How many of us use breast forms and at the end of the day wish they were the real thing I do all the time. I so wish my boobs were real and the bras I wear were required to be on all the time
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How many of us use breast forms and at the end of the day wish they were the real thing I do all the time. I so wish my boobs were real and the bras I wear were required to be on all the time
I dunno, I kind of like the fact that I can put 'em back in the drawer when I'm done. Women can't do that and I've heard many a woman complain how they get in their way at times. As far as the bra thing ,the only reason I wear them now is to have something to put the forms in. If I were a woman, I would no doubt not be able to wait to get home so I could take it off. :battingeyelashes::)
See I'm just the opposite I love it when they get in the way it truly to makes it feel more real
It's hard enough wishing I did have breasts, so I reckon if I had forms, taking them off would be hard and probably make me wish even more that I had breasts. Knowing how impractical breast would be on me, I don't need the added encouragement.
I love them to, and wish my real ones were bigger, i am a B cup naturally and would love to full C, ahhh we can dream but that is what forms are for i guess, i love wearing them as often as i can.
I would like real ones, but I don't think my wife would be happy at all. So I'll stick with forms.
I bet you are all imagining perfect perky little numbers in the prime of health.
They must get pretty tiresome when they are heavy and heading south and it's a hot sticky day.
If you want boobs that bad, why not get some implants then?
I have my own manboobs, which I further pad out a bit when I dress. Since I live 99.9% of my life as a guy, it would be a lot simpler for me to have a regular guy chest and just pad out all the way when I get dressed up.
I tend to accept reality and think of the advantages of casting them off now and then. :)
I still have a set off forms though they don't get used.... don't need to use them since I decided to grow my own.... NBE..... not for everyone but it works... you just have to experiment and be willing to live with what you get... once you have them you can't take them off....
Well I don't use breastforms (I don't do big boobs right now, so a pre-formed padded push-up bra is enough for me 9 out of 10 times) but having real boobs all the times seems a bit unpractical. It might be easier when dressing up, but I actually (happily) present as a guy most of the time. I'm not a very masculine dudebro guy, but a real pair of boobs on me probably will confuse the heck out of a lot of people and I would also have to reconsider my male wardrobe.
So no thanks.
Karen, what's NBE?
I love my forms. I hate taking them off. I don't know how to grow my own so I'll stick my D's and be happy when ever I get to wear them.
I love my forms and wish I had boobs that size but most of the time I use my natural ones in a push up bra.
After a few hours I'm more than ready to take the bra off.
I have always been a bit overdeveloped in the boob area which was a huge source of embarassment for me when I was younger. Then after I started dressing I have alternatly wish they were smaller because of how often I am guy mode and bigger because that fem side of me would really like to fill out the bra more. Now that I am older I spend a lot more time wishing they were bigger. Might get my wish if the Dr. puts on the right kind of meds for my prostate issue.
As a side note I think its sort of funny at times when the wife and are out she can't wait to get home and take her bra off and I can't wait to get home and put mine on.
Hi Jordan, Be careful what you wish for , The grass is always greener on the other side of the fence!!
Or on the other side of the gender.
I use to do forms but now I just use my natural b cup, a lot more comfy for me, but I do wish they were bigger. A nice c cup would be nice.
I often fantasize about having some small breasts, but I think if I actually had them it would be a problem.
I think I'm an anomoly here as I actually enjoy my male persona and clothes. OTOH, I would choose to be a woman if that choice could be truly XY on the cellular level. Back to your question, sometimes, I'm glad to get out of my bra; other times, not as much.
From my experience unless you don't care at all what other people think, having breasts as a guy is pointless. I'm a full A cup and find them completely useless when I'm not dressed. Society sees you as a freak/perv and GG's don't find them too attractive. Wearing a bra all day gets old fast, or a hot and clammy sports bra if you want to play sports. If I was 100% sure I would not transition I would have them removed.
Some advice from someone who's been there done that, do not get breasts unless your transitioning.
