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The last couple of times that I've had my bags of feminine stuff out, when I had to put it away I hugged the bags and said "I love you, Nicole."
Is that weird?
Does anyone else talk to their female things?
Not a conversation, just something simple and small.
I really miss dressing up.
I don't necessarily talk to my clothing but I do enjoy reorganizing my collection of too many skirts.
So cute that is the reason we are all here and have fun doing it also!
Nicole, I miss dressing all theme due to family living in my house. However, I have never had that response.
I don't think that is weird. We are all different and our needs, our ways of satisfying that need vary all over the place. I don't do it, but I think it and the step from thinking it and saying it is a small one. Now, when you hear your clothes talking back to you I think you might need some professional help. Each to his or her own.
So I was talking with my breast forms, and do you want to know what they said about my earrings?... nothing! They can't talk.
Ha! Yeah, that would be a problem.
In a way it was comforting to say those words though. Feeling acceptance and warmth knowing that I'm ok with that part of me.
I don't talk to my feminine stuff.
Whatever it takes for you to cope.
Not weird at all, kinda sweet and sad. I remember when I had to put the girl away and I would basically do the same thing. I often felt like I was saying goodbye to a dear friend, it hurt just as much.
Well, all my “stuff” is female gendered, and sometimes I’ll talk about it anthropomorphically (Oh look at this eyeshadow! She’s fierce!) but I don’t really talk TO it. The once exception is if I’m making something, but then it’s usually just “you b*****d!” When something goes wrong. P
I don't find anything weird about this lifestyle.
Nicole,
Talking to your female items beats talking to yourself ! I wouldn't say it's weird but I prefer talking to my dog at least I get a response , I love to see her tail wag !
Outer clothes, no. Lingerie, sometimes.
No, I talk to myself but not my clothing. I'd worry it mite start talking back!:heehee:
As for your header? I often make love to my fem self!:o
I love my feminine side but rarely talk to my clothes. If that is what makes you happy and content - Enjoy
I don?t think it?s weird at all or to show some appreciation of things that make you happy. I don?t recall verbalizing, but sometimes when I look in the mirror, I smile, shrug my shoulders, thinking ?you look nice?. Having nice feelings is always good.
I don't think that there is a feminine self. That's our real self but years of learning since little to be a man created a habit, a lie that we learn to believe is the reality but is not, so you're no crazy talking to the feminine objects because those are the only real in your life.
Devi
I don?t talk to my clothes. I do often refer to myself as Vicki when I talk to myself... yeah I do that.... like the other day I was practicing a new song on my guitar and I dropped my phone and the first ring out of my mouth was ?that?s how you break your fu**ing phone Vicki?.
But I did tell my new jacket that ?I love you? simply because it?s so cute!
I just love dressing up in femine attire what a feeling
Sounds a bit Shari Lewis to me.