I find that when im dressed I love to watch either trans porn or bi-sexual porn and I dont know why I find this such a turn on, Are any of you girls the same way,
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I find that when im dressed I love to watch either trans porn or bi-sexual porn and I dont know why I find this such a turn on, Are any of you girls the same way,
Funnily enough it has the opposite effect on me. In guy mode I can take or leave 'normal' porn but when dressed porn of any kind does nothing for me at all, in fact I find some of it rather distasteful. Maybe I'm just getting old!
Porn is disgusting IMO.
It reduces sex to just an act with no feeling.
Why would you want to watch it is my question.
If you get off on watching two people do it then you need to check yourself.
If I had a BF and he watched porn I would be furious.
Nope. Never watched porn, never will.
I'm just like you unlike 99% of the CD forums :)
"I don't know why i find this such a turn on"
Oh that's easy, It's because it feels erotic to project yourself as the girl. It has to do with submission, submission is hot because our minds are wired to like being acted upon rather than acting upon others.
Submission is also very little work and lots of reward. Also being a man who likes the idea of being a dirty girl on her knees is very taboo, More so than just "being gay". This is because the CD community is vigilant about proving their straightness so the idea of straying from the norm on two levels creates next level excitement.
Id say more on this topic but the admins tend to not like people bringing up sexuality. We could be friends on here if you would like, I didn't think fellow perverts existed on this website.
I've seen articles both ways. This one suggests it's common and not necessarily a hindrance in a relationship.
https://www.google.com/amp/s/dailydo...ed-watch-porn/
I used to, but not anymore. Just reminds me of how far I am from where I want to be.
I think redtea's analysis is spot on.🌺
First, whatever turns you on, it's OK with me. There is nothing "sexy" about porn. Worse there is nothing "sensual" about porn. This morning my wife and I had a brief discussion about something we saw on television. I told her the Sunday newspaper color advertisements from Fred Meyer for bras and panties was way in excess of anything I ever saw in the early editions of Playboy magazine. I will confess I have bookmarked some eBay sellers of intimate apparel who are beautifully adorned in lingerie. To me that is a lot more stimulating to me than in your face private parts. One of the last issues of Newsweek magazine before it went to electronic only had an article on porn. It indicated, whether the sources were right or wrong, porn contributed to an uptick in anal sex. Duh!
I am with redtea...I love porn especially dressed. Dressing for me is sexual and yes I project into those roles. I also find trans very sexy so seeing that in porn turns me on. Different strokes for different folks...
What a turn off, I thought that this was a nice forum until now I am out of maybe for good.
Porn seems to attract 20 something males because maybe they aren't all that experienced in dealing with women in real life as far as being in a relationship.
They view a woman as nothing more that a sexual object perhaps I just don't know.
Because of one thread that talks about porn generically?Quote:
Originally Posted by Pattie
No reason to leave Pattie its an adult discussion.
If I don't like a discussion I just don't read it.
the couple times that i have seen it i dream of being the woman
I lose interest in porn when in girl-mode, or just thinking about dressing up.
:)
Being a Christian, and through two marriages for a total of 32 years, I never had any use for porn since what little I was exposed to once in a while in college. But in the last year and a half or so, I have been going to these other sights under "crossdressers" and "crossdressing" and "Flickr" to get some prints just -for-me on my b x w printer - of tastefully dressed crossdressers for a small collection just for myself. It is sometimes so amazing that some of them are men, they look so feminine and so beautiful--on some other sites, yo0u can tell that many of them are men. I have one very favorite on Flickr that has a photostream of at least 30 poses that I really like. But there are some sites that have true porn poses you have to wade thru and those I don't like. I don't like the male genitalia showing blatantly naked and especially ones with oral sex going on. In the same vein, I am not overly fond of the naked female breast but love to see cleavage where the lower part of the breast is tastefully covered like any woman would be when out in public. To me the female body ins the skimpiest of bikini underwear is more attractive than the same body totally naked---that's just the way I am and probably that is different than how a lot of other guys are Of course I always loved seducing a female into making love and enticing her to the bed, scantily clad and slowly slipping off what she has on and then we are both ----well, you kno.........
