Not sure if this has been determined before. but the title asks. For me id say a blend of str8/bi. Keeps my mind wondering.
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Not sure if this has been determined before. but the title asks. For me id say a blend of str8/bi. Keeps my mind wondering.
80/20 str/bi here
I am 100% heterosexual (straight).
It seems to me you are either straight or you are otherwise. 80% straight puzzles me a bit. Is it slightly curvy?
As Andrew Dice Clay said, ...... uh, never mind.
Average ordinary straight guy here!
Straight, I have never even imagined myself with a man. “Not that there is anything wrong with that.”
As far as relationships and sexual acts go, completely straight. The biggest catch is that the idea of crossdressing is arousing, and it certainly has to do with blurred gender lines. But as far as anything in the field, I've been hit on by guys (lookers and otherwise) and it sparks nothing in my old noggin nor below the belt line. Contrast that to that one pan girl who was a pretty heavy flirt with yours's truly in a skirt and 6-inch heels (perhaps I should have perused her a bit more) who definitely got my motors running.
You can make up whatever name you want to call it. I like people. If I like you we'll figure the rest out.
I am straight. I can also find a well dressed CD with a lovely presentation attractive.
I'm straight. If I wanted something other than women, I wouldn't have gotten married.
Totally Str8 as Male. Dressed as CD, still like women, don't know how to call at that time.
I have always been in the straight line. But I must say, I seem to be getting bi-curious. I am not cruising the gay club scene, but given the right moment, ???? Hugs, Meg
I'm a straight male despite my appearance and attire.
John
I questioned and believed I was Bi many years ago, but this wasn't a "I'm dressed so I like men now" situation.
It was something that was pushed on me, because my (Now Ex) wife said that I must be gay for some of my bedroom preferences that she refused to partake in.
Her manipulation led me to believe I must be gay since I enjoy those things, when I should have actually been saying "Yes I enjoy these things... but only with a woman"
I don't find men, or male parts attractive. I don't emotionally fancy any men.
I?d say bi, with a sprinkling of other. Being aroused by crossdressing always led to wanting to look sexy in a female way. Which is arousing to look at from a male view:)
Which goes into me wanting to arouse a man with my appearance but also I see other beautiful crossdressers and get aroused partially from the sexy feminine appearance but also because I know how it feels to be wearing all of the pretty attire! Long road! But that?s where my feelings land:)
Definely straight.
After 45 years of marriage not looking to change.
Str8. Always plagued with the question: Do I want to be them, or be with them???
Straight
100% bi when we're talking about the physical side. Though never had an emotional connection with a guy, so long term relationships have always been with women.
As (male name), straight.
As Sara it's a bit more complicated. I'd have to say "lesbian with maybe a small dash of straight-curious," but I guess I'll never really know.
Kind of on the fence I think.
I have the equipment and sometimes I feel curious but I have never been attracted to men as such.
I am pansexual, however feminine looking folks primarily pleases my eye.
Emotionally straight physically bi. I have been married over 30 years and I am totally invested emotionally with my wife. I cant see myself doing that with a man. I am physically attracted to her but also attracted to the male body especially if naked. 😉
Totally Bi, I love women and all that goes with it, but I also enjoy the intimate company of men as long as i can be the girlfriend.
I have lived a very straight life and I find myself getting more curious about exploring with other cd's and being the submissive partner to a confident man. Not sure how I would actually act on those impulses if at all but I do think about them.
Straight guy here. Just like dressing up and feeling girly
Well, In the past I had 1 sexual encounter with a man. I cannot count or remember the number of sexual encounters with women. I always told my wife that I must e a lesbian because I love women. I love the way they look, walk, smell. But I cannot really get my male brain around how most women think and communicate. So, I am a male from Mars. But I like to doll up and behave like a woman when I can.
I am thinking that I like new experiences and I do not care where they come from. Life is great. Heading to Ireland this Sunday for 2 weeks. This will also be a great new experience for me. By the way, All drab.
No doubt am bisexual but without any relationships
I would have to say that pan sexual most adequately describes how I view myself sexually. As gender fluid as I am, I have found that the same freedom that I enjoy from a gender perspective extends to my sexual preference evolution as well. Our gender expression largely exists on a continuum as many of us gals know and I am no different.
Now that I am a single empty nester who is able to dress freely at home, I have found myself presenting as a woman almost 100% of the time. From a gender perspective, it's how I feel most authentic. I really enjoy my feminine self and it has proven to be a very genuine expression of who I am. It's been a long time coming.
Many years ago I might have considered myself to be bisexual but that more or less presumes that there are only two genders and I certainly know different, at least from my perspective. For many years now, my sexual interests have evolved into the non binary arena and I now know that is where I feel most comfortable and authentic.
