I've been outside quite a bit, but I've been limited to go to library, parks, groceries stores and shopping. Anything else you guys like to do outside in the day?
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I've been outside quite a bit, but I've been limited to go to library, parks, groceries stores and shopping. Anything else you guys like to do outside in the day?
When i used to go out, I often went to a university and walked around a lot.
Go anywhere I want to go and do normal things I do everyday.
All dressed up and no where to go as the say... How about going out to eat, for a drink, see a show?
I mean these days having a special event to attend is no longer necessary, I dress and go about my day.
On Sundays I volunteer at a local makerspace as the shop host. This has really helped me as it is a safe space I am can interact with people. Doing anything from showing someone how to use a band saw, advising someone on an project, to giving tours and talking to people who come in to see what it's all about.
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Originally Posted by Robertacd
That's true. I guess that's when I become totally comfortable with every aspect of being a girl.
The ultimate goal would be to hang out with girls and just do our girly things.
Unfortunately, I only look like a girl and may pass acting like a girl. I still need to work on speaking like a girl :(
I've been to bars, done pub trivia, did DJ work, visited museums, restaurants, record stores, clothing stores (duh), stores that sell musical instruments, supermarkets, and more.
I have yet to attend a concert. Looking forward to it. Playing a gig dressed would be fun too.
Every aspect of being a girl? That can only happen if you are one.
library, art gallery, museum, hardware shops, movies, shopping centres, grocery store, beach, touring, gym, pools
I usually only get out during the day. When I do, I typically go shopping or a park. I have been thinking about a trip to the zoo or other places. I also was thinking of going for a hike on a trail sometime.
Mostly shopping and lunch. I plan on doing more but on my own schedule. I don't particularly like bars.
Angela, I have only been out in the daytime once, I am usually a nighttime girl. However, my one foray during daylight hours was a walk in the city.
A shopping mall, a park and the tourist section of the city. The important thing is to act like you have a purpose. Just as you would if you were a woman.
I go everywhere so far with my breastform on, last weekend I went to see Cats in a Theatre, I dont dress like a Lady I only wear some clothing, mostly under my Male clothing, these Days I wear a Brassiere almost everyday everywhere everytime, I am at work wearing Panties and a Brassiere didn't use the breastform at work, now I have a chance to wear what I want so I take advantage of it.
Karena,
As others have already said just do the normal things GG's do. If looking for things to "Challenge" yourself with have you used public transport, trains, buses, planes? There are a good many posts about having a makeover in store which is a bit of a rite of passage for some.
As for speaking like a girl, not many of us master that. Just speak a little softer and make sure to make eye contact.
This always seems to be the question for me as well.
Here's where I've been:
1. clothes shopping
2. grocery store
3. Dr's office to pick up something
4. Apple store
5. Local tax office during Halloween to pick up new license plates
6. Gas station/drives
7. restaurants
8. crossdresser support meetings - (that was a long, long time ago)
9. Beauty shop to get a makeover (long time ago)
Now that begs the question what else do I do:
1. mountain bike - I wear women's shorts (the ones I wear are much shorter) and tops, but they can be unisex to a degree
2. go to church - not comfortable sharing this aspect of myself there
3. work - to some degree I can here. My boss and co-workers know, but I'm in DADT with my wife, and I know she wouldn't approve
4. vacation/travel - DADT spoils the show again
6. hang out with friends - I haven't come out to my circle of regular friends (see #2 about church)
7. car repair
8. hardware store - i'm usually all dirty when I go there
9. golf - it's too hot in Texas to do that with a wig on
Possible outings - a photography session (either studio or outdoors)
Karenawong,
As I'm full time I guess I go to the same places as I would as a guy .
When out dressed, I go out anywhere I want and it's so much fun.
For some strange reason I'm always drawn towards casino's... :heehee:
I remember when I crossdressing I love to go shopping for shoes and of course all the attire, then I could get an icecream and seat to see the people.
Roberta has a great idea: volunteer. For ways to volunteer and encouragement to get started, read Kandi?s website. http://kandis328772669.wordpress.com/ . To go beyond, read Rhonda?s website. http://www.rhondasescape.com/ .
Roberta & Abby, glad you brought up volunteering.
My SO volunteered at a heart association, an art gallery, and a cancer support center (all at different times). The organizations were very supportive and appreciated the help. My SO thought it was more fun than wandering the mall.
I love to go walk around the mall
During the daytime I like to go to the places that are closed at night.
On a whim, I did go to the mall yesterday. Only a couple of selfies though, no good photos.
I go shopping at the malls near here, and most anywhere else. I have gone further afield, up to Phoenix a few times, out to restaurants with some pals there. Been for walks in parks, been out to the desert to take pictures. Up to Sedona and Flagstaff for hikes and photo taking.Bookstores, strolls downtown, all kinds of places. If you don't dress too silly, and try to look like you belong, (which you do), you should be fine :)
I go to the mall WAY too much. I'm ashamed even thinking about it! Thankfully, I don't have the spending habit I used to and I'm mainly just walking around.
I generally just run whatever errands I have to run.
Thrift stores and the mall are typical destinations. Work (98% of the time I work from home) including walks on my lunch breaks. I wear skirts for trail running group runs but otherwise male appearance. Stuff around the lawn (mow the lawn, play catch with my boys, sit on the porch and work, etc). Errands out of the town (since my wife doesn't want me dressing in our town which is weird why she is ok with me dressing in our yard).
One thing I'd like to do is check into a hotel enfemme. I know it's not a biggie for some but it'd be something new and different for me.
Helen, I will be doing that in a couple weeks, it will also be my first brewfest en-femme. Due to the time I will have to check into the hotel in whatever I wear to the brewfest.
Roberta,
I await your report with great interest! Seriously, It's one of those things GG's do without any issues so why shouldn't we? Along with checking in there is of course the matter of evening dining and partaking of breakfast. Not so much I feel an issue for the hotel staff as more to do with other guests. My opinion, to hell with 'em if they have a problem.