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but seeing these pictures of crossdressers, some of them very smartly dolled up in some great looking poses and great clothes is a bit of a turn-on. Invariably after looking a while I get the urge to go dressing up myself when otherwise I might not feel much like doing that at the time, suddenly wanting to after all. I haven't dressed up yet before looking at these sites but there is an idea. Also I,ve only recently seen THE ROCKY HORROR SHOW on tv for the first time and the 2nd time it showed I got it on the DVR----then I downloaded some of the lyrics also---there is a theater here that has a midnight showing of it every 3 0r 4 months and I got photos of that off a website also . first I want to watch it in femme at home---sometime later I plan to attend a showing at the theater---dressed appropriately again also
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and I do agree with some other comments made earlier in this thread---I remember when some of the colleagues I had in my early 20s 9college days0 when some guys seemed to get a real big kick out of porn---I never did. I think it demeans women and women who do porn or at least act ****ty are lowering themselves to a very degrading and demeaning place in society that will look down in sympathetically toward them. I respect the opinion of one that pointed out guys in respectable relationships with young girls and women will not have any use for porn, as I never did. I always just had the desire to have one girlfriend and be in a sincere and respectable relationship[ with her---and that's what I did. I never did have just one date-except once when it didn't go well and it wasn't the fault of either of us. Usually I ended up going fairly steadily with one girl at a time. And when I was married I was totally devoted to my wife at the time, never cheating, never even thinking about or flirting with anyone else. Indeed, it was my first wife who eventually decided she was bored with me and moved from our motel room {they were all gratus because we were playing at the club th3ere) to one of her own and then started dating the security guard of that club without me knowing about it. But when I was then a bachelor again for 2 years between marriages, I still had no thought or no use for porn, although at that time I also was not crossdressing. More on that another time wen I post some of my history.
I am far more turned on by a lady in a knee length dress, than a naked lady, and porn usually turns me off. i almost never look at it now, and seldom did much. When i was a litter picker for a highway or city, sometimes i would find a lot of porn magazines, and admit i did look through them, usually quickly. Store catalogs with womens sections were more interesting to me. I remember the late Lucille Ball saying something to the effect, that women should be more modest, and leave a little to the imagination, rather than showing almost or everything. I do not even like THONGS or skimpy bikinis!! Full cut panties and swim suits are more modest and sexy to me. Naked breasts do little for me usually , either. I like some of the breasts covered. Just me, Not quite an Amish, but like a little modesty. Porn is mostly very harmful in my opinion, cheapens women and men, and all humans. I admit, though, that some of the porno mag letter stories were more a problem for me decades ago. But, what does this 62 yr old virgin know?
Kimberly,
That comes and goes, I went through a period of watching most of the categories, the need passed on, it just helped to get me needs in balance . I personally didn't want to do that stuff so now I don't need or want to watch it.
You may end up feeling the same way , if you don't it's not a problem as long as you're not harming anyone else .
I also found a documentary made about the people associated with the porn industry was a good cure, some of those people aren't in the real World , they'll do anything for money , most of it is so fake.
I used to work for a company that made pornographic films (mostly behind the camera, I hasten to add)
Bored me senseless, but I needed the money
I can't do anything sexual while I'm dressed. Something about it feels weird. Even just looking at porn doesn't feel right. Especially when it's straight porn. I can't even watch that when I'm not dressed. Thinking about having sex with a woman or being a woman during sex makes me really uncomfortable.
Ive watched porn but not as much lately as I used too, (getting old I guess lol) anyhoo, I still find my self watching occasionally gravitate to the trans, and lesbian stuff when I do,
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Originally Posted by Tracii G
Some people would say the same thing about us men who like to dress up and pretend we are women.