A feminine presentation has always appealed to me whether it's myself or my partner and it's what this gal definitely prefers.
A Holy Grail I realize!
No interest in bi/gay encounter or relationship. Because of the stereotypical notions of the time, I was deeply conflicted in my youth. I could not reconcile my interest in cross dressing with my lack of interest in males.
Str8. But l too was confused with my passion for womens clothes , my love of women , but no attraction to male?s whatsoever
Totally straight. Never a thought about anything else. I just enjoy the comfort and looks of female clothing especially hose. Even though it?s improved, at least around here, the general idea is that all cders are bi or gay, of which some are, and that?s fine, but don?t categorize all of us.
I'm straight, although there was the one time at a Halloween party when multiple guys grabbed my boobs, one put his hand high on my thigh, and several cupped my butt. It gets a little confusing.
On the other hand, I feel awful for the amount of blatant sexual assaults woman go through with drunken men.
I am totally straight.
I regard myself as str8t, with one point of confusion. Suppose I was dressed up and looking pretty and was with another CDr also looking pretty and a kiss should happen. The male in me is regarding it as kissing an attractive woman, not a guy. Still str8t, right?
I'm attracted to women. So as a guy, straight; as a girl, Lesbian. But I'm also attracted to good looking women who are really men is disguise.
Crazy post!:eek:
How can someone be 80% straight and 20% bi? What does that even mean!?:tongueout
That's part of the Definition of a Cross-Dresser-- A Straight man who wears woman clothing for various reasons. (The noun) That bi, gays, and trans folks might also occasionally cross-Dress (The Verb) does not change that. That's why the old term "Transvestite" was invented, to differentiate the straight CDer. Dropping the latter term because it could be "offensive", has only increased the CONFUSION in the general public, and other groups of men who cross dress. The Wife (Below) is a typical example who associated Cross dressing with "GAY", as lots of people erroneously do, even though the "dynamic' is entirely different.
Monogamous straight male. Not sexually interested in men at all and only sexually attracted to the woman with whom I'm totally committed and invested. Women, in general, get my attention and I appreciate universal feminine beauty. But, sex without that commitment seems too problematic to even consider for me.
I'm sorta right there, Geena. Str8t and hetero but Carla is a submissive troublesome tart at times.Quote:
Originally Posted by Geena75
I'm straight. A straight girl :)
I?m more attracted to men but I don?t say no to a pretty woman.
Hello,
I should say I'm queer at least:)
I think I would treat the other CDr as a fellow man, no different than if he was wearing men's clothing. And no, the kiss would not happen.Quote:
Originally Posted by Geena75
John
It's called denial.Quote:
Originally Posted by docrobbysherry
I'm attracted to women and have only had sexual encounters with women. I also find that there are some really beautiful transwomen and crossdressers that I find attractive, but, have never had any sexual encounters with any, but, would not rule it out in the future.
I don't find men attractive at all, but, when in girl mode I do find the idea of men been attracted to me or been the girlfriend or wife of a strong dominant man really hot, but, that's just fantasy or girl me seeking validation. While I don't see myself ever having a relationship with a man, if I were in girl mode and a guy started flirting with me I don't know how I'd react, it's quite possible I might get carried away in the moment and go further.
I've also fantasised about being the wife or girlfriend to a woman, which, is much more likely to happen if only in a role-playing scenario! I suppose overall I consider myself to be straight with a bi element!
I call myself a straight lesbian :battingeyelashes:Quote:
Originally Posted by siva
About the "80% straight and 20% bi" stance: some call it "bi-curious". Someone mainly heterosexual especially in his/her practices, but feeling something like an inclination towards other possibilities, without any real experience of it. That can be denial, but that can also be lack of an environment where these experiences are possible, fear of judgement, a rigid education, even an unconscious repression of a latent tendency...These are complex psychological matters.
I'd say straight, only attracted to women. But, there is something about being dressed up like a girl, and the obvious conclusion that men might find you attractive, that muddies the waters a bit.
I would have to say bi curious. I have absolutely no interest in men, but an attractive CD does get my motor running. Of course, being in a long term monogamous relationship, I would never act on such impulses.
A few people have commented on this, so I will add my thoughts. These are only for you to decide. Because only you know what's going on in your brain during that moment.Quote:
Originally Posted by Geena75
Depending on the other person, they may still look like a man dressed as a woman or they may cross the bounds of creating the illusion they are not. This could allow your mind to wander and imagine another woman. In many instances, this is not remotely possible. Then there's also the possibility of wanting to take it further or just the fantasy of such and how you think of that fantasy and what you might do, taking it further. It's your thoughts about the moment that matter more than just the physical clothing.