I had no idea I could feel so good at work.
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I had no idea I could feel so good at work.
I remember my first time so well. You opened a new adventure. For me there was no turning back. Been doing it for years. Curious..what did you wear?
Matching bra panties and stocking. Things that normally piss me off are no big deal.
Congrats.
Underdressing when it's a thrill is great.
Even better when it's routine.
Turquoise, That's great. I can't remember the last time I didn't wear panties to work.
Just about everyday I wear Panty and a Bra to work
Now that you started and enjoyed it you will be another one of us that goes 24/7
I love thinking about what panties I am wearing during the day.
Turquoise, Excellent! It sure takes the edge off going into work! My first time was panties and as Jamie mentioned it becomes a habit. I look forward to it each day!
Congratulations on taking this step. I always enjoy underdressing. Wear panties all the time and occasionally bras.
Turquoise,
Good for you. It's a step so many have taken.
Word of caution with bras. There can sometimes be telltale signs to others as if you observe GG's, bras can show lines under other clothing. Just be comfortable and prepared in yourself for any remarks you might receive.
Done it in panties and tights/ pantyhose. Very practical and warm in the cold weather. As well as thrilling.
Vague memory that when I first began wearing panties to work that I was distracted by them. I could not stop thinking about them. Now, of course, I feel quite strange if I am not wearing panties because I have worn them every day for about 35 years. 🙂👠Nancy
Congrats. You have been bitten by a really good bug. For many the calming effect can be intense. You have pleased that part of your identity that defines at least a big portion of your sense of self and the calming effect kind of surrounds you like a warm blanket on a cold day. You may notice that when you are not dressed with some kind of thing that identifies you either just to yourself or to others you get to feeling like something is not quite right. That is quite mild gender dysphoria and you will drift back into being a bit uncomfortable and will likely be a little irritated by some things. Pay close attention to those signs as they will provide you with clues about the finer points of your identity. Welcome.
Very exciting nothing like the first time at work. I was just trying to decide myself do I wear purple or pink panties to the gym this morning. Enjoy your new thrill!
I've only been wearing women's panties and stockings all the time for a few years now. I don't even remember what it's like to wear underpants anymore.
I was well retired before I started CDing; but, I can imagine how great it would have been to wear panties and stockings to work every day. Congratulations on taking this important step in enjoying your more feminine side for years to come.
Congratulations on taking the step. I've done it a few times to work and yes nothing can bother you those days.
Most days: panties to work. Occasionally bra and tights or pantyhose in cooler weather.
I?ve been doing this more and more lately. I?ve gone to work with panties, slight spritz of perfume, ladies deodorant. Lately I?ve been curling my eye lashes just for that extra touch of femininity. It?s lovely to look in the mirror and see the tiny wisps swooping upward. It really brightens up my eyes and overall mood!
I work in the office 3 days each week. Each of those days I wear panties, bra and enhancers. Now that winter is approaching, I'll start adding pantyhose again.
I need to find a new garter belt/suspender so I can wear stockings. The one I have is hook and eye closure, and it's just too big around. My hips aren't wider than my waist, so the belt slides down.
Hi Turquoise, welcome to the Forum and the underdressing club! I only underdressed at work once, a long time ago, a pair of my wife's pink silk panties. They felt great but unfortunately I was so nervous about being discovered (I have no idea how??) that I couldn't fully enjoy the feeling. I'm glad you were able to enjoy it! Fast forward to about a year ago, and I started underdressing almost every day and totally enjoying it - just feels so comfy and right. I'm retired now, so nothing to worry about!
I wore a bra to work one day. I was annoying. I never did it again.
I have undressed years and decades. Winter is here so tights under stretch jeans and a full shoulder cami on top. Panties of course. A cotton leotard under button up shirt and shorts in summer is very comfy and breathes well. I did wear matte tan tights with shorts once to a like minded club for a meet and greet. That was so wonderful. Have seriously thought I try that again just shopping at have a prepare response if asked about them. I would just say I have bad scaring.