I guess i am sort of lucky. I am a 38b natural so with noogleberry massage and supplements. I have almost filled a C cup. My wife doesnt know about noogleberry or supp. Or massage but it does work. Nice thing is she is a 38c so i dont have to buy bras.
TBH, I have thought about how nice it would be to have my own set of knockers. I wear a 36 C bra with forms. I have a little bit of meat that I'm sure I could persuade to look more boob like.
The only problem that I can see is that I enjoy being able to go out without a shirt on in the summer! If I grew some boobs, that would be an issue....
So I'm happy to keep what I have and live my secret life!
I wish I could wear a bra all the time; However there are times I must be a Man,
and that means I must go bra less. I hate it, but I have to do what I have to do.
Rader
Of course I'd love to have real boobs and the attendant cleavage. I'd also like my dangly parts to disappear along with narrower shoulders and waist, and wider hips and a more shapely butt, and smaller feet, and a smaller chin, and a flatter stomach, and, and, and..................... Oh yeah, and reverse all that stuff when I want to be comfortable and hang out with the boys!
Having real breasts would make it hard to switch back and forth between my two selves. But I do like the way I look with my forms. And I think that a C-cup is just about right for me; it's enough to look "womanly" without being excessive. :)
- Amy
I love it when I glue them on and can take a shower with them on and no bra at that time they really do feel to be a part of me as I can wash them just like they belong there
took the words right out of my mouth!!!!!! I actually like the way my boobs get in the way when i am doing chores like laundry, cooking, changing bed linen etc etc!!!!!!
Molly
I have and wear a full C cup form and couldn't be any happier except I wish they were real!!!!!
Molly
Lucky You!!!!!!
Molly
I've wanted to have my own since I was little. I don't see it ever happening, and at times it does become a downer to have to take my forms off.
I finally have some breasts. HRT. They are certainly not as full as I would like, and I am thinking seriously about going for augmentation.
One might think that it would be "fun" to have boobs, but part of being trans is that (in most cases) you do not end up "playing" with them or "celebrating" them (much), or even paying all that much attention to them: instead, seeing them or feeling them gives more a sense of "rightness", that they were a body part that was formerly missing and now is not. You probably don't pay much attention to your foot, for example.
"Society" doesn't seem to say anything about my breasts; I do not get stares or "dirty looks" or remarks from strangers.
My wife does not find my breasts attractive and wants me to be flat flat, but she also nags me about my stomach and legs not being as flat as when we met more than 15 years ago... and that my face is more lined. In other words, she is disappointed that I have aged in my appearance relative to my mid-thirties and expects me to do something about it to get back to looking like I did then. I'm not supposed to have aged -- but it's okay that she has aged, "it's a natural part of life".
At least two GG's have expressed that I look good with what I have so far. Others don't appear bothered. I would say that I am on friendly terms with more GG's now than I was 15 years ago.
Difficult isn´t it. I guess I am blessed or cursed with bigger than normal male boobs which are not enough to look good en femme without enhancement, look good (like great pecs) under a tee shirt, but not a pretty site on the beach. So it´s forms, and that´s fine!
I really hate to take my bra and forms. It makes me feel naked.
Yes, I'd like mine to be real, and they would be to if I had the money for inplants
For me its my small stature, I measure 31.5" under my bust and have smallish shoulders. My breasts are not big, still are prominent on my chest. If they get any bigger I will be a B cup, I'm already over flowing my bra's as they run smaller in sizing.
GG's are usually turned off when they see my chest, a few have played with them which feels great but its rare. Must of them would just rather be with another GG if they wanted some one with breasts. They want a man or a woman, not some one stuck in limbo.
I use breastforms, got four pair in different shapes and sizes and a decent bra collection. Having them on is my favorite part of CD'ing for sure. Just feeling them there, hanging off me and moving with me is comforting on some level. I wear them a lot when I'm alone around the house, even if I don't pull out the rest of the kit. At times I do wish that they were real but those times are usually fleeting.Quote:
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How many of us use breast forms and at the end of the day wish they were the real thing I do all the time. I so wish my boobs were real and the bras I wear were required to be on all the time
As much as I enjoy both the bras and forms, I do like being able to take them off when I want to or need to. Oddly enough, I can still feel my forms on sometimes even when they are off. I heard it referred to as the 'ghost boobie' effect somewhere on these forums.
