accident, it would be awkward.

I could only imagine getting into a bad car accident and when your in the hospital they hand the cloths you were wearing at the time to the wrong person and see the look on there face when they see women panties, pantyhose and maybe a bra. Don't want to thing about it.

I was in a minor accident while fully dressed.

Driving and dressing is my absolute favorite. I don't post here much but do have good intentions to try, however I drove from Brazoria Co. to Waco this morning dressed in a black body breifer and half slip. Really didn't think or worry about a whole lot of anything except where I'd stop and change.

I wear panties 24/7. A couple years back a friend invited me to his gym as a guest to do some rock climbing. I figured that would be it, not getting sweaty requiring a shower.....Well he insisted on hitting the hot tub/ whirlpool.:eek::eek:
Shower time! Somehow I managed to change without comment, possibly noticed tho.
Have been more careful since then.

Beth

I just wrote in another thread that I was thinking about taking a 500 mile drive tomorrow en femme. This thread makes me just want to do it more. Why? The other night, just outside the subdivision where I live, the highway patrol was checking DLs. There was no way to see them until you were all over them; no where to turn around, no way to back up and, you guessed it, I was completely en femme. Another gal told me one time if I ever got pulled over to hand the officer my license and act just like I would if I were in guy mode. I did and he said, "Thank you ma'am," and motioned for me to move along.

I imagine if I'm driving and an accident occurs it will be like so many have already stated; if I have to be removed from the scene not under my own power, no one is going to give a thought to what I'm wearing. I just hope if it happens I don't get a run in my hose.

Last time I checked CDing was completely legal where I live. If I'm in a situation where my underwear is going to be exposed I will be in severe medical or legal distress and in either case CDing won't make a bit of difference to the outcome.

Ummmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm, the Q was ...isn't it likely that ONLY your SO would EVER know what kind of underwear you choose to wear?

In other words, being skeeeeeeered to wear any kind of underwear [one likes] is probably silly?

Fortunately I've never been in an accident but I was pulled over once while dressed and it scared the crap out of me. I must say he was very nice though.
I've driven from upstate NY to Florida and back a few times totally dressed and have never had a bad experience. Even while checking into hotels, getting gas etc I've not had any issues. I will admit that I'm pretty careful about using family rest rooms as well as where I stop. But the thought of an accident does make me wonder and a little nervous. But I guess if it's going to happen so be it. At least it'll give them something to talk about that day

margo

Well they do make those adult diapers for accidents and surprisingly, they kind of help with the tuck. Oh.....you mean car accidents!

I haven't had one yet. But I am not going to sweat it. If I can shop next to them in a store, I can see them in the hospital. My neighbor is a radiologist and has probably seen me in my front yard a lot. Since I know him, I would probably feel a little awkward since we haven't talked yet, but that would be about it. I would rather have my injuries taken care of and feel awkward rather than have nothing done.

I don't think it would bother me a bit. I go out dressed quite a bit now and have pretty much gotten over that fear so, if I was dressed in guy mode with panties on underneath, it wouldn't bother me if a paramedic or nurse saw them. Who knows, maybe it would even be a hot GG that might even be turned on by them and ask me for my number! :battingeyelashes:

In any case, whats the worst that could happen? You'll likely never see them again anyway.