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Do you feel more relaxed or are more willing to dress in the presence of GGs, other male crossdressers or do you feel just as comfortable with either?
For me, I prefer and feel more at ease dressing in the presence of GGs, especially the ones who help me dress and sometimes invite me to dress.
I am ok withing being dressed in the presence of my SO, though I keep it very limited, but I wouldn't be in front of others whether GG or not.
I have no problems dressing when out with other CDs or a group of GGs, there's always one or two that becomes your mother hen. I still get a little anxious around mixed groups, although when I get out there I settle down pretty quick.
Either is fine with me...as is just being out in public in general. It took some time for me to be relaxed in public, but now it's just as natural as any other situation.
Either or makes no difference.
Either is OK with me, but I am happy when GG accept me. Perhaps a bit happier when it comes to GG's.
Back when I ws single I would dress with all the other girls.
We helped with zips, dresses and makeup.
Then we all went out together.
The girls prime object was to hook me up with a boy.
They were rarely successful.
Extremely comfortable with the SO... Would LOVE to dress up with her GG friends, but she thinks it may be 'hard to explain' to most of them.. :o
No real desire to be presented as a girl in the presence of guys, as I'm really not passable..
Being 'one of the girls' has a nice ring to it..:battingeyelashes:
It's something I'd have to get used to. I have a few GG friends who know and have never seen me dressed. I could present myself to them dressed but it would be in our home. I'd be more concerned about my wife's feelings first. Other CD's I'd have no problem. My wife is 100% supportive but she also would need to adjust.
Cheryl
I find it easiest to consider people to be the gender they present so I make no great distinction between GGs and CDers. I'm comfortable with either as long as they are accepting. With strangers I'm a bit more comfortable with women than I am with men.
I've never been dressed in the presence of anyone (other than a short walk en femme through a casino on Halloween a few years ago). I'd love to dress up in someone's presence but can't see myself comfortable doing it with anyone other than a fellow CD.
I find I'm very comfortable around GG's my age. I've made friends with several who have never met my male ego.
I'm nervous around straight men, especially rednecks and cowboys, but they don't seem to pay too much attention.
I can't really offer much, as my experience is very limited. I was once caught out by my wife who did not take it very well. Personally, I feel that I would be comfortable with my wife and with other GG's who were accepting. Currently, though, my experience is really only by myself, when I am able to find the time and opportunity to dress.
Di
I have met a number of other cders off this site, but we were both in guy mode. I have been dressed in front of two gg's, who were supportive of me and helped with dressing and make up. I felt comfortable with all of them and would again if offered the opportunity.
I could dress in the presence of other. I'm quite comfortable dressing in front of my wife.:hugs:
Angie
Hi Heathr, Only around my wife although it's a DA-DT kinda thinggie.
When I dress with my SO, ( Just a skirt and stockings ) I am totally relaxed, the acceptance is a very important part of our relationship, I think. I have been seen outside like that, but briefly. it was a bit of a thrill, to be honest, but the reaction was not hostile, and that was very ...liberating? We will soon be moving, and some friends of ours will be living close. I told the male part of the couple yesterday that I dress like that sometimes, and he didn't appear to have any acceptance issues whatsoever. If they visit, They're likely to find me like that, and I think it will soon be just business as usual.
It really doesn't bother me who is around! I dress to please myself!
I was OK with dressing in front of my wife; After all, she had picked out some of
my fashion. I will miss that, as for dressing in front of someone else, I think not.
At least at this time.
Rader
I'm okay "being" dressed with anyone, but not comfortable "to dress" in the presence of anyone.
Leah
It started as a joke date that escalated. My landlady (beautician) helped me perfect my look. My "date" liked it so much that he encouraged me to go out with him as a girl from then on. I was comfortable and passed easily with either sex.
Today I'm more comfortable with groups of women, but not really uncomfortable with mixed groups. Situations are more the determining factor.
My wife is the only one that I am comfortable being around when dressed.
I'm equally comfortable being dressed with everyone Hon. They either accept me or they don't. Their choice.:)
I especially like women, and I see my CD girlfriends as women. So I get to enjoy the best of both worlds! I must say, though, that I've some of the nicest compliments from men. They can be really sweet when they're not being pushy.
I prefer being with genetic girls, but it's really no issue.
Just getting started and have had assistance from my wife on makeup and helping pick me out some clothes I'd say no to being dressed or getting dressed in front of others at this time. I do right now think that at a point in time that answer will change to craving some friend CDs with me.
Hi,
With that ? would be how many would stand in front of others talking to them say some 70 people women only & then men & women, some 60.
Now would that be nerve wracking or fun.
...noeleena...
Have only been dressed with others a very few times awhile ago. But, I need to, LOL..am tired of being almost literally "in a closet"...just not sure how to....
I have only ever been dressed in the company of an understanding woman whose company was not cheap. Amazing encounter that i shall probably repeat due to the shortage of GG's who like CDs. I was in such a fluster afterwards that i left my skirt behind. I did not make an appointment to go back for it. But that hour left an indelible and delicious memory.