You're correct, Joni. At least, in MY case!
"How many threads have we had here where TGs have said that nothing can compare with the sexual gratification derived over the CDing, not even being with a partner? This does describe a paraphilia, which is defined as a sexual arousal to objects or situations that, if severe enough, may prevent or hinder one's ability to give and receive reciprocal human love ... in other words, someone who cannot have a healthy sexual relationship with a partner because the partner cannot compare to the sexual thrill derived from the CDing. Whether this should be classified as a mental illness is beside the point, really, when the issue is more about mending relationships that have deteriorated because of the AGP"
Medical terms aside, this is a SERIOUS problem for me! And I SUSPECT for many others here!
My physical attraction for Sherry has, and is, affecting my performance/desire when I'm with real GGs!:thumbsdn:
If I was MARRIED, I'd feel VERY SORRY for my SO! :sad:
As I am for married CDs and their partners, who have this issue!:straightface:
And, Stephenie, in my instance, there's NOTHING homosexual about my activities with Sherry. No, "jerking off", or ANY OTHER VISIBLE SIGN that I'm male! I find ANYTHING visibly male to be a turn off!:brolleyes:
Sherry's ALL WOMAN, after all!:battingeyelashes: