This!!!!! Thank you Reine!! This sadly is the case all to often in life when it comes to advice people give on any topic. Friends, Family, people with similar situations do so with the purest of intention but most of the time the advice is bad and only clouds the person(s) in needs judgement. In the end, this is between Sierra and Mrs. G and at this point from following this thread, I tend to feel it may be hurting them more then helping. They have a therapist now but giving updates together how things are going in here seems to be making things worse.
As much as I hope for the best for the both of them, I hope this thread falls by the way side so they can do the work they need to together and keep things private with themselves or with people they feel they can trust on here via PM's :)