surprise e-mail from SO

Wow did I ever get a surprise from my SO, she sent an e-mail to my sandra michelle account and what she suggested was the best. She wants to spice up our sex life and wants Sandra to be herself. Her actual words were that Sandra should get all dressed up and basically have her way with her, no holds barred. Looks like we will be exploring some new horizons, she wants to try to get used to Sandra being around more often at home since she knows how much it means to me. The compramise is that Sandra has to give up some of her excursions out on her own which is fine with this girl since I really enjoy her company more than anything else. She also suggested that we should do all our shopping from here on out together since my style needs a little help.
Oh what a li9fe and what a woman I have.

Just delighted for you. Enjoy to the fullest. O, and don't forget to breath :)

Sounds wonderful. Just 'go with the flow'.

That's so wonderful! You lucky girl!!!

Just be mindful of the Pink Fog and don't forget to take care of her, too. An SO like that doesn't come along every day.

Now you send her a response that asks what she would most like to see ;)

Make her a part of the whole process.

very cool news!

Zarabeth

WOW, does she have a sister? (lol) If i were to find an SO like that, I sure would hold on to her!!:battingeyelashes:

I agree with Zarabeth, and make sure you do something for her to show how much you love & appreciate her for the support/acceptance.......I know I would, if I were lucky enough to be in your situation. :daydreaming:

Yes she has a sister, it's Sandra Michelle when she lets me get away with it. As for her side of it I already suggested to her what she should be wearing when this goes down. We are not new to this, we do have several matching outfits . When we go shopping it will be in full sandra mode and she will wear a wig to disguise her as much as possible, she's done it before but was never really all that comfortable with it, it now seems like she is going to run with it and try to accept it more.

That is about the most plesant surprise that any of us girls could ever get
JoAnne Wheeler

Thats fantastic.your SO is the bomb.I like the cool way she told you also.

wow - what a cool chick you have - give her a hug from me

mitch

Was it your birthday??? or your anniversary??? Or just your lucky day??? Have a great time. AIM.

That's friggin' awesome!!!

We can all dream! Be sure to report back the PG parts!

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Originally Posted by StacyCD

We can all dream! Be sure to report back the PG parts!

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not PG... close to R, but not quite NC-17 or X....we need details!

You lucky b...h! :tongueout I'll keep my fingers crossed that it's going to be a grrreeeaaat experience for both of you - guess you already know what a wonderful partner you've got there...! :battingeyelashes:

Wow! Take good care of her. I like the suggestions about doing something very nice just for her.

After a wonderful day/evening a dinner-out would top the whole affair.....and let her know how special she is.....
Alice

Been there. Done that. Do that. I know you'll enjoy it.:daydreaming:

Congrats! I'm jealous.

I hate you.. really! HAHAHAHAHA!
CONGRATS!

Great for you and your wonderful wife. I hope that the two of you find perfect balance and sheer joy not only in sharing your CDing, but in everything else!

I understand your comment where you said you love being with her above all others, and will have no trouble curtailing going out without her. I feel the same way. (I'm still waiting for my SO to come to a point where she is willing to do this)...

*hugs*

(( she and I have a couple of matching outifts too, but we don't get to wear them much ))

I think you've really got to cherish this woman .
If you're planning a girly night in , if it were me I'd have a surprise bunch of flowers waiting , a box of chocs and some wine perhaps to share. Imagine the warm fun you can start the evening with , teasingly choosing the ones you prefer , sipping the wine and settling into each others company .. flirting with each other...make it special. Between you both with openess and understanding , gentle support and love things can only go from strength to strength . Be prepared to discover a side of youre marriage that will awaken you in ways ( and leave you utterly shattered but satisfied) that can build a very very strong bond of desire , love and total trust .
You're about to embark on a journey of discovery together , and I wish you all the luck in the world and a big congratulations to you both ......now go party !
:daydreaming:
shelly x

Wow!!!!!!!!!!!

How delightful and truly fortunate. An accepting spouse with whom you can enjoy and share this is a treasure to cherish!

Don't do it! It's got to be some kind of trick! :-)

You might want to plan a shopping trip for the both of you, and yes, you pay for it all....BJ

Good for you Sandra, have a great time together:thumbsup:

Go buy yourself a lotto ticket right now, girl - because you are one lucky little b*!

That's hot.

That's wonderful! She sounds like a very special lady!

You are soooooo lucky to have a nice SO like that. Enjoy. :battingeyelashes: