Would you become a female if you could?

This question may have been asked before, but I can't find it! The scenario is that money is not an object (yes, I know it really would be but forget it for now!) and your wife/S.O. either approves or you don't care about her opinion!

So, how many of you really want to be a woman? I have the opinon that most crossdressers really just want to dress! We dress for many different reasons. Sexual, fun, etc. Personally, I dress because I like the fit, feel, and look of feminine clothes!! Both under and outer! I have been doing it for so long, over 60 years, that it feels very natural to wear female things.

At one point in my life, after my wife passed away, I seriously considered becoming totally female, with surgery and all. However, my dear sweet GGF talked me out of that and other things I was considering! Thank heaven she did. I am now very happy to be a crossdressing man!

Hope I don't offend anyone by asking this!

Sissy/Stephanie

Girl on the outside, but man underneath!

I would do it right now, if I could.

No man here, never was, never will be.

I don't really want to be a woman I just want to look like one.

No. I can be a "man" or a "woman" now depending on the context. I'm already complete.:battingeyelashes:

A GG that looked like Robert, no way!

A GG that looked like Sherry, MAYBE way!

If I could change in a blink without going thru the incredible process of transitioning. Of course!

:battingeyelashes:

If money were not the issue and I was totally single, married now, and without family I would definitely go for the surgery. I find myself thinking and feeling more like a woman every day.I would love to meet Mr Right and be Mrs Right for him. To me I feel like my life was a mistake, should have been born a woman:eek:

Love,
Robyn

I would like to be very feminine lesbien woman.

Some days - yes. Some days - no. So maybe - I think that it would be cool to be able to switch back and forth between the two- genetically. Dressing up is a pretty cool alternative to just being a boy.. :battingeyelashes:

it would be nice if I could just switch back and forward or maybe experience being a woman for a day but for me, I wouldnt want to change full time

I would. What holds me back is family commitments and the need to pay the mortgage. If I went ahead I would probably loose my job (my company 'restructures' problem people out of the system) and would unlikely to be able to get another high paying position.

I answered "Yes, if wife/S.O. approved!".

There is no way that I would want to become a woman (hormones, SRS, FFS etc) if it meant that my wife Marla didn't love me anymore. I guess all this really means is that I'm not TS. I always assume that being TS means you absolutely KNOW you are a woman trapped inside a mans' body and you have an uncontrollable desire to be the woman you were always supposed to be.

My desire to be a woman (if money was no object) is not just based upon my desire to be a woman (I know that sentence sounds weird) .... it's about your ultimate happiness and I know I can't be happy if Marla didn't love me. And before you ask .. how do I know she won't be cool with it? .... believe me we have had many, many alcohol soaked and stone cold sober late nights discussing this very topic!

With no obsticals. YES ! And I wouldn't care what kind of physical pain it took.

Yes

I think if money and all was no object I'd be a woman in an instant. But definitely a lesbian woman

Yes I would, I often thought that when I was much youger around the 20s area I should have done something about it. But I fell in Love around 24 and married at 25 with a Most wonderful woman and Love and still love her and miss her, as she has passed in 2001 and she left me with two wonderful daughters one who is married and she does not know about me and my youngest who soon will be 18 who knows and Thinks that it is awesome to not only know but she has become my daughter of Joann. Now at 59 and the 60 mark approaching in August on the 30th. I just enjoy being the Lady that I was born to be. :battingeyelashes::heehee::love:Joann0830

I just like the look girls have mostly so i really don't know if i really want to be a woman. I put maybe b/c i'm not sure what i would do.

yes i would

Not sure yet, but in a years time - who knows?

I've grown to accept that although I feel I am female my life is with my wife and our daughter. I cannot ruin two other lives for the sake of mine so for now I remain quietly unhappy that I can't be myself all the time.

My other point is that I have led a male life for so long the older I get the more difficult I think it might be to transition if the time came.

I was about to vote "NO", but when I thought about it, I wouldn't mind. There are so many proviso's to that, however. I would like to be younger, prettier, shapelier etc., etc. The "craving" if thats the word, to simply change my sex now, at the age of 62 has no interest for me at all. It would be fun to have a "girl suit" though.

if money wasnt the aspect, then i have to look at my ersonal life, my friends, and family. seeing as i am not very close with any of them any more, because i am dressing more and more, avoiding all relations with those closest to me, id have to say yes. id go through with the therapy, and surgery. the more i research, the more i like the ffs and femme treatment that is being developed and offered these days. bottom line, im only happy when i think im a girl, and dreaming of being a female is what keeps me alive each and every day. i just hope im able to achieve my dream someday.

I voted no, only because I don't believe you can "become" a female by throwing money on the table. That is, with money you can change your appearance to look like a female, but you can't change what's inside your head.

For those that feel they are already female (such as a pre-op TS), changing their body is a question of adapting their external look to their inner-self, and therefore they are not becoming a female either, as they are already female, just with the wrong bodily features.

Of course, there are also those who feel more male, or mixed-gender, and have SRS to change their body to look female. They are not becoming female either, because they don't have a balanced mind and body view of a female (nothing wrong with that, by the way).

