Open ended question...What/how do you feel when you be yourself, go enfemme, guy mode? But mostly how you feel when you crossdress.
I hope you explain why :)
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Open ended question...What/how do you feel when you be yourself, go enfemme, guy mode? But mostly how you feel when you crossdress.
I hope you explain why :)
Hi Jim. I feel more relaxed mostly. I have a greater sense of calm. (when dressed) In guy mode, I guess because that is how I am dressed so much more of the time, I don't feel any special feeling. Although when dressed nicely, say in a suit or other well dressed events, I do take on a more special feeling. I like to dress well in mens clothing as well.
I feel relaxed, happy and as my wife says, it mellows me. When dressed i'm no longer the SOB I normally am.
Nervous. Paranoid, mostly. Always vigilant about getting "caught" by someone. I relax part of the time, and like to look gorgeous, and feel gorgeous in my dresses and oufits, much of the time. But, there is always that nagging fear of being outed by neighbors, or someone who knows me.
I feel like I'm connected with my inner self a bit more. There's always been that thing there and it feels good to be in touch with it. From being in touch with my inner self it makes me feel really relaxed, comfortable, and really happy with myself :)
When I go out, I still feel the same way....just a little scared about what people are thinking hehe xD Natural anxiety I suppose...
I'm very relaxed, de-stressed, happy to be dressed. I love to focus on how pretty the clothess feel. And I undergo a personality change, as vallerie mentioned. I'm much more laid back and serene.
Like several of the responses here I too feel more relaxed and calm unless I think I hear the garage door go up and the wife comes in, but being dressed is a nice feeling. I know when I'm in my exercise gear I feel I can workout harder. It's always made me feel as if I have more energy.
Of course I feel relaxed as I'm in contact with all of my feelings but I also feel empowered for the same reason from the aspect of being a full spectrum person, especially now that I've made how I present at any given time a total choice.:battingeyelashes::)
I feel good, happy, looking good and stylish (hopefully), made up, constricted and plumped up. I also have high hopes for another fun time out and wondering who I will meet tonight, friends, acquaintances or someone new.
I feel right. I feel my most happy when im dressed.
Enjoyment, I like wearing nice fem clothes, the lingerie, the silk blouses, and all the other things that go with it.
Definately feel more relaxed and comfortable with myself.
Dressing up relaxes me and makes my stress disappear. My wife says I am happier when I dress on a regular basis.
As most have answered...I just feel so at peace and calm with myself. It's like I have stopped struggling with something once I feel like a girl.
I feel more together, if that makes any sense? I care little about male clothes, they're a necessity but they don't raise the same interest or sense of belonging that my femme wardrobe does.
To quote a Shania Twain song,,,,,,, " man- I feel like a woman". Michelle
I feel no longer disgusted with myself. Hate being a boi
It feels right...
Hi Jim
, It's like the song goes " Man I Feel Like A Woman ".
I feel plumped up too, but sadly that's 100% of the time, regardless of mode!Quote:
Originally Posted by AllieSF
All kidding aside, though, When I'm dressed I simply feel "right."
I am totally comfortable in either male or female mode. That said, I feel incredible in female mode. I absolutely love the look and feel of the clothing, forms, long hair. I love going out to GNO's and just going out and hanging with friends. I really really enjoy being woman. My love for that side of me grows every day.
Inner peace I guess.
I feel like I need to lose 20 pounds
Dressing makes me feel pretty. In guy mode I never feel that way.
Yes...and I feel so right.Quote:
Originally Posted by hallie
My wife says I am a lot more relaxed when I have on my bra/panties/forms. Part of that might be because it usually coincides with my son being in bed and us finally having some quiet time. Even still I feel at ease when I have on my female stuff.
Being in guy mode is a necessity, being dressed fem is a feeling of elation.
I am relaxed and feminine, and yet a sense of shame too. :O
jim1991
Sometimes I feel the strongest need to dress. Other times I dress because it feels good to be in feminine mode.
The strongest need makes me yearn for everything feminine no matter the time or whatever the cost. Other times I can dress with such a relaxed feeling that I find a resulting happiness that it just shines through all else.
As I continue to dress more often I find these two feelings closing in on one another. My need and my enjoyment are coming together into a true feeling of my feminine self.
Julietalyse
I feel quite stress free when dressed fem, my guy mode has a lot of stress and pressure in my work life. It almost feels like I'm temporarily escaping and becoming someone else, I love that escape even if its only a few hours a week it definitely helps.
Stress free and relaxed. the wife and I usually sit on our deck and have a drink and talk. Then go in and have some fun. LOL
More comfy and complete. I guess I feel like me.
I feel incredibly calm. My male life has been quite stressful for the past few years and dressing allows me to take a holiday from that.
Like others have said, I feel right. Something inside clicks and it just feels right. Not that I have an urgent feeling of wrongness in guy mode but when in femme i feel like i'm being more honest with myself. But then sometimes I feel sad to, sad when I think about the life I could have had had I been born a girl.
I feel complete, like the last piece of the puzzle is in place.
I feel like a girl in a tight bra!
Kind of like all the others report, I'm "at home"...
Kate
I feel complete and authentic. I usually only dress when I am going out so I am always excited. I can't wait to get out in the world and be myself! I have to say I feel pretty !
Hugs
Suzanne
Collectively I think we all have the same sense of "being" as we all express mostly the same experience of dressing ..... me too ..................Debra
There is a sense of well being, elation, excitement and relaxation all at the same time. And there is a sense of letting out or connecting with my femininity.
Both relaxed and reflective, comfortable in a way that never happens as a man.
When dressed as a guy I always try to be neat with my clothing properly matched, my clothes feel loose on me and just something I have to wear to cover my body and fit into society, I really don't like guy clothes including the underwear, in other words they do nothing for my emotions.
When I dress as a gurl wheather it be partially (in drab) or all out I am very much aware of how the clothes feel on my body, I enjoy the way lingerie hugs your body, I'm turned on with the styles, cut, soft sexy fabrics and colors. I also enjoy the feel and look of outer female clothing as it's worn over this lingerie and the way it hugs and accents the curves that come with dressing female. Walking in heels, forms in your bra and wearing the clothing and acessories of a woman cause my sence of self to change to feeling like a woman. I really feel good, happy, sexy and feminine when dressed female, when dressed as a guy the feeling is bland, nothing, zero. This is part of the reason why I love crossdressing so much. It's also the new and enjoyable experiences that happen everyday, wheather it's buying new panties, dress, jeans or makeup and can't wait to try it on; or going out dressed and returning with the satisfaction of having done it. When I dress in female clothes I truely enjoy the transformation that takes place, it's like going from the desert to the Caribbean. Starting out nude after a shower and shaved every piece of female clothing I put on brings added pleasure.
Calm. Its my escape :p
When dressed I feel stress free and at peace with the world.
I am in the same change of personality boat as some of the other ladies here. I like to choose my lingerie and dress for the eve and lay all my things out on the bed then take a shower and shave all I can.
Then i dry and my transformation begins. Finalized by make up, heels and a wig. Then I feel totally encased in my girly, female suit, that I have placed myself into. I will act and take on my female persona for the remainder of my evening or day.
I love it !!!
I feel relaxed, happy
I'm always stress free.... and happy..... and calm..... that never changes with my clothes.... I do feel prettier..... and I feel like I've been poured into a mold.... that my body doesn't quite fit.......
I feel more relaxed n feel how things should have been if nature didn't make that mistake at birth.
I feel natural and normal.
I have been dressing as both male and female for a long time.
In guy mode I feel normal. When dressed I fell happy, girly, so much better than normal.