I've only worn panties since I was a teenager, so that never felt like underdresssing. About 15 years ago I went through a phase where I wore a bra all day, every day, to work and everywhere else for a year and a half. I don't know why I stopped. I started with sports bras and soon transitioned to whatever struck my fancy. Usually soft cups or bralettes at work, but other than work all bets were off. I thought I was pretty aware of when my bra was visible and when it wasn't. Work was most often a polo shirt and a soft cup bra. I could not see it in the mirror (or maybe I was just fooling myself). Sometimes (not at work) I knew it was visible, and that was intentional. I didn't wear forms and I usually stayed away from thicker padding and formed cups. It wasn't until I was going through divorce that I found out that everybody knew I wore a bra. Nobody ever said anything to me about it, but they did say things to my wife. I wish I hadn't done it. That was a year and a half of crazy that I wish I could take back. It certainly made my "just a crossdresser" argument less convincing.
Years ago I underdressed in pantyhose at work. Felt good, but too distracting. Years later underdressed in panties, but were the wrong style and were actually uncomfortable. Haven't tried since.
Its wonderfully naughty too isnt it. A bit of a thrill. Always puts a smile on my face. One female co workers asked me if i had been working out as my 42A bra make my chest a bit bigger.
I guess I'm a bit backwards to everyone here. I've never worn panties to work, but did start wearing sports bras to work about a year and a half ago. I stop for a couple months in the summer when it's hotter than blazes. When I first started I was worried about the straps and band showing, but really doesn't bother me at all anymore. A couple months ago I had a computer issue and had to get on my hands and knees working under my workstation and our receptionist / IT gal was right above me waiting for me to pull the tower out. I did worry a bit about it, but we get along great and she hasn't acted any differently. They always say most people aren't paying attention and maybe they don't??
Underdressing is so much fun. Good for you. I used to underdress a lot when going to college. Always fun knowing the outline of my bra straps could be seen through my shirts or sweaters.
It has been decades since my first time but I do remember my corset was laced way too tight and my stockings kept falling down. No one could see my bras since we wore sports coats in the office back then. Was super great for hiding things. Even after casual became a thing I still wore a sports coat.
I don't see how that could be possible unless you were wearing breast forms and let's face it, we don't wear those because we want to look athletic.Quote:
Originally Posted by Brianne_bc
I'd love to find panties that would make my butt look bigger, though. No such magic garment. :(
Retired for the past few years. During my 45+ years career. I spent the last 3 underdressing at work ~85% of the time. Always panties. Frequently a bra and small forms, with a camisole over that under my shirt, tie, and suit jacket. That really focused my mind on work, and also kept me keenly aware of what I am and what I wished I was. Now always wearing something from my femme wardrobe.
I also recall from my undergraduate days almost always wearing panties, bra stuffed with some rice in a couple of sections of knotted pantyhose, with a back zippered turtleneck leotard over that, then a shit or sweater over that. The turtleneck was to reinforce self control, making it nearly impossible to remove the rice forms quickly or discretely. Never any comments from others.
YMMD
Best, Rhonda
Once you get used to wearing a panties and a bra every day, it starts to feel weird not wearing them.
I started doing it everyday during the first months of Covid and haven?t stopped. Errands, going into the office, everything. They?re just my clothes. And I love that it feels that way.
I have VS pushup bras that provide one or two cups of enhancement up top.
But, I yet to wear one to work!
Marion
The first time I went out underdressed just wearing panties under my jeans to a local grocery store I was certain that there were X-ray machines checking to see if I was wearing the underwear of the opposite gender. I eventually realized that there were no x ray machines checking for males wearing panties.
I don't wear men's underwear anymore so you could say I underdress everyday. I wear women's leggings as long underwear but one day I decided to wear pantyhose instead but it was to distracting and I couldn't concentrate. It just felt so good to feel the pantyhose against my pants.
I am the same, just feels normal and comfortable.
