I need advice about dating a crossdresser.
Hello! I'm new to the forum, obviously. I was reading a few threads and learned soooo much from them.
Anyway, I came here because I met this wonderful guy who is a crossdresser. I knew it since the beginning and felt ok with it, in fact I found it interestingly odd that I was ok with it. I have to be honest though, I do not find it sexually arousing. But I don't mind him dressing in front of me and wearing girls underwear all the time when we go out. I'm still getting used to it, because it is new to me. He is Bi, as am I.
The thing is, if things get better with us, we might start officially dating. So I wanted to know from those of you who are in relationships, what can I expect. I'm a little nervous because it is all so new. How is it different from a 'normal' relationship?
thanks so much!!!!
Good relationships are all the same, normally.
>>The thing is, if things get better with us, we might start officially dating. So I wanted to know from those of you who are in relationships, what can I expect. I'm a little nervous because it is all so new. How is it different from a 'normal' relationship?
It's different in the obvious ways from the social norm - which is a statistic, not an actual relationship or couple.
Every relationship has stuff. You're has dual bi-sexuality and crossdressing. That seems normal enough so far or you'd be doing something else.
You may note some problems later about having too much on your plates and needing to "cut back and settle down."
That's pretty much normal for everybody. Do it when it feels right and works well with the life you'd both like to have.
That's normal and it's good for you, long term.
However, take your time. You've got plenty and it may take several times to get things right.
Normal, normal, normal...
Good luck.