Thinking about going out the first time????
The question often gets asked here about going out the first time.
From my own personnal experiance, once you start thinking about going out, it is only a matter of time until you do.
Before my first time out I'd spent ages umming and ahhing as to whether I should go out. I read all the "out and about" threads on here and wished I could get out there too. I came on here and asked for advice on getting out, I was encouraged to "try it you'll never look back" as many said.
It gnawed and gnawed at me like an itch that needed scratching until one day I just decided "sod it, what's to lose!!".......I went out, was as nervous as hell, but thoroughly enjoyed it.
It was quite a while before I went out again, but the memories were good ones that I often thought about and eventually [with the help of Sheila, my SO] I started going out again, regularly.
I still get nervous on occasions, I still get the butterflies before going out quite often, but I still go out and over time my confidence is growing more!
So to those thinking about going out I say......Try it, you may love it, or you may hate it, but until you go, you'll never know!!
Good luck, have fun, but most of all, Enjoy it :)
Thinking about going out the first time????
that's very well said. and its good advice, my self once i started going out I never wanted to stop, i aan doing it most every day now and loveing it,