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I remember my first time I wore a bra allday for work , it was quite distracting and I could feel the outline shaping my b cup moobs. It was slightly too tight and left imprints on my chest. Lovely feeling of relief when taking it off though and seeing a more rounded and pert shape to them in the mirror. Moving forwards I am totally comfortable all the time and can hardly feel the bra as its the correct size . My posture has improved too . I feel naked with out a bra on nowadays and continue to wear daily . Always looking for more feminine improvement when it comes off .
Started with panties years ago, I think the only time I wear men?s is when I have an early morning skin cancer check up.
I only started wearing Bras occasionally since Covid if I?m wearing a loose polo as I have known my workmates for a very long time so a hug or some form of touching was not uncommon, but it?s fairly taboo in the office now so I love wearing a bra.
I have been wearing panties 24/7 for over 9 years now. I feel it is a good way to stay connected to my feminine side plus I just plain love it. I really never thought it could happen
Whoa, that's crazy! :eek:Quote:
Originally Posted by Rhonda Jean
What a memory that can never be taken away from you, anyway? :D
Kinda hot in weird way, yeah? :o Something I'm surprised I hadn't done! :laughing:Quote:
Originally Posted by Rhonda Darling
Oh, they're all over the place, hon... You just need to know where to look! :confused2:Quote:
Originally Posted by Lacey New
In all seriousness, when I used to professionally identify as an office-bitch ( :heehee: ), there would be days where I'd wear panties & tights under my guy-pants during the colder months. As long as any sound when walking was pretty acceptable (test at home first), then I was good to go! Always wonder if any GG's were doing the same that day? Or maybe any other *guys*?? :eek:
There was also one Sunday when I went in to office. Knew for a fact that very few would be in the building with me. And I'd have my area/dept to myself. So, nude hose on shaved legs, women's shorts, running shoes, men's t-shirt. I looked cute, nice choice of outfit for the day. Visible women's clothing, yet not exactly over the top, either.
Everything went well, had my privacy... Except when it came time to leave for the day! End up walking face-to-face toward another guy down a sunlit hall, no turning back. He worked in another part of the building, and I didn't know him. As we get closer & closer, I see him pretty much *staring* at my legs. Okay, whatever. We both get to the exit door just about the same time. I offer him to go first. No, no, no... He insists I go first. So, I do.
And by this time, I realize just how the strong, bright sunlight is catching my pantyhose through all the glass! Yikes, LOL!! It then dawns on me that he's no doubt checking out my femmy shimmery legs from behind, ugh! Which is why he insisted I go ahead of him? Ah, well... I don't mind. They are nice legs, ha! Hope he enjoyed! :wave2:
Underdress 99 percent of the time. I started crossdressing with pantyhose as a child, 47 years later I underdress in panties and pantyhose. I have two drawers full of feminine hosiery and panties. This morning wearing my black nightshirt, light pink skimp skamp panties and wolford neon 40 tights.
I have worn panties for years and don't even own men's underwear any longer. Don't really miss them either, doctors visits are interesting but no negative, heart rate may be up a bit because of it ;) Added bras into the mix about 10 years ago and only did unlined for about 5 years. Finally just said screw it one day and I wear pushups, lined and unlined all through the week. It is who I am and it took me awhile to accept it, now I just don't care what others may think
Last summer I got rid of my male underwear, except for one emergency pair, and started wearing panties full-time. But I would never risk wearing a bra at work. It seems too easy for someone to notice.
Ellbee,
Perhaps more "crazy" was that at the time it didn't even seem very daring or crazy at all. My nipples were sore (though they didn't hurt as bad as I let on to my wife. I was just trying to justify wearing a bra), I could pass the pencil test and was legitimately an "A" cup and thought I could justify "needing" a bra. I'm not going to deny that it was often exciting as hell to do, but a lot of it was kind of a resolve that that's where I was in life. Hard to explain, but at the time it was a whole lot less thrilling than it sounds like it would be.