No. I like having the choice of wearing them or taking them off. A good pair of forms is enough for me.
I look at it like my male parts. I'd like to take it off when I'm dressing and put it back when in male mode.
I use size C forms, but there are many girl days when I'm just so glad to be able to take off my bra and my forms at the end of the day.
Sometimes I wish I would wake up in the morning with a pair of DDs hanging from my chest, but then I realize I could never leave the house in the daytime again. :eek:
Living life as a male, "real" breasts would cause a lot of problems. Forms work for me and the ones I have feel like part of my body after a while.
I've left the house, in broad daylight, with 40G forms, more than a few times. Especially at times of year where I have a coat or jacket that I can use to cover up if I see people staring. Individuals have not given me problems -- not even a single cat-call (at least not that I can remember at the moment.)
I did occasionally feel uncomfortable in that mode; in particular on a couple of summer days where I was in male mode and wearing something like a stretch top so that the bust shape was fairly clearly visible, while I was waiting for a bus, I got some stares from a distance from some guys who appeared to be late teens to early 20s. On the other hand, I did not get anything like that if I was wearing something more baggy such as a sweat shirt.
I do not promise that everything would go sweet and clear, naer a problem -- but at least in my area, it turned out to be a lot lot less of a problem then one might have thought. And of course, there is the matter of "owning it": once you get to the point where it is "natural" for you, then your body language will convey "there is nothing special about this, move along" and "eh? who cares, so what?"
Of course if you have to stand up in front of convention rooms full of strangers every few days, you might be tempted to wear minimizer bras. :)
My 2 cents: I like having forms. I can dress as a woman but I can also still be a man. I have a male life that I am still living. I like that I can enjoy my dressing as a woman and still be me! I still love transforming from Mr to Mrs and part of that transformation is putting on my bra then putting in my forms! !
I wear bras all the time since I have breasts that are starting to overflow my B cup bras. The great majority of time in public I present as a man, but no one has ever teased me for having breasts. About the only thing anybody has teased me about has been my deep masculine voice.
Johanna
I just wish that when they were on that they were more real with cleavage and not having to mask that they are fake. But I do love me my forms a whole bunch a lot.
I can tell you from thirty years of experience, I never get tired of them. Men never get tired of looking at them, and if you grow or buy them big enough, you can use one for a pillow and the other to cover up with.
am naturally -well with the help of estrogen - a nice large A cup. I can hide them when i have to and enhance with forms when the mood strikes. Like Jorga, i I love them and never get tired of them.
Well, after 60+ years as a male, and 50+ years as a self-acknowledged cross-dresser, my thinking is that I've invested enough energy as a male that real boobs would interfere... Particularly, I am a member of an athletic club where I swim regularly, and the rest of my time there is spent in spin classes (with tight clothes). I've tried to think about a Halloween instance of spinning in drag, but can't decide which dressing room to use (obviously, come dressed and shower afterwards at home), and can't stand the thought of destroying one of my wigs with the sweat involved. Beside that male and female cycling clothing is not all that different...
Be well,
Lee
Boobs would be nice every once in a while!
I used to enjoy the fact that I could change from girl to boy, do what i had to do in boy mode, and wash it all way.
lately I dont look forward to being the boy all that much, I love the days that i dont have to do the un-girl thing during the day, and i have really been enjoying my self adhesive breast forms a lot.
Its so nice to wear a sundress w/o a bra, or a strapless dress, and still have something to fill in the top and make that dress sparkle.
So the answer is yes, I do believe I'd enjoy having a nice B/C cup on a permanent basis. That might change tomorrow, but this summer has been great for dressing up and i love the light fashions that dont really look well with a bra.
Bobbi
I love the idea of having boobs, but that will not happen, so after vacation is over I will order my first forms.