Who are we to judge what someone else likes. There is nothing wrong with watching a little porn, some of it is actually funny and some of it can actually be educational, when I was younger I used to watch porn to learn new techniques to better satisfy my wife. Sex if we really want to be honest, is just an act unless you are trying to reproduce but that's just MHO
And what is wrong with you sex becoming an act with no feeling? Just because you think sex should be a special experience doesn't mean other share that view. I also don't think watching porn impacts how people view sex, it is simply a tool to make masturbation easier.Quote:
Originally Posted by Tracii G
I used to watch a bit of porn. The most I would do is look at trans stuff. It was pretty sexual for me. I must be older now as I don't do that anymore.
Rhian,
I worry about your comment sex being an act without feeling , I wonder how many criminal acts have been carried out with that premise . I feel we all have a responsibility to conduct and guide the sexual act in the right way to make an attempt to reduce the dreadful porn online and the abuse of minors.
I think many of us have been curious about sexual pornography and have watched some films. I remember when porn became mainstream in the early 1970's and couples would go to see some of the earliest films with stars like Linda Lovelace. It was all a bit of a hoot and once we had seen what it was there was no desire to go back as the plot lines are dull and dialogue non-existent and watching "rumpy-pumpy" is not interesting.
I have watched some of the transvestite films but most are boring to deadly dull and I find I only take an interest in those with no males involved, just transvestites or TS. I often wonder what a sensual film made by cross dressers for cross dressers would look like. Perhaps more focus on clothing?
Rhian you are 24 years old so you are part of that group that thinks porn is cool or "art "if you will.Quote:
Originally Posted by Rhian
Maybe you can have sex with multiple partners without actually caring about the person you are laying the pipe to.
What does that say about the girl? Most likely she lays with lots of guys and has low self esteem and several STD's.
For me I have to love the person deeply before I engage in a sexual act because I respect her or him.
If there is love between the two sex is wonderful if not its a slimy act of gratification with no meaning.
Used to enjoy a little porn at times but since I have been dressing have lost the interest. Also getting older may have something to do with it! To each his/her own. Hugs Lana Mae
To me porn is great anytime. Although I refrain from it if I have a date. I want to give him or her everything I got.
I've never been much into standard, hard core porn. Bondage and kinky stuff used to attract me when I was younger.:o
When I was married I lost interest in even kinky porn. Because for me, gratuitas sex doesn't compare to intimacy with a live woman.:hugs:
However, now that I'm single and over 70, I find kinky porn arousing again. But, NOT online, video, or photo porn. I make up my own porn. I dream up exciting nude, kinky, scenarios and Sherry happily brings them to life!:devil:
I don't agree with Tracii's sentiments regarding gratuitas sex.
However, I KNOW porn can be addicting and get in the way of relationships. I've given up dating real women because of Sherry!:brolleyes:
Like Gelding a Horse ,as you get older after 30 you lose 1% of your Testosterone every year until your sex drive,libido,aggressive, decisiveness and motivation drops .
Gelding and virtual gelding really makes for calm and non competition.
Cholesterol is needed to make testosterone.
Statins to lower it can cause erectile dysfunction.
Preop Transsexual Porn is the most profitable ever.
Why is that?
Hidden desires,fantasy,taboo, .......
When I was younger yea a little.
Now,
I if i watch it at all it is more passionate/sensual/seduction porn.
Tasteful if that is possible
I'd love to hear what you think of those who have no choice. Personally, I wouldn't know what a female looks like nude if it wasn't for porn. Nor would I truly comprehend what sex comprises of.Quote:
Originally Posted by Tracii G
You can go ahead and sit up high on your pedestal and judge me all you want, but I refuse to let your words do any damage. Because I know full well I could easily look into virtually any other random aspect of your life and make you look just as much like scum as you seem to think those who view porn are.
It honestly blows my mind that a person on the transgender spectrum would dare to stereotype and dismiss others for being different.
GBJoker,
Tracii didn't say that people watch porn are scum !
Most of us have watched porn because most of us are basically men and at some point we may have been turned on by it. The problem many of us possibly have is the damage the sites can do to our Cding if our partners see certain explicit subjects like two CDers in a sexual situation. Many of them do it for money rather than the pleasure , as many of the sites are in Eastern Europe where money has to be made where you can .
Gee whiz Joker I have no idea what your situation is and why you love porn.
What do you mean people that have no choice? Sure you do.
