is crossdressing to you a need or a past time. for me it's just a past time it just feels to good when i dress
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is crossdressing to you a need or a past time. for me it's just a past time it just feels to good when i dress
For me it's a need, I get really depressed if I can't do it.
I doubt there have been many days in the last few years when I havn't poped into a skirt, at the least.
Rachael. ;)
Well. Where to start? I guess that for me, it is a passtime. But i feel that I need it. But some times the need can be so overwhelming! I just NEED to be again. The longest that I have stayed dressed was 1 week. That was so good to live as Melissa for that long! In saying that though, I usually do dress for a couple of days at a time. Its been nearly 2 weeks now, and I'm starting to feel the need to get back that feeling again! :)
.....Melissa............
Dressing for me is really a need. I feel empty and lost when I can't do it.
GypsyKaren
For me, its a real need.
I just don't feel right within myself if i can't fulfil the need to dress at times.
I suspect this is one of the reasons why my relationship failed. I pretty much abstained for 9 years, but i did start wearing pantyhose for reasons which my wife accepted at the time, so i was able to wear them (and eventually cotton panties) to curb my desires for a longtime.
But, i also needed to wear dresses and heels and makeup and .....
You know, the 'need' was there all the time. No way is XDR a past time for me!
Christine
I just have urges that are not settled in me till I dress as a female. I don't know why I am like this. It's just magic like when it rains or that the sky is blue and other things. It just is!
Always when I have not been in Femme for a while I get so moody. Again I don't know why. It just is!
So for my side, 100% for dressing En Femme. As much as possible. LOL
I believe people are nicer when dressed and not so cranky. *smile
Me? Am I like that? Like yeah! I am. LOL:)
Anyway, Love to you all.
Haley:)
For me, it is a REAL need. If I'm out of sorts, it really calms me down and more relaxed. Also for other medical reasons, it is infinitely more comfortable to wear dresses or skirts. It helps a lot in providing at least a little relief from a chronic pelvic pain problem (caused by an incompetent M.D., no less.....). Life would be quite more tolerable if I were able to dress most all of time & be out doing normal daily things dressed.
I used to think it was a pass time, but the wife said if I don't get to dress, atleast partly, I get very grouchy. So I guess it's a need for me also. I know it makes me feel relaxed, when I dress.
I also used to think that it was a pastime. Although it seems like that pastime is almost all the time now. That is not necessarily a bad thing. I feel way more comfortable dressed.
I have been dressing for nearly 40 years, off and on but ultimatley finding more and more it has to be on. Am including femme pieces more regularly into my outfits. I am accepting that this is who I am and have learned to be very ok with that.
tiff
For me any more it is a real need if I don't get to wear at least panties on a daily basis I am a real SOB to live with I know I tried and it ain't gonna fly that way every day I have to have it. ;) :rolleyes:
It is a need, a must, and a have to. With out it there is no me and I can not function. Dress daily for atleast a few hours. If not I get really grumpy and depressed.
Kisses, April
a way of life
Well maybe for right now it is still just a past time. But that does not disclude that it is still very important to me. It is just also that it is kind of very hard to be able to dress like i would truly liie to do which would be a lot more of the time. Heck hey i have even been one of those who has considered changeing my sex and i still think this is a very strong urge and option I think it would still be very much better to be a real gg or as close as i could ever get to it short of being reincarnated again female which is what i am wating for anyway. Or maybe one of theses days's they will finally come up with a real way for us guys who long to be girls to swap with females i would sign up for that right away. Oh well!. Suzy!.
For me, I don't have to, but I like to. There are those days when I feel that I really need to dress. It is kinda like a stress relief for me.
Hugs,
Ariel
It has became a need. :confused:Quote:
Originally Posted by Shining Star
Most definitely a need. There have been times when I have felt "ashamed" of it and tried to purge everything in order to get a more "normal" life. I could sometimes go for a few months but there is no way to stop. The desire was always there and eventually it would consume me again. Its a very expensive and time wasting process finding out that this is who I am and not try to change it. Overall, though, it is very much a need.
For me it just is.It's become such a part of my life now,even though I don't go out or dress completely.It's just me.
Oh, I guess it is...Eva is a part of me. I couldn't resist her if I tried. :rolleyes:
Cool, a fellow Qld'er. I have too, i know its me and i can't ignor it. for years i tried too suppress it, finding myself acting, well........insane. yeah i need it!
By the way big fan of sailor moon, I used to tape the episodes from agro's cartoon conection.
sorry people its an australian thing
for sure it is a need for me... it is a part of who I am and I can tell you from experience if I am unable to be myself for too long You will see one depressed and cranky person.
For me its a hobby, its something I enjoy doing. But its not something I need to do every day. It is fun when it fits into my life. Actually if I had more of a chance to do it I think it would grow into more than a part-time hobby but it just doesn't fit in my life right now.
although I may only do it once every two months.
For me , crossdressing is a pasttime. I do it whenever I get a chance. I'll wear panties to work some times or dress en femme when my wife isn't home.
Gennee :)
[SIZE=2]Aloha,
For me, both, a needed pasttime! I can go a month or two without dressing, however I do need to be a Tgirl at times in order to feel complete. [/SIZE]