Originally Posted by
Jamiegirl1
I was in your situation about ten years ago,I told my wife I am a crossdresser,at first she was ok with it,then she told me to move out,my kids were about seven and ten at the time,I wasn't going to leave my kids.I agreed to go to counseling,she wouldn't go,said I was the one with the problem and had better quit dressing,I went to a counselor (shrink),he said I cannot change the way I am or how I feel,I told my wife I quit dressing....of course I couldn't,just did it away from home,I shaved my legs a couple of years ago,told her I just couldn't stand the hair,she has gotten used to it ,then told her last year I am still dressing and that I can never quit,it is who I am,and that I will not and cannot change.....she is now ok with it as long as she never sees me dressed,so I still dress away from home,but atleast she knows....so if she finds my clothes in my pickup,she will not be shocked........I doubt that she will ever totally accept my dressing but I will find out in a couple of years when I retire,and will be home most of the time....I am going to dress in front of her,she will either accept it or we will go our separate ways.........atleast I have been there for my kids........good luck!