Fetishes! C'mon, admit it! This, or these items blow your hair back!

Maria's post made me wonder how many of u will admit to what clothing items really turn u on and/or excite u?:o
Remember to keep comments clean!:straightface:

Obviously panties and bras r at the top of the list judging by the countless posts about them here.:heehee:
I chuckle when I read that u have to have matching sets which no one ever sees!:devil:

I expect Maria's nylons, etc., girdles and breast forms r rite up there?:thumbsup:

But, what of the myriad of other women's things? What unusual item(s) turn your crank?:straightface:

My #1 turn on is seeing a pretty woman in my mirror that looks nothing like me!:daydreaming:

But, what about u other's with unusual fetishes? Fess up!:battingeyelashes:

I'll admit it It is a fetish for sure Although I am not really sure of the definition of a fetish. Its definitely a turn on, It doesn't all end in sex. But often it does. For me certainly a bra and hips, (padding) But most importantly to me is Makeup that is when I really transition and see that gorgeous woman (LOL) looking back at me. When I am out shopping or a bar anywhere there a mirrors it is always surprising and fun when I see my reflection. Who is that beautiful woman in the mirror Ya gotta love it

Extreme heels, tight laced corsets anything made of latex. Those would count as fetish to me. The rest is just kinda normal.

Girdles, long-line bras, slips. All retro stuff. Not sure if it counts as a fetish. Don't find modern undies a turn-on.

From day one, long ago, for me, it?s been nylon stockings, pantyhose or thigh highs, #1,2,&3. Panties are a close second as are bras. In looking back, I?ve enjoyed every step and love trying new things. While I wore bras, it was no big deal, until fairly recently. I now really love underwire bras and wear one most of the time, sometimes with forms, sometimes without. Especially love the front clasp underwires.

What do you mean, no one sees matching bras and panties. Don?t I count. If it was just things other people see, that would take a most of the fun out of it. Garter belts, girdles, slips, all off the table. Who sees those? Just the wearer of course. Panties showing through your pantyhose panty? Delightful. Guess most of us are somewhere on that fetish spectrum.

Well Doc you know my turn on with the pantyhose but in 2nd place would have to be slips, slips and more slips. I love seeing the little things, the little rose on the bra, and nice flowery pattern panties. I don't know where to stop I could go on forever.

I agree with Sherry, I have said that for Years about seeing the Pretty Woman in the Mirror smiling back at Me,

Admittedly it is girdles. I would love to be lost in the Rago warehouse.

Well I guess it would have to be boots. I love them. Even tho, I don't need any more boots, I will buy a pair if I like them. I just bought another pair last night.
I love seeing them on women, I will stop dead in my tracks if I see a woman wearing boots and just watch them, as they walk or sit there and dangle their foot, sitting cross legged.

I can not say there is any one thing that takes the cake, but I have to admit, ever since I discovered corsets, my clubbing attire has often included my hip pads and one of my 3 corsets as they are pretty awesome. In itself a corset does not do that much for me in the way of excitement but when added to all the other transformative items, they are definitely icing on the cake. I have not had any major discomfort from wearing mine like you have mentioned before so maybe I am just not trying to over do it. I get a nice 4 inch waist reduction.

I used to get really excited when wearing lingerie like attire to a dance club, but after years of doing so, the excitement has kind of worn off. Now, I really only wear certain items because it is what I like to wear. I dress for attention true enough. Fortunately there are some who seem to admire the fact that someone can be comfortable enough in their own skin to go out dressed as I do. Every time I have questioned myself as to what the heck am I doing, someone, usually female, gives me reinforcement that keeps me coming back for more. I kind of miss the thrill I was able to attain in the past but don?t get me wrong , it?s still fun.

Sandi

Most definitely stockings, garter belt and nylon panties

I agree with OP 1,000,000% with you that I love seeing a beautiful girl looking back at me in the mirror, I look down and see my breast forms and know that?s the best part to help me feel like my true self.

For me everything starts from high heeled shoes, mules, pumps, whatever... I can watch female feet and legs (including mine :)), bare or in nylons, preferable with painted toes for hours. I am totally addicted to that. No hope to resist.

It's always been hold up stockings.
They've excited me in a way nothing else has since I was a teen. And they're the reason why that for such a long time I was able convince myself that dressing was "just a sex thing" and nothing more than that.

Wearing 2 pairs of silky nylon briefs along with a garter belt and stockings and bra with a lacy silky nylon camisole.

Well it's an impossible question, as I need the full package. But for me, number one is an OBG. I just love them with a pretty pair of stockings. Number two would be a floral midi dress in white and pink. Very specific I know! This is definitely a fetish for me.

Ok, I’ll admit it. Lace panties and thigh high fishnets, black, of course, get my motor running.