I never said they were scum I just don't care for porn and more into a loving relationship so please don't bash me for that.
If you like porn then by all means watch all you want.
Oh and honey I never even mentioned your name so why all defensive and hateful towards me for voicing an opinion?
I am no better than anyone else so no pedestal needed.
I am very much into TS sex with women. I don't watch a lot but it is what I like when I do
In reference to the OP specifically - perhaps this is a reflection or another expression of how some people here feel their sexual orientation changes when they dress. Without getting into the whys and wherefores of exactly why that happens, it seems consistent enough to be a 'real' phenomenon. I have no reason to doubt, then, that if one's attraction to potential partners changes, one's attraction to porn genres/types could change as well.
I'm fairly late to CDing and identified as bi long before that, so my interests in porn don't change whether I'm dressed or not.
i spend ages looking for horny videos of real sensual couples featuring a good looking well dressed crossdresser making slow erotic love to an equally well dressed beautiful woman... i'm not into full nudity, domination/ sissy stuff or anal action, just romantic classy well dressed beautiful transbian pleasure, a representation of my own life, and i find there is a very big niche yet to be filled in the erotic world! happy loved up sophisticated delight. it's virtually invisible out there! am i so strange to not find pleasure from emotional or physical pain, shame and domination , is it a reflection on the sad state of humanity?
I guess there are different kinds of porn.
The visual and the written.
Visual I love female on female 1st. Male on male holds no interest at all. Do have a somewhat fascination with amateur CD on CD. The pro online Pre TS is in a category by itself. I have chatted on-line with one as non porn, she is a person with a varied life.
I sometimes find the written porn to be much more of a draw.
Have NO interest in the submission side of it all, and no illusions of being a "Dirty Girl" on her knees.
I always love talking to people about porn. Reading through all of the comments it feels like real life conversation. Nobody admits they watch it, yet it is a multi billion dollar industry. Yup, I watch it. I do not really watch the trans stuff, but like certain women who act. Sometimes it is fun to try what they were doing. It is more of an entertainment. How else would you learn the tricks of the trade anyway?
So long as one realizes that porn is to real sex as WWF is to real fighting - a theatrical production that doesn't accurately represent what most people do in their regular life.Quote:
Originally Posted by Jessica86
I guess we change over time...once upon a time ( a distant past) I watched porn. Not anymore.
Well just goes to show how varied a community we are. Dressing for me is tied to my sexuality not that I have to have sex while dressed, but dressing produces an endorphin rush akin and intermingled with sex. I find that when I do watch porn these days, it almost always involves some form of trans or cd(mostly cd porn). And I admit, I love seeing the pictures of girls on this forum for many reasons but one is definitely attraction.
You better believe it.
I like the trans porn and study their outfits and hair and nails.
And I like the other stuff they do when they are on their knees.
Really a major turn-on for me
No one admits watching it ,how come there is so much out there. I watch porn, CD on CD is my favorite ,next to female on female and i enjoy it .
I dont feel any shame about it. I like porn, especially if it is linked to crossdressing. At least for me, the sexual component in my dressing is huge.
Most men's testosterone is low and low T means a low libido.
These new meds out there and foods can zap T to a all time low.
Your body fat composition can go up with dangerous Visceral fat and go unnoticed because you can be skinny but with lower muscle tone and less lean muscle mass.
Statins,blood pressure meds,depression meds......
You will not like porn much if at all with low T.
Other reasons why your T is low
http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/...ter-s-Syndrome
I am like the OP.I enjoy watching porn. TG or CD, F on F even some Bi. I think what I enjoy most is the outfits, Lingerie. of the performers. Even in main stream magazines like Playboy. I find it sexy and wish I could find out where it was purchased from. Very rarely would I have luck finding something I saw in a movie or in print.
Kymmie
I watch porn and find it to be very stimulating. At my age the sex drive does diminish so any help I can get does my well. The porn that I enjoy watching is lesbian, cd and regular porn. There have been times when I watch the unfolding "story line" I become attached to the actors and want to do the same thing(s). sometimes I want to be the "giver" and other times the "taker".
Mollyanne