Originally Posted by
MarinaTwelve200
Yes, the joy of felling "pretty" is certainly a big actor. One of the BIG "bonuses" , as my PRIMARY motive is to take a vacation AWAY from myself and maleness. (even if it is just a few hours). This allows me to De-Stress and completely relax and unwind-- effectively becoming "another person", entirely, free from my personal worries and obligations and also the obligations and duties of just being a man. But knowing I am "pretty" is an EXTRA benefit I enjoy and get pleasure from along with an erotic component, both of these being my initial motivating factors, before discovering the ESCAPE/RELAXING benefits. They still are with me and are the icing on the cake.