No fetishes here. Hold on, I'll ask AI to review any images, videos or histories on my computer for fetishes.
Do y'all smell smoke? I swear I smell something burning! Alexa! Silence that damn smoke detector!
ALEXA! Call 911!

Garter belt and stockings for me.

Amen, Traci (#6)! I am a collector of vintage full slips. I've mentioned numerous times that wonderful visual image of Elizabeth Taylor reclining in her white slip in "Cat On A Hot Tin Roof." I believe a lacy black full slip with black panty and bra and hosiery is a turn on. From the advertisements in magazine of the period I get the impression there was some mystique involved in undressing; Sort of opening a pretty package on Christmas morning. I cannot imagine a woman taking off her dress and revealing a white full slip with a black bra and vivid red panty has the same effect as cited all black. Sure, if you're going to do a run to Wal-Mart in jeans it does not matter if the things do not match. I have several full slips that have a lacy white bodice and black shirt. I can only assume those slips were made for women who would be servers in a restaurant or just wear a white blouse and black/navy skirt. I cannot image a woman would wear a black bra under a white blouse and white slip. I remember looking forward to the seasonal day wear hitting the racks at the department store: slips (half and full) with matching bra and panty. At Christmas there were reds; Valentine's Day, reds and pinks; Easter, pastels (yellow, green, light blue, etc); fall, darker colors: greens, browns, navy, etc. While, we are on the subject: Where did all the beautiful nightgowns go in the department stores? You have to search on-line for the limited number of maker labels. Sigh!

For me it's snow-white bras!

They have to have deep supportive bands with 3 or 4 hook deep clasps. I love a full underwire, and the cups must be soft, lacy and unpadded (36D or DD now, so I don't need any volume help).

It's great fun to wear a sheer top and check my rear presentation in two mirrors. The band must be low on my back and horizontal. The bra straps must be properly positioned on my shoulders, with the clasp buckles perfectly tightened & balanced.

I need a bra all the time and when under-dressed (forced to most of the time), it's teasingly difficult to hide my sissy bumps & support straps. Women often intimate that they have detected a bra, but I think the perfect presentation of quality lingerie impresses them!

Most women wear the most unattractive old bras, with riding up rear bands, slipped straps, sagging boobs and unprotected nipples. I aim at higher standards!

The only problem is that white bras go grey very quickly, and styles change, so regular study of lingerie catalogues is essential. Thankfully with my band size & bust, I am right in the sweet spot of bra marketing.

Dancing while dressed is such fun. I enjoy dancing whatever I am wearing. But fully en- fem it's such a feeling of freedom. Cyd Charisse is a total inspiration for me. Oh to be as beautiful driven and talented as she.

By definition, a fetish is: "a form of sexual desire in which gratification is strongly linked to a particular object or activity or a part of the body other than the sexual organs"

Based on that, I honestly don't believe I have anything in my CDing life that qualifies as a fetish. Nothing about it turns me on. What any part of it, or the totality of it, does for me is make me feel relaxed, comfortable, softened, and a milder form of my being. Yes, I am one who likes panties and bras to match as much as possible. Red panties go with red bras and they both go with red nighties. Blue panties, blue bras, and blue nighties all go together. But, I don't believe that to be a fetish so much as a fashion statement. What I enjoy most of all is when I do the makeup routine (light makeup) and realize this 79 year old "lady" has infinitely fewer wrinkles and crow's feet that most 65 year old women. It makes me feel good about myself. In drab mode, I do have brown age spots on my upper cheeks that disappear under concealer when Heather appears.

Pantyhose

Heather, so there's nothing that turns u on any more? Is that because of your age?:sad:

I'm asking because I'm older than u and there r still things that turn my crank!:devil:

Full cut nylon briefs from Vanity Fair or Shadowline.

Wearing a black genuine leather mini skirt.

I haven't worn a slip or any kind in years but I use to love them I'll have to get back to them, literally . I do remember well the Liz Taylor photo in a slip and it was a turn on.

Silky nightgowns.

There are items that set pulses racing but not mind blowing. With me the end result is much more than the sum of the individual items.

For me it?s a pretty bra. Second thing I have never worn one but a blue jean skirt. I love to see a woman in a blue jean skirt

Not really a fetish for me anymore.
I dress because that is how I feel most comfortable.
I dress to feel more relaxed and to give my mind a break.
The way I dress is more a sense of self.
I look in the mirror and the person I see when dressed is how my mind thinks it is supposed to look.

Not really a fetish or a hobby, Just the way life should be.

I was just thinking that for so many people to say there is nothing sexual involved, then why do we see so many pictures of lingerie or boudoir like photos and skirts hiked up to show off garters and other underwear. Let?s just say my wife never took photos of herself doing that. No criticism at all, just pointing at some conflicting info, so I see the point in the original post. It might be subliminal but perhaps more going on in our brains than we are aware of.