Had you asked the question, "Would you have preferred to be born female?" I would have answered a resounding yes! That is, my crossdressing is related to the fact that I love female clothing, makeup, jewelry and so on, not forgetting the beauty of the female form, and I would have loved to be able to experience what it is like to be a real girl.

For me it's no.I love being a man,i also love to be able to have the choice to dress and makeup and have the best of both worlds.

Nikki

All the way, maybe. The womans body is so wonderful. But I still like the little guy below the belt. Dont know if I could give him up.

No - I would not change. I am happy to be a man - and be able, for sheer sexual pleasure - to wear panties, bra, girdles and hose - in private.

the thought of being a woman and having all the right parts has crossed my mind. A few times I even wished I was born a woman a time or too If I never Knew my wife I may have done it. :hugs:
Angie

I voted yes, because the premise of the question is that there would be no strings attached. No transition, no repercussions, no family hassles....just me, only a woman. I'd be fine with that. In fact, I'd like that a lot. But if the question were worded so that it only meant "would you become a woman and go through all that crap you have to go through to get there", the answer would be (and is) a resounding NO.

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Originally Posted by sissystephanie

This question may have been asked before, but I can't find it! The scenario is that money is not an object (yes, I know it really would be but forget it for now!) and your wife/S.O. either approves or you don't care about her opinion!

So, how many of you really want to be a woman? I have the opinon that most crossdressers really just want to dress! We dress for many different reasons. Sexual, fun, etc. Personally, I dress because I like the fit, feel, and look of feminine clothes!! Both under and outer! I have been doing it for so long, over 60 years, that it feels very natural to wear female things.

At one point in my life, after my wife passed away, I seriously considered becoming totally female, with surgery and all. However, my dear sweet GGF talked me out of that and other things I was considering! Thank heaven she did. I am now very happy to be a crossdressing man!

Hope I don't offend anyone by asking this!

Sissy/Stephanie

Girl on the outside, but man underneath!

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:2c: yes and no every once in while in my fantasize i wish that i found a genie in a bottle and i had three wishes 1st one of couser would be money the 2nd the body and age of the woman of my choice and 3rd that no one would know the diffrents. but one of the thing i like about crossdressing is the danger that some one will find out and that my wife isn't bi so i'm more to the no then the yes but if there were diffrent circumstance then i would do it

No,

I love being a man, but occasionally like to wear a skirt or a bit of make-up.

I posted maybe as I would not wish to become a female permanently.

I ticked yes but then thought I am a woman it's just the body thats wrong

Sometimes there,s nothing i want more than to be a woman, but other times i,m just happy being a crossdressing guy.

I wish i had a remote, so i could switch between gender when ever i want in a blink of an eye. But i'm happy how my situation is right now :-)

No! I like being male :^P I do envy women their clothes though...( sigh..)
x

[SIZE=3]I don't know if the link below will work for everyone. It's a link to a Luann comic in the Calgary Herald. It basically captures my opinion on the idea of being a woman: It's not just makeup and fashion. Women have to put up with a lot of crap.[/SIZE]

I've been 'between' all my life and cant say what its like to be a "MAN" since I've never fit that bill either. Actually what I'd like is to be either one but that alone without all this stuff to satisfy both sets.

lesbian only, with in a heart beat

Even with the no strings attached switch I still had to vote "maybe". There are so many freedoms men enjoy that women don't BUT...There are so many freedoms a woman enjoys that a man doesn't...Oh hell, decisions, decisions, decisions.

Yes yes yes yes yes!!!!

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Originally Posted by Andrea_991

I think if money and all was no object I'd be a woman in an instant. But definitely a lesbian woman

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money or not i am a full time woman be it a lesbian woman

Only God or a miracle can make me a 100% real woman, otherwise no money in the world through SRS will do it for me. So I resign myself to a guy's life.

No I would not want to go through the pain of having a sex change. Besides as a guy I love getting all dressed up as a woman. I would love to live as a woman someday but never would I want to have a sex change!

A sex change? No. BUT...if I lived in a fantasy world where :

I could be 100% fully female AND live my exact life (the way it is right now) with all the same friends, and family. My life would not be negatively affected in any way. The only difference being that now I am female and everyone treats me as though I have always been one. (Which is not the same as being born female in the first place, because had I been born female, I would have grown to be a different person... I would want to be me, who I am now, except female.)

Then, yes.

Otherwise,.. no.

I would in a heartbeat. I fantasized about it for a long time but never had the courage to go ahead because of family. When I'm dressed as a woman I feel much more complete and comfortable than when dressed as a man.

Since I've just embarked on the process, the answer is yes in an instant (I wish). I've wanted a vagina and breasts since I was 11, the clothes are just the expression of femininity. I am sure the pain will be worth it, I know of no others I've talked to who have regretted it (and they don't all look like a dream).

Janet Nicola

No. No regrets; I don't want to have been anyone else.

Sophia

Oh gosh yes. I wish I could be a complete woman tomorrow and forever!

No, I am satisfied with the way things are now.I love being a man and being able to ocassionally look like a woman.

THink about it. If we were women, we wouldn't be cders. As for me I'm straight. Just wearing the clothes is exhillerating.