Sandi

When I read posts that say nothing about dressing turns them on anymore, Sandi?

I feel sad!:sad:

You know I was re reading your post and I have to agree that I also get excited when I look in the mirror once finished dressing. However, in my case it is knowing that I am getting ready to go out in public looking that way that really floats my boat so to speak ; ). Knowing others will see me is exciting in itself. It is not for everyone. That is fine, but it can be quite a rush.

Sandi

High Heels and Shiny Tights. They get my motor rrrrunnning. The other "fetishes" are not very PG 13....lol

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Originally Posted by docrobbysherry

When I read posts that say nothing about dressing turns them on anymore, Sandi?

I feel sad!:sad:

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Why Doc? When it comes to turn on's they happen far more for me when not dressed. For sure that can happen when I'm dressed too, but being dressed is mostly not the reason. Being dressed just happens to coincide with the event. Long and the short. Being relaxed and being myself is certainly connected to being turned on, whatever I am wearing.

I'll admit it!. It IS a turn on. My big thing is Makeup, especially Lipstick, Breasts second, and The effect of seeing "NOT ME" in the mirror. I suppose, upon analysis, elements of the brain strive to maintain the normal "ME persona" but produce a "disconnect" and a "High" when one's normal image of self is BROKEN. So I am essentially an ESCAPIST type of CDer. I CD to take a "vacation" of sorts away from "myself"--- if even for a few hours. Not only do enjoy the Quasi erotic "High", but all the concerns and worries of the normal ME "drop away" and relieve my stresses and allow me to completely relax.
We must keep in mind that that there are several KINDS of CDers here. Some have gender issues and see their Dressed selves as their "Real ME". While others have simple erotic fetishes. I have even known of some who have an S/M (humiliation) HIGH thing going on and other "motivators", like risk taking and taboo breaking that also generate "highs". --- Some types are more open and "vocal" than others, especially the "Its the Real Me" types, so that can sort of give us a false impression of the proportions of the different types represented here. Still others are drifting in a pink fog, and do not know what is going on--only just it feels good. --- But as they say, "whatever floats yer boat". ;)

I can truly say that wearing a nylon baby doll with nylon rumba panties to bed light my candle every time. Cheeky panties are also something I like wearing.

Interesting thread. I'll answer it a few ways

1) dressing is something I have to do , I have tried not too and that was not a good thing
2) My clothing fetishes are nylon and satin, but panties are my #1, I gave up my guy underwear 5 years ago and even thought changing at the gym is hard it is worth it.
3) my sexual related fetishes involve being feminine , and being prone I think. I guess I like to give up control and enjoy the fun.

For me, it was always stockings or pantyhose. I just loved hose of all kinds. In my younger days hose was quite a turn on. I loved wearing hose, but all I needed was to see a lady in hose and that triggered my senses. As I aged, it all changed. I just love wearing a bra. The feeling of my breasts encased in a bra is very much my #1 fetish. It is quite crazy in all, as I was always a leg and thigh man. I was never drawn to a woman's bosom. I have been working to increase my bust size, and now fill a C cup quite easily. The jiggle when I walk is mind blowing for me.

Thanks for calling me out, Jane. What I really meant was when NOTHING turns u on anymore it's sad. Because to me sex is a big part of life!:o

Marina, thanks for your varied comments. I, too, am a dresser who goes to extremes to NOT see any part of my male self in the mirror. Even a male finger ruins the image for me!:doh:

For me it would have to be one piece swimsuits. Yes panties, obviously but the caress of pressure one gets all over is comforting and strangely reassuring.
Material obviously plays a part. Lined, soft and supportive. loved those Japanese ones from the 80's vibrant colours and beautiful cuts.
Non lace bodysuits, stretchy, shiny,slightly padded in the body.
Thank you all for the interesting read.

The mirror. I love seeing the woman looking back at me.

I'm with Paulette.

A nice set of traditional babydoll pajamas with full briefs will fan my fame every time.

Lacy PJs

It's pantyhose and lace top stockings for me. Nothing beats a great pair of legs.

Any kind of a long skirt or dress gets me going every single time. I don't know why but I'm attracted to the traditional, classical feminine look.

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Originally Posted by Paulette

I can truly say that wearing a nylon baby doll with nylon rumba panties to bed light my candle every time. Cheeky panties are also something I like wearing.

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Me too. I love watching old movies to catch a glimpse of a pretty woman in her baby doll night gown. A really low budget and very bad movie that has a lot of baby doll nighties is Monster's Crash The Pajama Party https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x2P8v-vM0B0

Karen, how did I miss such a quality movie? Of course the shots of those babydolls are fantastic. Reminds me of the ones I loved to view in the catalogs of the 60?s.